Whether a child is filial can be seen from these four things. Didn't my parents raise a "baiwenhang"?

When the elderly arrive, many people are physically weak and weak. At this time, we can really see whether the child is filial. Old people often sigh: "it is difficult to be old, and it is difficult to be old." If there are filial children, the elderly will be happy in their later years. Such a sigh is not easy to express.

Some old people gave all their money to their children when they were young, and even a few children were eccentric. However, when they are old and weak, the children they usually love do not care for themselves and shoulder the responsibility and obligation of support.

Whether a child is really filial depends on these four points: 1, are you willing to let your parents live in my house?

When children need employment, they want their parents to live in their own homes. Usually take care of the next generation, send children to school and help cook after school. However, when the children grow up and are alone, the old man will be well-advised to go back to his hometown.

If two old people are old and weak, especially when one of them has a little weak self-control, they want to live with their children, but the children don't ask their parents to live with them. Because living together, the cost increases, life is inconvenient, and even they despise the habits of the elderly, which makes parents feel helpless and feel that they have hurt their children in vain.

Are you willing to pay for something urgent?

There are many things at home and abroad, and it is inevitable that there will be a lot of miscellaneous expenses in life. When parents don't have enough money, can children generously support their parents and solve the crisis?

Would you like to give gifts to the elderly during the Spring Festival? Do you often see what the old man lacks in his heart? If there is a suitable one, he will take the initiative to buy it back for the elderly. The old man doesn't have to buy it verbally, and his heart is full of joy.

3. Is it just an asset?

Some children heard that their house was about to be demolished, so they didn't visit their parents often. When they learned about this, they quickly came back to visit their parents, bought things here and there, and even took the old man to live in their own home.

But then I heard that the relocation was far away, and the children returned to their original state, which disappointed their parents. Manage if you have money, and shop less if you don't have money. This is a sign of greed, not real filial piety.

Were you there when you wanted to take care of it?

When the elderly are sick, they are very fragile physically and mentally. At this moment, children should take care of them, and filial children should stay with them and take care of them dutifully.

Children find various reasons to shirk, they are too busy to leave, they have no time to take care of their children and their parents, and their parents are suffering.

Naturally, some parents understand their children very well, and they will solve whatever they can, and they don't want to inconvenience their children. Children are also the golden age of their careers, so we can't always delay our work.

But as a student, we should make time to visit the elderly, help them do more housework, let parents not think too much, and live happily in their later years.

Filial piety is not easy to blindly compare with brothers and sisters, and it is my duty to do my part to support the elderly. Parents are equally filial, whether they take care of their grandchildren, have money or have no money.

Old people usually don't really know which child is filial until they are old, weak and sick, so don't spoil children too much, or they will try to cultivate "conscienceless"; Too spoiled children will be self-centered, self-centered, and don't care much about their parents' requirements.