What if you are isolated by college roommates?

This situation is not uncommon. Now most students are only children. How to get along with classmates and roommates really needs skills. In recent years, there have often been some dormitories, that is, a dormitory, and they have all been admitted to prestigious schools after graduating from college; However, it has not been reported that some dormitory members have failed their courses, which makes graduation difficult.

To get along with roommates, we need to grasp two principles. First, if you are with others, try to respect their living habits and try not to disturb others' rest. For example, if someone needs to go to bed early at night, then it can be agreed that the dormitory should turn off the lights in advance, and others should try their best to be quiet. If you are free at ordinary times, you can actively participate in group activities in the dormitory. For example, if someone has a birthday, we will go out to eat together.

Netizen 2:

I am the one who is excluded. People will never give you a good look, and the study group will deliberately avoid you. The university is a mess. I hate them very much. I'm just a loner, so they hate me and reject me, and no matter how hard they try, they don't want to blend in with others.

It seems that people are better than me. I've never seen anyone with such a bad personality. This may be the disaster of my life. The past is over, and my hatred for them will not decrease. I hate them. Sometimes being isolated is not necessarily my fault. Some girls just have bad personalities.

Netizen 3:

Since they are two-legged creatures, what are you afraid of? I was also rejected by my roommates, but that was because they played too much and I didn't care. After that, nothing happened. There must be something wrong with being excluded. Think about it. Is it because you are bad-tempered, selfish, or outspoken and so on? Strive for correction and face mistakes. If you have no problem, don't be afraid of others, be calm and be modest. If your roommate is isolated on purpose, ignore it. After all, you are going to study, not to make friends.

Netizen 4:

My advice is: don't be afraid of these people psychologically. Often the more you are afraid, the more others want to bully you. Work and rest on time every day, and they ignore you. You can also put on a gesture that has nothing to do with their old age. If they scold you, pretend you don't understand.

If these people's directionality is too obvious, you don't have to play dumb. It's best to directly target the leader or the weakest one as a starting point and ask her what she really means. These people can't be monolithic. If you seize the opportunity to treat her once, they should exercise restraint. If anyone dares to do it, it's as simple as that.

Netizen 5:

What you said is very similar to one of my roommates. She's never been there. It's her first time in college. Seriously, this is largely your own problem. She doesn't know how to deal with the roommate relationship. For example, sometimes we are joking, but she takes it seriously. For example, she thinks she stinks, but we really don't smell it. She also told us that she went to see a doctor on purpose. I think it's really your problem. You've never been there, and you get cranky whenever something happens. Well, it's a long story.

Netizen 6:

As a girl, I hate the reason why people say you are looking for yourself after problems arise. I think some things are not just about finding your own reasons. What are you afraid of? They are not wolves, tigers and leopards. I am a girl, too. I also know that people in the dormitory are noisy and I can't sleep. Sometimes, you know the blindfold is not good.

But I have to take these things, because the damage of these things is very insignificant compared with my sleep. Give you a suggestion: soak in the library during the day, go back to sleep at night, and sleep in the dormitory. There is no need to care too much. Get the scholarship you deserve, and the documents. You know, college is fast.