Children secretly play with their mobile phones all day. How should we discipline them?

Why are you hiding to play? You just let him play aboveboard. If you need to play with him, as long as the method is proper, it will definitely cure the problem.

Don't scold me, that's what I did.

Before grade one, I gave him a mobile phone (my old one) and a new tablet, and he kept it for himself.

I can't wait to be with my mobile phone for 24 hours.

Go downstairs to throw garbage and play with your mobile phone, 7-year-old child!

Everyone says I can't do it.

A year and a half later, he stopped charging his mobile phone and playing games by himself.

My method is:

First, protect your eyes. Play continuously for no more than forty minutes. Otherwise the phone will be confiscated for two days. This is the red line. I control this flexibility. If I get angry, he can't touch the phone for two days.

Effect: When I appear in front of him, or my family says that he has been playing for a long time, he will immediately put down his mobile phone. Including playing games, when I realize that it has been a long time, especially when I show up, I will immediately put down my mobile phone and apologize to me.

Function: let him know that the most important thing is to protect his eyes, not not not to play with his mobile phone, but not to play for too long. By the way, establish my authority

Second, learn programming and know how to play the game.

I bought him a book on children's programming (I didn't sign up for class). After learning, I can make up small games and think about how the big game "The King Eat Chicken" was made up.

Curiosity about games and electronic products is not so strong.

Third, you can play games with him if you behave well.

WeChat games are usually played by mom, but he is obviously not fascinated by entertainment. I can play big games with him two or three times a semester, two or three times at a time.

I was very excited and looking forward to it at first. Because his family doesn't play games very much, he finds it boring to play games alone, and then he doesn't play much.

Fourth, guide the correct use of mobile phones.

Teach him to search the video he wants to learn with his mobile phone and look up new words.

Don't let him watch junk videos such as Tik Tok to convince people that this kind of homogenized bad video is meaningless, and try to make him agree with this view.

He chased the video of the game anchor for more than a year, but he stopped chasing it himself.

Fifth, cultivate interest and establish correct three views.

It took me half a year to cultivate my interest in reading, one extra-curricular book a day, without urging. Will be ups and downs because of the hero's experience, will be substituted into the story, will not be so interested in mobile phones.

And subjectively, self-correction has begun. To be a good student, you can't be obsessed with mobile phones.

Sixth, establish the authority of teachers.

Never say the teacher's fault in front of the children. Even if it is a mistake, you can't say it. The homework assigned by the teacher that needs the cooperation of parents should be actively completed.

The child felt that the teacher wanted to listen, so the teacher helped me solve many things.

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In doing so, the child will form a virtuous circle and naturally put down the phone.

Read more books, have a wide range of knowledge-easily master classroom knowledge-be praised by teachers-actively complete homework, continue to read more books-be praised by more people-study harder-set up correct and upward goals.

The appeal of mobile phones is almost gone.

This is a rather difficult problem to solve. Nowadays, people can hardly live without mobile phones. Parents' behavior is a role model for their children. How you play with your mobile phone and how you treat it have a great influence on your children. Setting an example is the best way to discipline children.

See how old the child is and how addicted he is. In the fifth grade of my family, my approach is: First, don't let children be alone with their mobile phones unless necessary. Second, some functions are set to "Youth Mode". Third, in addition to checking information and contacting affairs, try not to play mobile phones in front of her. Fourth, you can go out to class on weekends and arrange your time; Usually you can accompany her to study, play games and read extracurricular books. , so as to minimize the chances of playing mobile phones. Fifth, play occasionally and don't strongly object. You can set a time. For example, when I go to the toilet, I have to hold my mobile phone for ten minutes. Either someone comes out or my cell phone comes out. Otherwise, you can't bring it in next time, and you can also come out [covering your face] at the same time.

Children are small, not too free-range, look more; It's too big and I have no experience.

2 1 Century In the Internet era, mobile phones, as a tool of life, have been integrated into children's lives. The contradiction between children and parents about "mobile phones" has intensified.

