How to get along with classmates?

Question 1: How do students get along well? Whether you get along with your classmates or your family, you should do: 1, learn to understand people, tolerate people, and put yourself in their shoes when things go wrong. Be generous and don't haggle over every ounce. 3, get along with friends, in the spirit of losing is taking advantage, don't always think about taking advantage of friends and classmates. You must learn to control your emotions. Don't get carried away when you are happy and don't get carried away when you are unhappy. 5, to learn humor, everyone likes it. 6. When you get along with female classmates, remember not to make too many jokes. If you go too far, you should pay attention to the venue and method. The other is never to start a fight, or even to fight.

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Question 2: How to get along with classmates? 1 Treat friends with civility, and study and have fun with classmates and friends at ordinary times. If you don't understand anything in your study, ask. If you want to pay for it and have an argument with your classmates, you can put it down as long as it doesn't violate the principle. Never do anything that goes against the principle.

Students who need help should be enthusiastic, accompany them to read some useful books, and tell them stories about patriotism and love for the people at ordinary times, both at home and abroad.

If students encounter sad things, they will come to you to complain. Don't disturb him. Listen to him patiently and give him advice when appropriate. In this way, students will feel warm from the bottom of their hearts.

Of course, when students meet people who are contradictory or bullied, they should also stand up and help them! Note: first of all, we must distinguish the cause of the matter, who is right and who is wrong, should we help, and help if we can!

In short, as long as you treat your classmates sincerely, you will get their respect!

Question 3: How to get along with classmates Abstract: Due to various reasons, high school students nowadays have a lot of serious personality problems because they can't handle the relationship between classmates well, which will affect their studies. We need to carefully analyze and give correct guidance to help students tide over this difficulty. Communicating with people is a kind of ability, which plays a considerable role in students' lifelong development. In line with the principles of communication, respect, tolerance and independence, we can better handle the relationship between classmates. Senior high school students are in the stage of ideological and moral character and world outlook formation, and three years in senior high school is the fastest three years in life. The formation of three-year life will quality; Three years that determine a person's future destiny. In these three years, they have to go through many pressures and challenges. Teachers all hope that their students can feel comfortable in the group, meet the pressure, meet the challenge and take this crucial step in life. However, due to the influence of family composition, economic situation and other factors, today's students have obvious personality characteristics branded by the times: self-righteousness caused by sense of superiority, but can not stand setbacks, so behind the sense of superiority is unbearable and fragile; Or it is a sensitive and exclusive character caused by loneliness, and behind loneliness is the difficulty of integrating into the interpersonal environment. From the first year of high school to the present, I am not crying alone in class, nor crying or wanting to cry alone behind my back. Many people always want to call home every night. There are always a few lonely figures wandering at the door of the classroom during recess ... These phenomena show that many middle school students are confused in communication to varying degrees. Most of them spend most of their time at school. Once something unpleasant happens or they encounter any difficulties, they really want to talk to someone. But the reality is that some of our classmates will not be close to their classmates and will not communicate with others. The attempt to stop and the failure of communication gradually dampened their desire to continue to develop friends in the class, and they began to have rebellious psychology with their classmates and were unwilling to develop friends around them. Will gradually become withdrawn, not only academic performance can not go up, but also cause personality imperfections. Let me illustrate it with examples from my life: case 1, student A: I have been studying consciously and my grades are stable. When I was in junior high school, I had two same-sex friends. They had a good relationship and established a very strong interpersonal circle. Fortunately, they went to the same high school, and the other two students were in the next class. After studying, other life, such as class, eating, sleeping and activities, are stuck together most of the time. She didn't feel particularly bad, and she didn't think of developing partners in this class at all. A year later, due to the adjustment of the class, she was far away from her two good friends, and the small circle she once owned disappeared. When she needed a partner, she was horrified to find that she had no friends around. Watching other students in the class talking and laughing, she felt lonely as never before. I always want to go home and talk when something goes wrong. Comments: There was once a small circle of its own, and people in the circle were bound to have a kind of rejection of people outside the circle, which would cause resentment from people outside the circle. When A always communicates in the circle, it will naturally alienate more students outside the circle and give them no chance to communicate. For a long time, they had no place in the dormitory or in the class. It is not easy to make good friends, and it is understandable to want to be together forever. But if we want to grow up, our life scope, social circle and people we contact will change, so we can't cling to our old friends conservatively, but we must rebuild a social circle every time we change our environment. Therefore, there is a song that sings well: "It is difficult to find a bosom friend in a thousand miles, and the more friends, the easier it is;" Let's be honest and treat each other sincerely, and let's be friends from now on ... Make new friends and don't forget old friends, and how many new friends have become old friends ... May our good friends be everywhere. " Suggestion: As long as there is new communication, there will be new friends. It is natural for friends to update, which is the normal metabolism of interpersonal communication. The environment around a student is mainly formed by the students in this class. Communicating with the classmates more will help to form a good development environment around you. Case 2: Student B, introverted and self-abased, especially wants to make friends, but he is always afraid that others will not like him, be cold-eyed and associate with others. He always goes alone in his spare time and doesn't play with his classmates. Comments: American psychologist Maslow said in his Hierarchy of Human Needs that the need for respect is inherent in human beings, and respect is divided into self-esteem and other respects. Classmate B: I am too self-respecting. I know myself correctly, accept myself happily, focus on self-evaluation and treat others' evaluation correctly. Some students don't take part in activities with others because they don't have a correct understanding of themselves and think that others may not ... >>

