As the saying goes, "if you want to get ahead in front of others, you must suffer in front of others." How to understand it?

If you want to have dignity, you must endure both physical and mental tests. As long as you grit your teeth and stick to it, you will be the final winner. This is not only the happiest thing in life. You must go through a lot before you succeed. If you retreat, your life is doomed to mediocrity and mediocrity. As long as you persevere and tide over the difficulties, there will be a sunny day and enjoy the magnificent scenery in front of you.

If you want to have dignity in front of others, you need to suffer after others. What we see is that others enjoy all kinds of superior lives, but what we can't see is the hardships and efforts behind others. When you are satisfied with your ability to go to work on time every day, others come back a few hours earlier or a few hours later than you;

When you watch soap operas at home or sing in KTV at night, others are already reading books to review the qualification examination; When you want to sleep on weekends, others have already got up early to charge the library of the study class.

The world is fair to everyone. If you work hard, you may succeed. If you don't work hard, you won't succeed. Most people who work hard have succeeded. Don't always feel that society is unfair to you. Don't hate and envy those privileged successful people. Complaining and complaining will only make you sink deeper and deeper into the abyss of failure.

Change ideas, face up to yourself, believe in yourself, and strive to change yourself from a person who would rather rain for others to a person who is willing to serve others. At the same time, they will also be indignant at the four people in front who carefully held the umbrella, especially the person behind, who not only had a low attitude, but also sacrificed himself in the rain and held the umbrella respectfully.