Some people think that human temperament

To know how to make yourself more temperament, we must first understand what the so-called temperament means. Have a lot of temperament. Different people have different understandings of what constitutes temperament. As far as the average person is concerned, saying that a person is very temperament often means that there is a distinctive feature between his gestures and expressions, which is contrary to "vulgarity, vulgarity and vulgarity". This is actually confusing temperament with grace. From the psychological point of view, temperament is a person's relatively stable personality characteristics, such as frankness, calmness, liveliness, impetuousness and depression. , and more is the inner thing; Elegance is an elegant gesture, such as unique tone, gesture and action. It can be said that demeanor is the external expression of a person's deep mental state, personality temperament, moral cultivation, cultural taste and life mood.

We often hear that someone has a good temperament, while men often say that he is handsome and elegant, and women often describe him as elegant, decent and feminine. Indeed, temperament and grace complement each other. Manner is the expression of temperament, and temperament must be based on internal temperament. Elegant manners depend on elegant temperament. Without good temperament, it is difficult to have good manners. Charming beauty is the unity of one's inner wisdom and outer beauty. Compared with the beauty of appearance, the elegance of demeanor is a deeper and more mature beauty. The beauty of charm is not uniform, gentle and quiet, magnificent and rough; Pure enthusiasm is beauty, and maturity and solemnity are also beauty. Manners are always accompanied by etiquette. A polite person must know the importance of politeness. Even if the temperament is rough and cold, people generally don't choose a rough self-image.

There was a poem in the ancients: "I was drunk when I turned over my shirt and sleeves, and I was covered in poetry." In order to make my temperament and manners better, I think we should start with inner cultivation first. To know what beauty is and how to calculate elegance, we must improve our moral conduct, increase our cultural heritage and enhance our aesthetic taste, that is, we must first learn to seek truth, be kind and love beauty. To do this, I'm afraid it's hard to succeed without ink on an empty stomach. Therefore, we should read more books and think more, so that our words and deeds can be more profound and our thoughts more profound, and only when we treat people can we have an elegant and calm attitude. We should know more about artistic language and have certain appreciation ability and interest in various artistic categories, so as to learn from others in appreciation, improve our aesthetic cultivation and ability, and cultivate our noble aesthetic taste; We should also master some basic etiquette knowledge, so as to know how to externalize the inner beauty of temperament into the beauty of manners and appearance, and be more elegant and decent.

Here, according to my own personal experience, I especially recommend the compulsory contents to improve my self-cultivation and enhance my aesthetic perception:

First, read more world famous books. It can make us understand human nature more deeply and accept infinite emotional edification. Extensive reading of world literary masterpieces is certainly the best, if not the only, way to cultivate noble temperament. The reason why famous works can remain immortal is that they all depict the most essential things in human nature without exception, and they all have beautiful language expressions, which are the cultural essence accumulated over the ages, so those literary masterpieces of any era still have their irreplaceable value. Nowadays, young people in China can't sit still and sink without reading famous books. This is influenced by the impetuous and reckless behavior of the whole society. I think this is also an inevitable process of social transformation. As the western countries have experienced, I believe that traditional values will inevitably return. I once wrote a picture "concentration" as my motto, and I want to give it to all the students who want to make themselves more temperamental.

The second is to learn to listen to western classical music (mainly symphonies). Fred said that if you don't love music, you don't deserve to be human. Music is a higher revelation than all philosophy and wisdom, and it is the first of all kinds of art and the art of emperors. Music can make people's mind and spiritual realm noble, which is a spiritual baptism. Music will not make you rich, but it will make you happy; It can't save your soul, but it will make your soul worth saving. Therefore, quite a few lovers are aesthetes, perfectionists and idealists. Of course, the music here is not pop music, but classical music, mainly symphonies. The former vice premier once instructed that classical music should be popularized among college students. Now it is also strongly advocated to let elegant culture enter the campus. In my opinion, a scholar can do anything, but he can't be vulgar (vulgar, vulgar, vulgar), and vulgarity can't be cured. The most important thing for a few years in college is to learn to study, and then cultivate a temperament, a temperament that is regarded as being baptized by culture. Classical music seems to change people's temperament more easily. With temperament, ability follows and knowledge is absorbed; Temperament, although not all have ambitions, but not only a sparrow's heart.

Third, we should see more famous Chinese and foreign paintings (I prefer western paintings). This is an excellent way to cultivate a sense of artistic form. The essence of art appreciation is not superficial appreciation, but feeling, feeling the beauty of lines, shapes, colors, tones, static and dynamic. Line is the most vivid part of painting elements, and color is the most emotional element in painting. Tone is an important factor that constitutes the theme and artistic conception. A painting has different colors, but there must be several main colors, which constitute the tone and control the whole picture. Painting needs color sense, and appreciation also needs color sense, just like music in music and language in language. Almost all art, in a sense, is a pioneer with a peak experience that ordinary people can't even imagine. By reading and appreciating their works, we can feel the surging tide in their hearts and the desire and struggle in their souls, thus subliming our spiritual realm.