First of all, as parents, we should make it clear that playing mobile phones is not a problem. The problem is how to let children control the use of mobile phones with moderate self-discipline. Our goal is to make children realize that mobile phones are just tools, and the joy of life is not just mobile phones.

So list the following points to help parents clearly understand the problems to be solved and the goals to be achieved:

Goal:

Suggested:

Nowadays, almost everyone has a smart phone. With more and more functions, we use it to make phone calls, play games and watch news. Mobile phones are becoming a part of our bodies. Adults can't live without mobile phones, and it is normal for children to secretly play with mobile phones. Therefore, how to prevent children from playing mobile phones has become a headache for parents.

The harm of children playing mobile phones is really great:

1. Physical injury, children watch mobile phones for a long time, and the light on the screen of mobile phones is the most harmful to their eyesight. At present, more and more primary and secondary school students' eyesight has dropped sharply, and electronic products have contributed greatly. Looking at the mobile phone for a long time, a posture will also have an impact on the shaping of the child's body shape. The image of "Guangxi boy" when he is angry with the teacher in class should have a lot to do with watching mobile phones.

2. Learning is affected. Most students who often watch mobile phones are addicted to games, unable to extricate themselves, gradually out of touch with the real society, withdrawn, prone to anger, inattention, listlessness and declining academic level. Last year's epidemic, during the online class at home, students contacted mobile phones all day, forming the habit of watching mobile phones, and the decline in grades is a good example.

In order to keep children away from mobile phones, families and schools must take corresponding measures, especially parents should do a good job in children's ideological work, manage their mobile phones and spend more time with their children. School homework, activities, notices, etc. It is forbidden to use WeChat, QQ, etc. , thus reducing students' access to mobile phones.

For the sake of children's future, we must stay away from mobile phones.

First, let's see if we are playing a game. Children's habits are basically owned by their parents. If they change their own, their children can be disciplined.

First of all, it depends on the age of the child. If the children are younger, parents can control them better and then guide them patiently, which can generally be corrected. If children grow up, have self-awareness and have a certain understanding of things, parents need to pay more attention.

Second, look at the family environment. Children play mobile phones, do adults at home often play mobile phones? Nowadays, no matter work or life, it is inseparable from mobile phones. Maybe parents themselves have been talking on the phone, but while playing with their mobile phones, they ask their children not to play with them. Children can't openly resist, they can only steal to play with their mobile phones.

Third, understand what children play on their mobile phones. Nowadays, mobile games and short videos are trying their best to attract people's attention, not to mention children, and adults are inevitably addicted. If children are addicted to games, they need early intervention. After all, children should still focus on their studies. Of course, there are not only games and short videos on the mobile phone, but also learning.

Here's how to communicate with children. The most basic principle is to respect each other, respect children's feelings and cognition, and understand TA's choice and behavior. On this basis, if parents often play mobile phones and affect their children, parents may need to take the lead in setting an example.

Actually, I think the word "discipline" is too heavy. We usually say that a person is particularly wrong in doing things, and that he "lacks discipline", but in the process of children's growth, what is more needed is correct guidance. Saying "discipline" seems to put children on the absolutely wrong side, and parents are absolutely right. Sometimes, I think parents need to reflect more.

I hope my answer is helpful to you.

Playing mobile phone, I fight with children.

As a typical representative of modern civilization, mobile phones carry too much content. Books piled up in the past are put into mobile phones, radio and television that used to get the latest news from the outside world are put into mobile phones, and movies that had to be seen in cinemas before are also put into mobile phones. Even the entertainment games are all loaded into the mobile phone. Because there are too many contents, it also guides the development of mobile phone technology, such as 3G/4G/5G, cameras, face recognition, and so on.

Whether it's content or high technology, parents are afraid that their children will fall behind if they don't touch it since childhood. As a parent of a child, I also have this mentality. On the one hand, I think it is the general trend that children should be exposed to mobile phones and modern high technology since childhood.

But on the other hand, I also have my own concerns. The main worry is that I have been nearsighted since I was a child. Now there are nearsighted children in the first and second grades of primary school, which makes parents very worried. Secondly, I am worried about violence and pornography on mobile phones. Does premature contact with children affect physical and mental health?