Question 4: How do students get along in five aspects? Students should attach importance to each other and learn from each other when establishing good interpersonal relationships.

First, enthusiasm and caution. Interpersonal relationships are interactive. Don't always passively wait for others to take the initiative to care about yourself, but actively communicate with classmates around you. Being open to yourself is contagious. You are open to others, and others will be open to you. When the other person walks out of the dead circle, you will not only have a deeper understanding of the other person, but more importantly, you will also have a new understanding and experience of yourself. Students usually have conflicts because of trivial matters, even at the expense of fists and feet. Wouldn't it be easier to solve things if we could calm down, put ourselves in other's shoes and be more tolerant and understanding? At the same time, be careful about making friends. In the process of growing up, apart from the teaching of teachers and parents, friends have the greatest influence. Many teenagers end up going astray, often because they have made bad friends. This lesson is extremely profound, so you must be careful when making friends. Make friends with noble character and like-mindedness.

Second, we must understand respect. Everyone has their own temperament and personality characteristics, different growth backgrounds and living habits, so if we can understand and respect each other in the process of interacting with our classmates, our relationship will be easy to be harmonious and reduce unnecessary friction.

Third, be honest with each other. The most important thing in interpersonal communication is sincerity and goodwill, which is also the fundamental principle of being a man. It is difficult for a hypocritical and arrogant person to have friends.

Fourth, tolerance and understanding. As the saying goes: "No one is perfect, and gold is not enough." The students around us (including ourselves) are still in the growth stage, and there are often many inappropriate places to deal with problems. On many issues, students will have different views, which requires us to put ourselves in each other's shoes and understand each other, so as not to lead to hostility.

Fifth, eliminate the sense of dependence. There is also an unhealthy mentality in interpersonal communication, that is, people with a strong sense of dependence always want others to care about themselves like their parents, brothers and sisters, and they have to make their own decisions in everything, which is a sign of lack of independence. Excessive dependence will also develop into a desire for control. They force others to study with themselves, review their lessons together, inform them of their action plans, and even restrict others from interacting with other students. This is a character defect, which should be corrected in time.

Of course, these five aspects are universal and suitable for popularization. The so-called key opens a lock, which requires us middle school students to proceed from our own reality, specifically handle the relationship with the people around us, and strive to make ourselves in a harmonious interpersonal environment, so as to better study and live.

