What kind of psychology is it to always say things against your will to your boyfriend?

In fact, I am that kind of boyfriend, so I will analyze it according to the psychology of boys. Sometimes I feel too tired and I don't like to guess my girlfriend's psychology. The most important thing is to be afraid of guessing the wrong meaning, which will lead to misunderstanding, and then the two of us quarreled. I told my partner that if there is anything, you should say, no matter what we discuss, don't keep silent. Let me guess what you think. I think there can be quarrels in life, but it's always boring. My girlfriend and I sometimes get confused. Actually, it's quite tiring, but it's acceptable. Sometimes it's really unreasonable. Let's have a counter-control! ! I made myself angry, and soon she came to coax me. It'll work out. In fact, the man who can be with you may not love you. People who can talk and laugh with you and live slowly are the ones who really love you.