Why is Tu Honggang's father's love so different when his son borrows money to study and his stepson drives a million luxury cars?

"Cersei is not my own. For the sake of family harmony, I naturally want to spoil him more. But my own baby, no matter what I say about him, we are all connected by blood and cannot be violated. I believe the baby will understand me. "

With three children and three mothers, Tu Honggang often feels that family relations are in a mess. He handled the relationship between his own son and stepson in a self-righteous way, but never thought it would get worse. Who did the wrong thing in this family farce?

Three children and three mothers In short, Tu Honggang has three children. When I was young and frivolous, I was with Daisy, a Chinese-American hybrid, and gave birth to my eldest son, Turuibao. However, the marriage broke down after only three years, and the son and Tu Honggang lived together. But at that time Tu Honggang was busy with his career and had to entrust his son to his mother. It was not until my mother was in poor health that I took her home to live with her.

As for the second child, she is Tu Honggang's only daughter. At that time, Tu Honggang remarried and married the actor Fang Shu. On the one hand, because Tu Honggang was busy with work, the couple got together less and left more, but there were also reasons such as the disparity of young personalities between the two sides, so this marriage lasted for 8 years and ended hastily. This daughter usually lives with Fang Shu, but she comes to live with her father every Saturday and Sunday.

The third child, Zhang Zixi, is actually not Tu Honggang's own. He was born to Tu Honggang's third wife, Yue Yue, and her ex-husband, and has been living in her mother-in-law's house. After marriage, in order to reassure his wife, Tu Honggang took the initiative to take the child over and the family was reunited. But unlike his own son, stepsons always have to be extra careful when getting along.

In order to ensure family harmony, Tu Honggang and his two biological children have repeatedly stressed that Xixi is also a member of this family and son. You two should get along well with Xixi and be good friends. I get angry if anyone doesn't listen. For the sake of harmony, Tu Honggang really tried his best.

He often takes his three children to the countryside for picnics, photography and parties, and has a good time. Children will also learn to sing and dance with their fathers, and let them be judges to see who performs best. Later, in order to encourage children to unite, Tu Honggang specially asked them to form a small band. If the eldest son has a good voice, he will be the lead singer, and the daughter will be the drummer. As for the stepson who can play the electric guitar, he will be the guitarist. The division of labor and cooperation looks so perfect.

But every time Tu Honggang is here, it seems that the years at home are really calm, but every time he leaves for a period of time, contradictions follow, leaving him at a loss. Tu Honggang thought that children would have conflicts, but he didn't expect children to have so many problems. So that for the sake of problems between children, he screwed up the father-son relationship again.

The hardest thing for my own son is that they live under the same roof and have only one TV at home. Often in order to watch TV, two children disagree and start fighting. Without proper limit, boys always make one side cry, and the other side just stops angrily. But after every fight, it must be the eldest son who is finally scolded.

"You are a brother, can't you make way for your little brother? Dad is so busy, you always give me trouble and never listen. "

In this case, it became a nightmare in the heart of the eldest son, and it lingered. Until one time, two people were fighting, and neither of them took advantage, but Tu Honggang didn't ask anything after seeing it, saying that the eldest son was wrong. This time, the eldest son seldom talked back. "He obviously hit me. Why not talk about him? It's me every time. " .

The eldest son has a temper, which Tu Honggang experienced. Unexpectedly, the wronged child would secretly run away from home and let Tu Honggang drive around looking for it. I found him at midnight. Tu Honggang wanted to tell his son not to run away from home and do such dangerous things, but the child was disobedient and pouting. On impulse, Tu Honggang slapped him and forced him to go home.

In the heart of the eldest son, his father is now the only relative left. But my father always smiles at the children, and it's his turn to either teach me a lesson or be nice to me. The eldest son's dependence on his father was gradually eroded, and he also had the impulse to escape from this family. A week later, he told Tu Honggang that he had reported for duty at school and would not go home in the future. Looking at his son pulling a suitcase to leave, Tu Honggang was deeply touched.

In fact, he has never been a qualified father in the baby. When the child is young, he should be busy with his work and leave him to his mother. I finally got my child back, but I still have a stepson at home. He can only give the baby one lesson at a time. After all, this is his own son. Stepsons are hard to beat. How should his wife feel if he is too strict?

Tu Honggang always thought it might be a good idea to send his son to boarding school. Give yourself more living expenses and you can live a good life. Moreover, distance produces beauty. Maybe after leaving, the relationship between the two brothers can still get along well. With this expectation, Tu Honggang is also trying to close the relationship between them.

For example, the stepson went abroad to study alone, and he and his wife were too busy to leave. Tu Honggang instructed his nervous eldest son to take care of him quickly. "Your English is good. Let's go." But he forgot to ask, are you busy studying? Do you want to go? With the promotion of Tu Honggang, the relationship between the two brothers didn't look good, but there was an indelible gap between father and son.

I don't know when the father and son had a one-night feud The eldest son doesn't want the money given by Tu Honggang anymore, so he works at school to earn money. If the son is angry, the father really can't give the son money. For so many years, the eldest son has been self-sufficient and has come out of the shadow of his family background. How can it be so easy to make money? Tu Ruibao, who has no capital and no background, failed in business one after another.

Later, Tu Ruibao responded that entrepreneurs are just their friends. But when he went to college, his father thought the tuition was too expensive and wanted Tu Ruibao to give up his studies. In the end, he completed his studies with scholarships and student loans. With such careful calculation, the stepson's life is a far cry from his. When Tu Ruibao was worried about tuition, his stepson was also studying abroad. Driving a million luxury cars and buying luxury goods with beautiful women, life is really nourishing.

Such a completely different situation makes people wonder who their son is. However, Turuibao, who got rid of his father's aura and lived independently, is also worthy of respect. No matter how capable a father is, he is not his own. It is difficult to rely on simplicity for a while, and it is difficult to rely on reliability for a lifetime. Step by step, I must have experienced many difficulties and must grow up quickly.

It's hard for stepfathers. I believe that one day, the eldest son will understand his father's practice. Under the condition of blood relationship unchanged, Tu Honggang must also help his son behind his back. It's just that both father and son are unwilling to bow their heads, which is a dilemma. There is no doubt that every father loves his son. He wants to be a good father, which can be seen from his attitude towards his stepson.

Besides, Tu Honggang, who is over half a century old, longs for the warmth of family more than anyone else. He was really helpless after three marriages and two divorces. When you finally settle down, you must consider the harmony of the whole family. There can't always be a one-night feud between father and son. Just need someone to bow their heads first. As for this man, it doesn't matter at all when Tu Honggang was a son, Turebo. As long as two people speak their minds, they can always wait until the other person understands.