My daughter-in-law said that if I brought my parents to live with me, she would take the children away. What should I do?

People have their own character, so do their parents. There are no similarities, and thousands of daughter-in-law in Qian Qian are also various.

Some parents are always afraid of dragging down their sons and daughters-in-law, and always want to help their sons and daughters-in-law reduce their burden, be diligent, kind and tolerant, and think of others. There are also many daughters-in-law of this character. If such parents-in-law and such daughter-in-law live together, it must be a happy and harmonious family.

And some parents-in-law are lazy, strong and vicious. They always thought that their son was married, that is, someone was waiting on him, and they regarded their daughter-in-law as their free nanny. Once their daughter-in-law doesn't do what they want, they will make a scene and even provoke their son to hit her. If the daughter-in-law is a kind person, she will be wronged. If the son is a clear carrier and knows how to protect his daughter-in-law, her life will be better. If the son stands on the side of his parents and works with them to deal with his daughter-in-law, her life will be too miserable. The unbearable result of being wronged is divorce and family separation. If the daughter-in-law is also a powerful role, then the family will be restless, there will be no peaceful and happy days, and finally it will end in divorce.

If the parents-in-law are kind and the daughter-in-law is fierce, if they live together, then the parents-in-law may become the nanny of the daughter-in-law and be wronged. If the son protects his parents, the daughter-in-law will bully his parents-in-law more and more.

Even if parents-in-law and daughter-in-law are good people, they may live together because of their different living habits, eating habits and consumption habits, and they don't like each other, which leads to the inability to live in peace. Everyone is very wronged. Unhappy.

I don't know who the parents of the subject are or who the daughter-in-law is. But since the daughter-in-law said that if he took his parents to live together, she would take the children away. Being able to say such a thing shows that the daughter-in-law is unhappy with her parents-in-law in recent years, and the daughter-in-law has many dislikes about her parents-in-law.

If I don't like living together, there will be many contradictions, and chickens fly and dogs jump all day. Is the subject willing to live like this? Would you rather your parents be wronged or your daughter-in-law be wronged? Or are you willing to suffer from splint by yourself?

If you want to be filial to your parents, put yourself in their shoes. They live with their son's family, see their son and grandson every day, and enjoy the family happiness of their children and grandchildren. They are happy and comfortable. But if your daughter-in-law doesn't want to, there will be contradictions between them in the future, which will affect the harmony of your small family.

If you feel sorry for your wife, put yourself in her shoes. A family of three plus two people. Before, she was worried about the daily life of three people, and later she was worried about the daily life of five people. In this way, she has her own time except the pots and pans at home. Is she happy? So that your parents can live comfortably.

Whether you are filial to your parents or distressed by your daughter-in-law, you always have to take one, but taking one will make the other miserable. In the end, your whole family had a hard time, and it was smoky, so it was better not to bring it in. The so-called far fragrance is close to stink, maybe that's it.

There are many ways to be filial to parents, and cohabitation is not the only way. We should fully consider the opinions of parents and daughter-in-law, and don't go it alone. Choose the best way to make parents happy and daughter-in-law and children happy. Only when they are all happy can you be happy.