Then what we are doing now is to master the basic knowledge of etiquette and receive relevant training. Words and deeds that conform to etiquette must be beautiful, harmonious and natural. It is unthinkable to be a modern man with taste, grace, accomplishment and charm, who doesn't understand etiquette and doesn't follow etiquette norms. As John, a British bourgeois thinker, said, "No one likes unpolished diamonds, and it is not good to wear them. But once polished and inlaid, it will give birth to brilliance. Virtues are a kind of spiritual wealth, but what makes them shine is good manners ... In any case, you must have elegant methods and attitudes to look beautiful and get the joy of others. " Aristotle also said: "each of us is made by our repeated actions." So Excellence is not an act, but a habit. "Excellent habits are truly excellent. Only through conscious practice, this excellent behavior pattern can become one's own conscious action, form a habit, make oneself more temperamental and play a better role in communication activities.

So, can dressing up change people's temperament? The answer is, of course, yes. Choosing what clothes to wear is essentially the embodiment of a person's role orientation, just like walking in a spotless hall, you will never be embarrassed to spit and litter. Wearing avant-garde clothes will give yourself a psychological hint of cynicism; When you wear traditional and classic professional clothes, you will feel that you are moving closer to professionalism; When you put on lively and bright jeans, you will feel full of vigor and vitality; You will feel more gentle and demure when you wear elegant and decent ladies' clothes. These different psychological feelings directly affect your corresponding speech and behavior, and finally form your unique temperament.

A woman of temperament

Someone once said that an unattractive woman should be judged. If she is reasonable, she can be called a "woman with temperament". Fortunately and unfortunately, I often get such praise. However, I am confident that I have temperament.

A woman with temperament never has a high fever about fashion. Fashion always dresses women up as petty bourgeoisie, bobo and middle class to win their hearts, while a woman with temperament is always 36' C-neither too hot nor too cold. Never enough or crazy to chase. Don't think that she doesn't understand amorous feelings. A woman with temperament will calmly explore the factors that suit her from fashion. Or abandon fashion and admire yourself. Who says this is not fashion? A woman with temperament knows how to dress herself. Seemingly ordinary, you will pass by inadvertently, but when you stop paying attention, there are always some seemingly casual carvings that you will savor. Looking at a woman's clothes with temperament is like looking at Japanese literature-a bowl of crystal clear water, which is salty only after tasting it.

A woman with temperament loves music. Instead of looking like a certain kind of person, arty. Listening to music is as natural and indispensable as breathing air. When most people rushed into the "Mystery Garden", when every street was hummed by Matthew Lane, a woman with temperament always smiled. This seems to remind me of the rice soaked in water when I was a child-I won't use it to satisfy my hunger now. She knows how to strengthen nutrition. If listening to music is compared to eating, dinner is usually solemn: the dinner is Turandot, and the background music is a drama piece sung by Caras or Botticelli. If there is wine, there must be Mrs. Butterfly-the strong taste is like a glass of absinthe, which makes people feel willingly, although they can't stop crying. For dessert after dinner, I might as well have some piano sketches by Greg. Soft and lyrical keys hit all over my body, and quiet notes were printed everywhere. So, I-an elegant action-played fantasy when the light was on. Like a blooming flower.

A woman with temperament loves books. It is because of the edification of books that gentle and elegant women are born. Women's gestures, brushstrokes and styles are full of scholarly charm. Books and women set each other off. Wise you can always feel which woman she looks like in The Book of Songs, or whose become a butterfly is reborn in her confused eyes. Full of fragrance, she is shallower than Tang poetry and deeper than legend. A woman with temperament is a landscape, you can only watch it from a distance, don't play with it. If you are talented and like-minded, you will be fortunate to be friends with Mei Lan. Being with a woman with temperament is like entering Lan Zhi's room-I can't smell its fragrance for a long time. I only feel that my heart and spleen are cool and quiet, and all the invasion of evil and dirty qi can't just be moved outside the cloud nine. A woman with temperament is a good book. She can't be read by anyone, and not everyone can.

A woman with temperament knows life. No one's life will be perfect. Worry, anxiety, disappointment ... always sneak out of Pandora's box and wait for an opportunity to invade our happy hearts. Did you get mixed up in the dust? A woman with temperament will first dust them off and temporarily "live somewhere else". When you are sober, you are killing a beautiful comeback. "Living poetically" is the principle she abides by. Therefore, she has been living a poetic life. Wake up in the morning, pick a white cloud and put it in your pocket, and the mood of the day will be light and elegant. No matter how busy she is at work, she can take time off and let go of her mood: the grass under the window is finally exposed; The ink dripping on the paper represents a puppy; The color of the sunset glow is unpredictable, and I can't figure out which colors to reconcile; When the snow falls, there is no order at all, and the direction is changed at will ... It is precisely because of these small bright spots that the days will not be gloomy.

