To my husband: Why should I wait on you like a nanny?

As a husband and wife, I can take care of you, but I have no obligation to wait on you like a nanny?

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"Wife, where are my shirts, socks and underwear?"

"Wife, my socks to wash, underwear to wash? No change. "

"Wife, what fruit do we have at home? I want to eat. "

"Wife, do you think my shoes should be polished?"

"Wife, should our toilet be brushed?"

"Wife, how to make baby milk powder?"

Go to clean up on Monday morning, and you will be late again. There he goes again. "Wife, where did you put my charging treasure?"

I'm completely angry. I'm your nanny. Why do you ask me everything? I don't know this or that every day. Are you from this family?

I slammed the door and left, in a bad mood.

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To my husband: Why should I wait on you like a nanny?

What is even more exasperating is that my husband's mother, my good mother-in-law's point of view, simply blew me up. I chatted with her and said: My husband does nothing but lie in bed and watch his mobile phone at home.

My mother-in-law said flatly, hey, I have used him like this for so many years. I haven't done any work. I can't help it.

I got angry immediately: my mother never let me work at home, and now I can do everything. You can't take it. This will not be an excuse.

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To my husband: Why should I wait on you like a nanny?

I quarreled with my husband the other day, so I put away all my concern for him.

I'm too lazy to talk to him. I look after my children, do my work and tidy up my home.

But he couldn't sit still and came to flatter me.

"Wife, when will you brush my shoes? I have no shoes to wear. " I was silent.

He continued to lose face and skin, even close to my face.

I asked: Why should I serve you? I have an obligation to serve my son and take care of my parents. Who are you?

He brushed his shoes that day.

In the days after this happened, he tried to please me in various ways. After nothing, he flew into a rage.

Shouted, "what do you want to eat? People say that my shoes are so dirty, does your wife care about you? " I don't care.

He continued to shout, "I married a daughter-in-law to serve me." If you don't love her, roll! "

I told him calmly: I am like this. I really won't serve you in the future. I loved it, but I didn't love it, so I left.

To my husband: Why should I wait on you like a nanny?

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Before that, I thought I was a real good wife and mother, working hard, honoring my in-laws, serving my husband and taking care of my children.

But his attitude completely chilled me. I married my husband and didn't adopt my son. I am looking for a backer, not a burden; I am looking for sustenance, not attachment.

I can be a good wife and mother, I can serve you, I can let you work with peace of mind and have no worries.

But that's not my obligation, it's my sacrifice for this family and for you. You didn't respond to me with a corresponding attitude. Sorry, I won't spoil you either. I'm not your mother. I have no obligation to wait on you like a nanny.

Facts have proved that men are cheap. If you try your best to please and serve attentively, he may not buy it. You change your face, you are handsome, and you don't care. He wagged his tail to please others in various ways. So, woman, put away your mother's heart and your cleanliness. Cruel should be cruel. If you are blind, you should pretend to be blind. If you really can't, you might as well go back to the factory.

For my husband, why should I spoil you like a nanny?