Do you care about your girlfriend's past?

I don't care about my girlfriend's past. What kind of past she has is her business. What I care about is whether she loves me or not and whether there will be a bright future between us.

Everyone wants his girlfriend to be pure. If a girlfriend has an abortion, most men will mind and say that they don't mind at all. That's lip service.

A woman, once in love, but broke up, in my opinion, it's no big deal.

I don't know what a woman's past is like. Is it the kind where she takes part in various social activities extensively and shows her feminine charm to the fullest in front of every man, or the kind where there are countless boys around her who are dedicated to beautiful women?

I can't explain such a thing clearly. Maybe many men will think that women should be stable and should not talk about love so many times. If you have too many friends of the opposite sex around you, you will feel bohemian and so on.

But I don't think so. Women have the same social interaction and rights as men. Although she has come into contact with many men, being able to mix well with them means that she can control herself rather than lose herself.

Since we can become lovers, feelings seem to have reached a certain depth, but feelings are fragile things. If we care too much about our lover's past, it will hurt today's relationship. You will live in anxiety and anxiety, which will do harm to yourself and your lover.

Relax, no one has the ability to change what happened before, and no one can go back to the past with the moonlight box in a Chinese Odyssey and become the first lover. Ten years in the same boat, a hundred years in the same bed, knowing each other is fate, and finally becoming lovers is a predestined marriage in previous lives. Let's go hand in hand and pursue the happiness that belongs to two people.

In any case, what should be valued is the future, not the past. For the feelings between lovers, everyone should treat the people around him with normality and tolerance. Everyone has a past, everyone has a past. Right or wrong, let bygones be bygones.

Caring about your lover's past may be because you love her, but really loving her should be loving her now. You have the ability and right to change and create. There is a truth in life, which has been used and verified by countless people: if you want to live a quiet life, don't dig into your lover's past, but cherish what you have now. People are happy not because they get more, but because they care less.