A woman with temperament is not an out-of-touch fairy. She replied that life was orderly and uninteresting. If time permits, a big dinner will be cooked. While listening to the coloratura soprano's opera aria, I was cooking in the kitchen. After cleaning up, an oil painting with good color and fragrance jumped onto the table: candlelight flickered, and the elegant tone set off by the plaid tablecloth and the blue printed cloth tray was heavy and light. Flowers are intertwined and fragrant. It's not just the dishes, but also the mood-eating is no longer a simple matter.

A woman with temperament is always warm in her heart. One night at 10: 30, she would get up quietly after her husband was breathing evenly on the pillow, light the desk lamp of the book, watch a passage from Duras, or send it casually by Li Yu, or just meditate. Looking at the moonlit night outside the window, I let my thoughts dance lightly in time and space, perhaps remembering a fragrant past, with a smile blooming on my lips, as clear as the new moon in the sky.

A woman with temperament has many good qualities; There are many kinds of women with temperament. Maybe, she's with you.

A woman with real temperament will never tell others what books she has read, where she has been, what clothes she has and how many jewels she has, because she is not inferior. -Yi Shu.

Can stand, afford, spend, and show off.

Beauty can be born, but temperament is acquired. I'll teach you a few tricks in the summary.

1. Stand: stand up straight, hold your head up and abdomen in, don't look up at the sky, don't hold your chest out, and everything should be flat. This is the minimum standing posture, and no matter where and where, as long as you stand, you must keep this form, and over time you will form a habit. If you say no, I can't stand that effect, then go home, put your heels, hips, shoulders and back of your head against the wall, put your hands down vertically, and put your legs in the cage and stand at attention for half an hour, every day. I can't believe you can't stand that effect.

2, sitting, sitting posture must be elegant, the upper body should be straight, the hips only sit one-third of the chair, the legs can be placed on the left or right side in parallel, or one leg can be placed on the other leg, and the legs naturally droop. But don't spread your legs or tilt your legs on the chair. If you are not used to it, take advantage of the rest time to exercise yourself.

3. Go: Use the word "stand" first, hold your head up, chest up and abdomen in, and don't always count your toes. Walking on the road regards the road as your home and your own runway, but it doesn't mean being overbearing. You should walk like everyone else, look around, get out of your own momentum, don't run to the meteor, and don't walk because you are afraid of stepping on the ants on the road. Slow and steady. The rest is the walking posture. You can press the button, and the button on the hip will show the waist posture, but don't move the upper body all the time, giving people a sense of levity. Keep your hands vertical and swing back and forth gently, especially when you are in a military posture or in a positive step, but be natural.

4. Another thing to pay attention to in appearance is clothing. It doesn't have to be a famous brand, but it must be suitable for your age, figure and personality. Good clothes are good for others, but they may not suit you.

Now that we have looks, what we need now is self-confidence, self-confidence that we are the most beautiful and excellent. Do not put it on your lips. You must be modest. Smart people are always praising others. Don't advertise yourself online like this. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment when others see you. Hide it in your heart, radiate it from your heart and show it on your face.

6. Speaking of faces, talk about facial expressions, smile, remember to smile, don't be stupefied, and don't laugh. If you can't smile without grinning, then gently raise your mouth. The most important thing is your eyes. When you listen to others or talk to others, you must look at their faces. Don't look around. I remember a book saying that a woman's eyes are a door to her soul. Make good use of it and show your confidence.

Well, everything is ready, no matter whether you are tall or short, beautiful or ugly, give yourself a little confidence, believe that you are the most individual, show your confidence and add more temperament to yourself.

I almost forgot that the most important thing is that you should have cultivation and connotation. Don't talk about others behind their backs. That man looks very elegant, but he is full of dirty words. Remember, no matter you are a beautiful woman or a person with temperament, don't swear, because that will ruin all your images. Temperament is from the heart, so keep a pure and kind heart.

(A) the sexual temperament of men

The characteristics of male temperament are calm, resolute, persistent, open-minded, bold, cheerful, optimistic, rough, tenacious, dignified, bold, decisive, broad and deep, and have a special sense of strength.

(B) Women's sexual temperament

A woman's temperament is the concentrated expression of her best character, that is, the highest expression of moral purity and noble sentiment.

The premise of true femininity is to have lofty ideals in life. A woman's fate should not depend on a man, but on her own efforts, her inner strength and the extent to which her talents can be brought into play. The more a woman pays attention to her talent and ability, and the more she pays attention to her ability to communicate with men mentally and psychologically, the more brilliant her beauty and femininity will be. How can girls cultivate good temperament?

How do girls cultivate good temperament?

1. Read more books,&; There is Yan Ruyu in the uot book &; Uot yeah!

2. Pay attention to some information about fashion, clothing and accessories.

Pay attention to your manners and avoid vulgarity. What is the dual personality of network? In short, it is action and spoken language.

4. Walking is to try to hold your head up, chest up and abdomen in. You may feel uncomfortable at first, but you will do it unconsciously after a long time. Wearing high heels will help.

5. Talk to those people with good temperament voluntarily. More times, you will find that the tension and formality disappear or decrease, and you will be able to cope with it. We call it desensitization.