Just between watching mobile phones and making restrictions, we started one discussion and argument after another with our children:

Act I: You play, I limit.

At first, the child did not touch the mobile phone, but the tablet. At that time, the child was only over 2 years old. Seeing many children playing with cut watermelons, I thought I could let her play and save some time and energy in looking after the children. So, I bought a tablet for my child. The child not only cuts watermelons on it, but also plays some simple games on it. Because my mother and I often look after the children, when she sees a certain time, we will ask to put down our mobile phones, play for a while, eat and drink. However, when the child was three and a half years old, a conflict came. After playing for a while, the child was reluctant to let go, and the child's mother became angry and asked her to let go quickly. Unexpectedly, the child also lost his temper, stood on the sofa and slammed the tablet to the ground. I quickly picked it up and read it. After that, the screen of the mobile phone was broken, but fortunately it can continue to be used.

So after a period of time, after several bumps, my vision finally blurred. I can't bear to see children playing like this. I bought another tablet when my child was in preschool. The restriction of this paragraph is to let her go after watching her play for a while.

Act II: Change your mobile phone and set the time to use it healthily.

When the child was in the second grade, the second tablet she bought was broken and couldn't be opened. She was wondering whether to buy a tablet or a mobile phone. At that time, she thought that after buying a tablet, she would soon want a mobile phone, because children above grade 4 basically had mobile phones, so naturally she didn't want to fall behind. In view of this, she bought a mobile phone with a slightly larger screen for her child. This mobile phone has a better function, that is, it can be used healthily and can limit the time for children to use it. So I set a 40-minute limit for Mini World and a 30-minute limit for Tik Tok. She likes to play for two hours every day.

This restriction is very good. At first, it would not last more than 2 hours a day, but once, for special reasons, I lifted the restriction for her. As a result, I saw playing mobile phone for more than 6 hours that night, and I immediately collapsed and yelled at her: "Why don't you have any concept of time?" Therefore, she was restricted from participating in the competition for two weeks. Later, I found that the software that uses mobile phone time healthily doesn't seem to work. Children can always play for more than 2 hours. Although it is not much, it doesn't feel enough, so the upgrade is limited.

Act III: Mom watches the time at night.

Because there are always problems with the healthy use of mobile phones, we just want to check manually, and the mother will see how long the children play every night, so that the children will have scruples.

The incident passed peacefully for some time. However, just last weekend, because of something, we didn't have time to take care of the child, let her do her homework, watch TV and play with her mobile phone for a while. As a result, at night, I asked her to show my mother how long she had been playing with her mobile phone. She didn't dare to take it out, and then she took it out and waved it quickly in front of my eyes, afraid to show it to her mother. But if her mother wants to ask, I have to tell the truth for "three and a half hours". Her mother was so angry that she couldn't get it off 1 month. She couldn't stand it, and roared, "Xiaoming's parents in our class let him play with his mobile phone at will, without any time limit." I was very angry to have such parents, so I decided to call their parents and ask them. It's past 9 o'clock in the evening. I'll call them. Is there no time limit for children to play? As a result, people say, "Because I don't have time to take care of him during the New Year, there is no limit. They are not allowed to play at ordinary times and only play for two hours on weekends. " Hearing this, she immediately faded and accepted her mother's punishment.

At present, mobile phone children are suspended. It is hard to say that we have succeeded in this matter. This may be a topic of long-term discussion. The children's playing time will gradually change from short to long, and we will leave it alone until she grows up and her wings are hard. Maybe when she grows up, it will be an interesting experience to recall the role of mobile phones in her childhood and love and hate her parents.

It is basically an old problem to play mobile phone for a day, and parents have to bear a lot of responsibility. It is easier to form a bad habit than to correct it. It's up to you.

As the saying goes, children don't teach their parents fruit, how old children will not leave? Learning from reason is the key to learning. Set a time and set an example for yourself. It's not hard to understand that children can't be spoiled and spoiled from an early age.