Question 5: How should students get along? Ba Jin said: "Friendship is a bright light in life. Without it, there would be no glory in life; " Without it, life will not blossom and bear fruit. "In study and life, we middle school students should help each other, understand each other, appreciate each other and grow together. But getting along with classmates is also a lot of learning. A little thing in life and study, if not handled properly, will also "destroy" friendship. So, how should we get along? 1, mutual respect. Mutual respect refers to mutual respect and attention between people. Respecting others is equal to respecting yourself; Only by respecting others can we get their respect. What can I do to respect my classmates? Respect for classmates should first respect his personality. Every student has a sense of self-esteem and honor. When his personality is not respected by others, it is often very sad and painful. Some of our students pay little attention to this. They often laugh at other people's shortcomings, talk to others regardless of size, quarrel with each other to expose their shortcomings, make too many jokes, insult people and even play tricks on people with physical defects. These are all manifestations of disrespect for the personality of others, which is very inappropriate. In addition, mutual respect between students must also pay attention to starting from "I". Everyone wants to be respected by others. If everyone always emphasizes that others should respect themselves and that they are the only one, it is unrealistic. Only when everyone starts from me and emphasizes that I must respect others first can we create an atmosphere of mutual respect. In school, we should respect older classmates, cherish younger classmates and respect female classmates, and never make fun of them, give them nicknames or talk about them behind their backs. Students should greet each other when they meet for the first time every day and say goodbye to each other after school. This is a sincere and polite expression and a necessary form of respecting others. Respect classmates, their personalities, their wishes, feelings, hobbies and national customs. Mutual respect is a sign of politeness and a civilized behavior that everyone should have. 2. Care for each other. Lei Feng cared and cared for his classmates very much when he was a child. One of Lei Feng's classmates can't come to school for a few days because of illness. Lei Feng comes to this classmate's home every day after school to comfort his classmates and patiently help them with their lessons. With the enthusiastic help of Lei Feng, this classmate didn't miss class because of illness. We should follow Lei Feng's example. In the collective life of the school, students should care for each other, take care of each other and love each other. Students have difficulties in learning, so we should help them study and solve their problems, and think of their classmates at any time and place. When a classmate has difficulties in life, help him enthusiastically and actively; When students get good grades, we should learn from them modestly and encourage each other. As long as students have others in mind and always think of others, you can take the initiative to help others and do good things for others. If you do this for a long time, you will get the care, love and trust of others. 3. Treat people sincerely. Faith is the basis of communication. When communicating with classmates, you must do what you say, do what you say, do what you promise others, and don't easily promise what others can't do. Get along with your classmates sincerely, and don't be proud. Don't use other people's things without permission. You must tell your classmates when you borrow something from others. When reading classmates' books and newspapers, don't dirty, tear them up, and don't take them away without permission. 4. Steady, generous and gentle. When talking to others, don't slap them in the face or point your finger at them first. Don't whisper to others in front of a classmate, and don't listen when others are talking alone. Be careful not to get too close when you speak, especially not to spit. Don't step on other people's shoulders. Don't make jokes in front of classmates, especially female classmates, and don't play pranks. Politeness is a bridge of communication. If you are impolite, you can't get along well with others, and you will lose friends. Students should learn to communicate in a civilized way and make friends. 5. Learn to tolerate and understand others. Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. When there is a contradiction between classmates, the other party is responsible. We should think more about our responsibilities, learn to understand and tolerate each other's temporary actions, and look at this issue with a high mentality to resolve contradictions. 6, between classmates, especially when there are contradictions between classmates, don't let out a lot of words. Don't say anything when you get along. For example, "Do you want to be beaten?" "I'm going to kill you" and "wait for you", etc. These words will cause the other party's anger and easily escalate the contradiction, so don't say these rude words when students communicate. Friendly reminder: The golden rule of getting along with others is to treat others the way you like.

Question 6: Teach children how to get along with classmates (original) Dear son: In a blink of an eye, you have reached the height of your mother's neck, and your mother is happy to watch you grow up in daily life. Every day after school, my mother will gently ask you, are you happy today? Are you happy with the children? You often raise your eyebrows and say happily to your mother, mom, I am very happy. Then I will share interesting things on campus with my mother. But sometimes, you frown and say which child in the class makes you feel wronged, and that classmate has done something unreasonable. At this time, my mother will think deeply. Getting along with classmates is also an urgent problem. If they don't get along well, they will be lonely and their hearts will be easily closed. If they get along well, then children will study and live in a pleasant atmosphere and feel happy. It is very important to learn to get along with others. You won't be surprised that mom used the words of Confucius in The Analects of Confucius to talk about this topic today. Confucius, the most sacred teacher, used The Analects to educate his students. One of the key points is "how to be a man, how to be a man". Let's learn from his old man. Confucius taught people to get along with others, with special emphasis on the words "forgiveness" and "respect", and regarded "sincerity" and "stupidity" as the key to treating people. This is the basic attitude towards people. Now considering your age, the analysis of Confucius' way of life can be summarized into four aspects, hoping to inspire you: First, when you are with your classmates, you should pay attention to observation and get to know each other. Friction and conflict between classmates are often due to misunderstanding and estrangement, so they have more contact with each other and directly or indirectly understand each other's talents, personality, hobbies, strengths and weaknesses. Take part in sports and entertainment activities together, gradually enhance friendship and become bosom friends. Second, take the initiative to care about others and build a deep friendship. People are emotional animals, and take the initiative to build deep feelings. Learn to care about others first. When others need help, you should reach out your hand and give help in time. If others are in a bad mood, you should give more encouragement and comfort in spirit. Children's hearts are close, and friendship will naturally be profound. Third, when others have shortcomings, it is important to learn to tolerate and forgive. Mom often tells you to learn to tolerate others. How unworthy it is for classmates to quarrel and make trouble over trivial matters! Learn to endure hardship, which is not cowardice. Only those who know how to endure hardships are the strongest and most effective people. For example, in the history of Lin Xiangru and Lian Po, Lin Xiangru tolerated Lian Po's insults everywhere for the sake of national security, which made Qin dare not invade Zhao and concede defeat to Lian Po. This is enough to show that suffering is not cowardice. At the same time, we should also learn to forgive others. No one can make mistakes. Only those who can forgive others will gain the respect of others. Therefore, we should learn to tolerate, forgive from the heart when others make mistakes, and try our best to overcome our emotional impulses with reason. Others will admire you for your broad mind and be willing to be good friends with you. Fourth, if you meet a child with many shortcomings, if you can't let your own advantages infect him, then stay away from him for a while. Because I am too young, I will unconsciously get into some bad habits with children with many problems, such as swearing, lying, fighting, playing with things in class, bullying other students and so on. Mom told you to stay away, not to teach you not to like these children, but to save your own advantages, study hard and help these children when you have the ability. Disciples' Rules says, "Good-hearted, infinitely kind, moral progress with each passing day, few days, unkind, infinitely bad, little people make progress, and everything goes bad", which tells us to be close to excellent children with few shortcomings. Mom hopes that you can experience more and better ways to get along with your classmates, become good friends with your classmates and grow up in a harmonious and friendly environment.

