Please talk about the shortcomings of current college students in emotional intelligence.

1. Insufficient cognitive ability of their own emotions

Although contemporary college students have a certain degree of knowledge and understanding of their own strengths and weaknesses, and with the growth of age and their independence, their cognitive ability of their own emotions is still insufficient. Freshmen, especially, have studied hard in the cold window for more than ten years. When they first enter the university campus, they often think that they are "favored by heaven" and pay more attention to their own advantages, but they are unwilling to face their own shortcomings and accept criticism from others. They are unwilling to accept problems that are contrary to their own opinions with an open mind, and they are prone to rebellious psychology when being criticized.

2. College students who have poor emotional management ability and are easily influenced by emotions

Most of them are only children and are in a special period of rapid psychological and intellectual development. Because college students have little social experience and lack of social experience, their understanding of life and social problems is often erratic, and they are prone to all kinds of contradictions, which are easily disturbed and influenced by various external factors. They cannot correctly understand and evaluate their emotional state and are easy to get emotional. The relationship between classmates or academic performance can cause emotional fluctuations.

3. Lack of self-motivation ability and poor psychological adjustment ability

Just entering the university, every student is full of confidence in his future, but with the growth of grade, his self-confidence gradually weakens. The university stage is a turning point in life. If college students want to adapt to the multiple roles entrusted to them by society, they will naturally be confused by various contradictions. Emotional problems, interpersonal relationships and fierce competition in employment are all the reasons that lead to their confusion and pain. Low self-motivation ability, poor psychological adjustment ability, weak frustration resistance and other reasons make some college students often unable to face difficulties and setbacks, sometimes choose to escape, easily fall into confusion, and then get depressed, and sometimes even take extreme measures to deal with problems.

4. Pay attention to others' emotions, but still be self-centered

Many college students can observe others' emotions, understand others' emotions and judge their emotional changes in time in the process of mutual communication. However, the understanding of other people's emotions is often superficial, without really considering the problem from the perspective of others, and unable to put yourself in others' emotional experience. This kind of emotional cognition has insufficient understanding and deviation. However, at the same time, college students' self-centered values are still widespread, and they have a strong sense of self-centeredness, regardless of other people's feelings, easy to make subjective judgments, and often have a strong personal color when evaluating others. They like to measure others and interpersonal relationships with ideal standards, and cannot make a correct and objective evaluation of others.

5. Low EQ leads to low morality and business

Some college students are muddled and waste precious college time. Do not pay attention to life and career development planning, lack of ideals, family and social responsibility is not strong. Such students tend to be paranoid about the society and the people and things around them, and obviously have defects in sympathy, tolerance, justice, integrity, self-control, respect for others, and kindness to reflect a person's moral and business qualities to varying degrees. This has seriously restricted college students from forming a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values.