This relationship really makes me very difficult and distressed.

both sides feel that they are not worthy of each other?

because of the distance. Because I want a result so badly.

well, I'll give you a long one, and you must give me the points.

Love each other together.

The principle of long-distance love

No.1 Long-distance love is not suitable for people who lack the necessary writing skills to express their passionate feelings.

No.2 Men who just want to get physical feelings had better not get involved. Desire is more likely to destroy long-distance relationships.

No.3 Long-distance love needs more economic input, such as the cost of long-distance telephone access and the cost on the way when meeting.

No.4 This is the most important thing: it is best for a man to be experienced and coax a woman, and make her feel the meaning of embracing her with words.

No.5 The conditions of each other should not be too far apart, otherwise there will not be enough communication to eliminate the sense of instability.

No.6 Men must have confidence and women must be patient.

No.7 In a long-distance relationship, don't talk about rights, because you love her and you have only obligations to her; Because you love her, you only tolerate him.

First of all, this code is only for men and women who take their feelings seriously.

For unrestrained women and playboys, please give up unrealistic fantasies.

General rule: Long-distance love means the pain of lovesickness, infinite care and

waiting, and great trust and faith in this love.

So don't choose those who don't believe in love, those who don't love deeply, those who are weak-willed, the modern avant-garde

those who have been liberated, and the few who believe in love,

those who love deeply, are traditional and determined. Here are some suggestions for long-distance love.

Rule 1: Make good use of the short message function of the mobile phone, and send a message if you have nothing to do without affecting her

work and study. First, it means that you think of her, and second, she can immediately feel your existence. Even if she has any

thoughts or is doing something that may destroy the relationship between you, she will

restrain her mind. And if you have ever had the experience of having dinner with one person

or taking a walk, but she kept sending short messages, you can understand how unhappy this is for another person. Even if someone next to you is playing

with ulterior motives, it will be a poacher, and the enthusiasm will be gone for the time being. When

she may be silent, if she doesn't reply to many messages, just dial the phone directly when it is confirmed that she should be

ok, and everyone will say anything. On the whole, the mobile phone is a good thing.

Article 2: No matter men or women, except old lovers, accidents can't happen in the daytime

, but always at night. So remember to send a short message to say good night every day and make sure that he

sleeps where he belongs. If you are strict, you are not allowed to go out alone with the opposite sex at night. If you have something to say hello first, even if you go out, don't

forget to remind him to go back to the dormitory later. The width is wide, and the strictness is strict

. If you don't listen, you might as well make a scene. Tell him what you will do, and care about it. Everyone has a conscience.

article 3: if he is in the same city as his old lover, he should be more tolerant. Let him frankly explain his normal relationship with his old lover in front of you.

Don't say anything even if you are angry. This is a little injustice, but if he doesn't say anything to you, the situation will only get worse. You know, after all, you're not with him, and

you can't break this kind of silk without knowing it, and it will only get more and more chaotic. In the end, you will hurt people

yourself, but you will ruin your love and push him to your old lover. Generally speaking,

not many people go back, and chatting with old lovers is nothing more than having a past

, so everyone can talk openly and have a good talk. Of course, there is a limit to everything, and it is still necessary to pull it back after it has passed. Noisy is the best way to pull it back. I think everyone always has a little experience of noisy, but it is still the same sentence. Everything has a limit and you should master it yourself.

Article 4: Speak out your love. No matter how long we talk, love remembers to say it often. This is how the passion of the old couple is cultivated. No matter how many times they hear it, no matter men or women, they will always be happy to hear the words I love you. I can't see it when I'm in a long-distance relationship, let alone how she knows you love her.

article 5: take care of everything, and do what others want you to do first

article 6: keep a certain frequency of meeting, preferably once every few months.

The pain of lovesickness also needs to be released. A few days of sweetness will make up for the lovesickness in the past few months.

article 7: if two people are open and aboveboard, it is best to tell each other

what they are doing and where they are. In this way, both sides will have a bottom in their hearts and feel at ease < P >. Moreover, this has formed a habit, and the possibility of being poached will be greatly reduced.

article 8: if you love her, you must trust her. After all, it is a strange place, so it is impossible to

see her words and deeds every day, and the suspicion of ignorance will ruin the sweetness of two people.

article 9: consider a bottom line before everything, to prevent yourself from being caught off guard by

sudden changes, and always do things in a good direction, but be prepared for bad things.