Question 7: How to get along with classmates at school? Student life is the most splendid time, with the strongest yearning for friends and the most colorful longing for friendship. Everyone wants to have friends to share happiness and pain. Some students are fearless, most afraid that they will ignore him. So, how can we get along well with our classmates? First, be honest with others, seek truth from facts, not be hypocritical and grandiose, and not be reckless. We should strive to make achievements in the collective, but we should not be complacent and narcissistic. Second, we should take the initiative to get close to classmates, make friends widely, avoid small circles and exclude dissidents. Don't judge others by yourself, and don't take personality differences, family background, good grades, similarities and differences of views as the criteria for making friends. If you don't wait for people, you will be isolated. Third, be good at controlling emotions and not abusing feelings. Don't take it out on others when something goes wrong. If you want to express your excitement, it depends on the time, occasion and object. Fourth, be kind to classmates and face up to the objective environment. Learn to respect and understand your classmates. Don't belittle others. The taboo in interpersonal communication is pointing at the back, which is one of the main reasons for the deterioration of interpersonal relationship. Don't ask too much of your classmates and the environment, but learn to be tolerant. For example, I want to be quiet, but my classmates sing on a whim. I want to entertain myself, but others have to bury themselves in reading. I want to take part in sports activities, but my friends invite you to watch movies. We should be good at handling such contradictions, learn to be modest and compromise, and don't always be self-centered. When communicating with classmates, the most important principle is to abide by collective norms. Collective norm is a reasonable behavior standard for collective members. A group has various members, and everyone has his own hobbies, interests and motives. Collective norms are the basic "codes" that enable different members to communicate with each other. They can identify with the actions of members, maintain the cohesion of the collective, and at the same time effectively help everyone who abides by the norms. To abide by the collective norms, we must exercise some restraint on our sense of independence, respect the needs and interests of others, and do some obedience. Only in this way can we eliminate loneliness. Solve interpersonal conflicts and make yourself a popular and happy member of the group.

Question 8: How to get along with classmates? 1 Treat friends with civility, and study and entertain with classmates and friends at ordinary times. If you don't understand anything in your study, ask. If you want to pay for it and have an argument with your classmates, you can put it down as long as it doesn't violate the principle. Never do anything that goes against the principle.

Students who need help should be enthusiastic, accompany them to read some useful books, and tell them stories about patriotism and love for the people at ordinary times, both at home and abroad.

If students encounter sad things, they will come to you to complain. Don't disturb him. Listen to him patiently and give him advice when appropriate. In this way, students will feel warm from the bottom of their hearts.

Of course, when students meet people who are contradictory or bullied, they should also stand up and help them! Note: first of all, we must distinguish the cause of the matter, who is right and who is wrong, should we help, and help if we can!

In short, as long as you treat your classmates sincerely, you will get their respect!

