What's it like to be deaf and speechless?

Some people can't hear from birth, and his world is a silent movie. We can only try to figure out what others are saying by constantly observing their expressions, mouths and gestures.

Because the ear can hear the sound, and then combine it with the sound from other people's mouths, the two will become learned words and expressions, and then they can be spoken from their own mouths. When they hear that their pronunciation is different from others, they just need to correct it.

So deaf people are divided into deaf people who are not dumb, but they can't hear the sound, so they don't know how to pronounce it. This kind of training can gradually learn to use your own voice and make a sound. The other is deaf and dumb. This kind of deaf-mute is the most serious one, because they can't hear or speak, and the world is completely silent to them. There is another kind of person who is deaf and dumb. In this case, people are at their best, because they can hear voices and clearly know what others are saying. It is not so difficult for people in this situation to learn. They can learn a lot, but they just can't express what they have learned with their mouths.

The most painful thing is that you can't hear anything or say anything. You can't hear what others say, and you can't say what you want to say. People in this situation should be desperate, right

My original intention is not to talk about deaf people, but to imagine what my grandmother has been thinking since she couldn't hear or say anything. It's hard to imagine what her inner world is like since her hearing has been weakened step by step and her voice is a little speechless.

If it is congenital, it may be easier for people to accept, but if it is acquired, it will be a great blow to people. Because habits are at work.

It is terrible to get used to this kind of thing, and it is especially difficult to change it, especially for decades. If a person is born deaf and dumb, then from the moment he is born, he will gradually adapt to it. Finally, he got used to listening and speaking, and the people around him gradually got used to it.

However, if you can't hear or speak the day after tomorrow, it will be unacceptable to yourself and your relatives around you.

Grandma is actually not even 80 years old, but she looks like an old woman in her 90 s. Since five years ago, grandma can't hear others clearly. If you want to say something to her, she can't hear you clearly until you talk to her loudly. She can't say what she wants to express. At first, she could speak a little, but her voice was as low as a mosquito. You must go to her, bend down, put your ear close to her and listen to what she is saying. Nowadays, grandma can hardly hear what we say, and we can't understand what she says.

Aunt said that she went home and talked and laughed with her aunt. Grandma thought she was talking about her, and then she began to get angry. Later, our grandson went to see her, and she also cried. Later, when she couldn't hear or speak, she didn't respond ... maybe she was used to her state?

I have been thinking since I was a child, if a person is old, his teeth are gone, his ears can't hear, his voice can't be heard, and he can't do anything, what's the point of living like this? It is better to simply die, so as not to make yourself suffer or drag others down. Even now, I have been thinking that if one day I am too old to hear, say or do anything, I will choose a person to leave quietly. Because I don't want them to see my suffering or their sympathy.

However, I am only me after all, I am still young, and all this will not be verified until the day I am old! Maybe I'll change my mind then. ...