Article 1: Try not to choose to make love, which will exert great psychological pressure on mm, and if there are problems in the future, it will also cause great harm to MM. And the process of love is the most interesting, and it is too boring to finish it at once < P >. Chasing mm, indulging mm, pampering mm, wanting to see mm, wanting to hug mm,

saying a lot of disgusting words and watching mm bow her head shyly, these are the most interesting

. If you want to do sports and be taken care of by mm, it is estimated that you can experience it slowly for decades

, but it will be difficult to find this kind of heart-warming feeling now

, so

Article 11: Praise mm more for its beauty and beauty. If you want to live a lighter

relaxed life, long-distance lovers must hold mm more, so that mm will have confidence, and then

be more relaxed and less suspicious of you.

Article 12: Long-distance relationships are most afraid of pique and misunderstanding. If they are piqued and misunderstood for a long time, those who dig corners will take advantage of it, make everything clear, and

be rational after feeling is over. Of course, if no one really wants to bow their heads,

please don't give priority to girls at this time, and we will take the initiative.

Love generally has two stages.

The first stage is to like, and if you like it, you will show your love, such as chasing. But don't say "I love you" at that time, it can only be said that I like you, I yearn for you, I admire you, and you are very attractive.

The second stage is love, and the basis of love is values, personality, aesthetics and so on, which are very congenial and tacit. Through thick and thin, with kindness, these feelings can't be dissolved, which means love.

If you love more, you want to live together forever, and you get married. The first year of paper marriage shows that love is not enough. Later, diamond marriage, the kind of family relationship that lasts forever, is really much deeper than that of young people in love. Some people get married and enter the besieged city. However, after entering the second stage, the internal aspects such as values and personality are not harmonious. It is good for some people to run in, and some people want to run in unless they completely change themselves, so they can't run in, so they quarrel until they hurt their feelings and leave. < P > In short, liking is often because they are lonely, attractive to each other, beautiful and charming; And love is more because of similar interests, similar temperament, tacit understanding of feelings and long-term accumulation, resulting in attachment and responsibility. Love and love have different foundations.

So at the stage of love, people are used to expressing their feelings. At the stage of love, people will propose marriage and get married, and love will continue to grow until the sublimation of life.

My buddy is married and quite happy, which is a little experience. Here you are.

Tell me more about "hurt":

The first stage, like stage, hurt means that the person you like can't get it, and the other person has no feelings for you, or the other person is too playboy, or the other person has changed his mind and no longer has feelings for you ...

The second stage, love stage, also has the problem of changing his mind, but more injuries come from. The more painful it is. If you don't run in well, break up or divorce, then the vicissitudes and loneliness are very hurtful.

Add: I think there is eternal love, but it is difficult. There is a premise that thoughts and personalities should be consistent. If you are not a stranger at all, you will inevitably part ways. Then, the road you walk together will make each other cherish and attach more to each other, and it is not easy to separate if you want to. As for those who are based on mutual charm and attraction but have no tacit understanding of the heart, I had a good wish at that time, and I could make a vow of eternal love. But at that time, how can I know whether the two people's ideas are consistent or inconsistent after getting to know each other better? So swearing is empty talk, and the eternal foundation is love. If the ideas are inconsistent and I don't love, the oath will be empty. But there is still eternity. To find the right person, we must have long-term emotional accumulation.

Second, many people who love each other will face the problem of quarreling in the future, after all. Are you tolerant, too? Of course, you will argue with her, blindly tolerating will make you feel lost, and will make you suppress your dissatisfaction with her until one day. So I don't advocate tolerating everything. You think it's important to fight, and the two sides will fight, run-in, and suffer, and the bottom line will change. You usually change your original ideas. In order to avoid serious conflicts, you must modify your needs to adapt to each other as much as possible. In the constant running-in, You have formed a line between Chu River and Han River in all aspects, and each other knows where the other side's bottom line is, so you can't touch it easily. Over time, both sides have developed new habits. From quarreling once a day, once a month, and half a time every few months, your contradictions will become smaller and smaller, while your warmth will increase. I often think that it is the easiest to have contradictions from engagement to early marriage, so I wish you a safe passage.