Question 9: How do students get along well? Whether you get along with your classmates or your family, you should do: 1, learn to understand people, tolerate people, and put yourself in their shoes when things go wrong. Be generous and don't haggle over every ounce. 3, get along with friends, in the spirit of losing is taking advantage, don't always think about taking advantage of friends and classmates. You must learn to control your emotions. Don't get carried away when you are happy and don't get carried away when you are unhappy. 5, to learn humor, everyone likes it. 6. When you get along with female classmates, remember not to make too many jokes. If you go too far, you should pay attention to the venue and method. The other is never to start a fight, or even to fight.

Please accept it, thank you!

Question 10: How should students get along? Ba Jin said: "Friendship is a bright light in life. Without it, there would be no glory in life; " Without it, life will not blossom and bear fruit. "In study and life, we middle school students should help each other, understand each other, appreciate each other and grow together. But getting along with classmates is also a lot of learning. A little thing in life and study, if not handled properly, will also "destroy" friendship. So, how should we get along? 1, mutual respect. Mutual respect refers to mutual respect and attention between people. Respecting others is equal to respecting yourself; Only by respecting others can we get their respect. What can I do to respect my classmates? Respect for classmates should first respect his personality. Every student has a sense of self-esteem and honor. When his personality is not respected by others, it is often very sad and painful. Some of our students pay little attention to this. They often laugh at other people's shortcomings, talk to others regardless of size, quarrel with each other to expose their shortcomings, make too many jokes, insult people and even play tricks on people with physical defects. These are all manifestations of disrespect for the personality of others, which is very inappropriate. In addition, mutual respect between students must also pay attention to starting from "I". Everyone wants to be respected by others. If everyone always emphasizes that others should respect themselves and that they are the only one, it is unrealistic. Only when everyone starts from me and emphasizes that I must respect others first can we create an atmosphere of mutual respect. In school, we should respect older classmates, cherish younger classmates and respect female classmates, and never make fun of them, give them nicknames or talk about them behind their backs. Students should greet each other when they meet for the first time every day and say goodbye to each other after school. This is a sincere and polite expression and a necessary form of respecting others. Respect classmates, their personalities, their wishes, feelings, hobbies and national customs. Mutual respect is a sign of politeness and a civilized behavior that everyone should have. 2. Care for each other. Lei Feng cared and cared for his classmates very much when he was a child. One of Lei Feng's classmates can't come to school for a few days because of illness. Lei Feng comes to this classmate's home every day after school to comfort his classmates and patiently help them with their lessons. With the enthusiastic help of Lei Feng, this classmate didn't miss class because of illness. We should follow Lei Feng's example. In the collective life of the school, students should care for each other, take care of each other and love each other. Students have difficulties in learning, so we should help them study and solve their problems, and think of their classmates at any time and place. When a classmate has difficulties in life, help him enthusiastically and actively; When students get good grades, we should learn from them modestly and encourage each other. As long as students have others in mind and always think of others, you can take the initiative to help others and do good things for others. If you do this for a long time, you will get the care, love and trust of others. 3. Treat people sincerely. Faith is the basis of communication. When communicating with classmates, you must do what you say, do what you say, do what you promise others, and don't easily promise what others can't do. Get along with your classmates sincerely, and don't be proud. Don't use other people's things without permission. You must tell your classmates when you borrow something from others. When reading classmates' books and newspapers, don't dirty, tear them up, and don't take them away without permission. 4. Steady, generous and gentle. When talking to others, don't slap them in the face or point your finger at them first. Don't whisper to others in front of a classmate, and don't listen when others are talking alone. Be careful not to get too close when you speak, especially not to spit. Don't step on other people's shoulders. Don't make jokes in front of classmates, especially female classmates, and don't play pranks. Politeness is a bridge of communication. If you are impolite, you can't get along well with others, and you will lose friends. Students should learn to communicate in a civilized way and make friends. 5. Learn to tolerate and understand others. Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. When there is a contradiction between classmates, the other party is responsible. We should think more about our responsibilities, learn to understand and tolerate each other's temporary actions, and look at this issue with a high mentality to resolve contradictions. 6, between classmates, especially when there are contradictions between classmates, don't let out a lot of words. Don't say anything when you get along. For example, "Do you want to be beaten?" "I'm going to kill you" and "wait for you", etc. These words will cause the other party's anger and easily escalate the contradiction, so don't say these rude words when students communicate. Friendly reminder: The golden rule of getting along with others is to treat others the way you like.