In fact, love is like grinding. As long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish and polish the stones you already have. Have you started grinding? Many people think that people become lazy because their feelings are weak. Wrong! In fact, people are conquered by inertia first, so their feelings will fade. At a dinner party, it was suggested that eating more shrimps was good for your health. At this time, a middle-aged man suddenly said: Ten years ago, when my wife was my girlfriend, she said she would eat ten shrimps, so I peeled twenty for her! Now, if she wants me to help her peel shrimp shells, just kidding, I'm not even interested in helping her take clothes, and I'm still peeling shrimp shells! Do you hear me? No wonder more and more people only want to talk about lifelong love, but they are reluctant to enter marriage. Because marriage is easy to make people lazy. If everyone is too lazy to talk, too lazy to listen, too lazy to create surprises, too lazy to be gentle and considerate, then how can couples or lovers not drift away and become silent? So please remember: energetic love needs moderate diligent irrigation, and you can't be lazy when you are in love! There was a couple who made an appointment to have dinner and go shopping after work, but the girl was delayed because of the company meeting. When she arrived in the rain, she was already more than 3 minutes late. His boyfriend was very unhappy and said: You always do this, and now I am in no mood. I will never wait for you again! In a flash, the girl finally collapsed. Perhaps, she thought to herself, they have no future! Similarly, in the same place, another couple faces the same situation; When the girl arrived, she was half an hour late. Her boyfriend said, I think you must be very busy! Then he wiped the rain off the girl's face, and took off his coat and covered her. At this moment, the girl shed tears! But the tears flowing down her cheeks are warm. Do you feel it? In fact, love and hate are often just between our thoughts! Love should know how to be tolerant. Many things may just lie in the change of your mood! Do you understand? When someone falls in love with you and you think he's nice. That doesn't mean you will choose him. You said: You will fall in love only if you find someone you love very much. But when the other person asks you what it means to be very loving, you can't answer him because you don't know it yourself. Yes, we always think that we will find someone we love very much. But later, when we suddenly look back, we will realize how naive we were. If you never start, how do you know if you will love that person very much? In fact, the feeling of love is not discovered until we have experienced many things together. Maybe everyone wants to find a 1% partner in their mind, but have you ever wondered: will someone around you have been quietly paying for you for a long time, but you just didn't realize it? So, take a closer look at the people around you! He may have been waiting for you for a long time! Some people say that when drinking, the feeling of being slightly drunk at six points is the most comfortable. Muscles can be relaxed, and everything you see in your eyes is lovely. If you continue to drink, it is very likely that you will have a splitting pain and feel uncomfortable all over the body the next day, and completely lose the fun of drinking. When eating, the satisfaction of seven points is the most comfortable. With the smell of food in your mouth, plus dessert and fruit after dinner, it is absolutely enough to keep fit and healthy. If you continue to eat, you will probably get upset in the stomach, eat too much and want to sleep, and completely lose the fun of eating. When you love someone, love to eight points is absolutely just right. All expectations and hopes are only seven or eight points; The remaining two or three points are used to love yourself. If you continue to love more, it is likely to give each other heavy pressure, make each other breathless and completely lose the fun of love. So please remember, don't drink more than six points drunk, eat more than seven points full, and love someone more than eight points. My friend asked me that day: What should I do to love someone? I told him with a smile: In fact, everyone has a different view of love. If you are right, it is called enlightenment, but you are afraid that if you are wrong, it will become misleading. That would be bad! If you are also confused about love, perhaps the following passage can give you some enlightenment: love someone! To understand, but also to explain; To apologize, but also to thank; To admit mistakes, but also to correct mistakes; Be considerate and considerate; Is to accept, not endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is sympathy, not questioning.