The mother-in-law takes care of her daughter-in-law and cooks chicken soup every day. Why is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still bad?

Half a year after Li Lin gave birth to a child, the thought of confinement and the days when her mother-in-law took care of herself was simply dark.

After lin li gave birth, it happened to be the hottest month in summer. My mother-in-law rushed to her son's house from the countryside with big bags and small bags, saying that she would take care of her big baby grandson.

After feeding, lin li heard the sound of knocking at the door outside, and her husband went to work in the company, leaving only her and her children at home.

After greeting her mother-in-law to drink water and wash her face, lin li returned to her bedroom, ready to have a rest. Mother-in-law followed lin li in, looking proud and satisfied, looking at her sleeping grandson and looking up at the air conditioner.

Mother-in-law immediately found the remote control and said loudly to her daughter-in-law: "There is no wind in the moon. The old man said that when a woman gives birth to a child, she sews the bones to the maximum. Now she blows the air conditioner, and the cold is all on her. I'll turn off the air conditioner for you. "

Seeing that her mother-in-law was serious, lin li went with the old man. At noon cooking time, my mother-in-law went to the refrigerator to get vegetables and meat.

It's too hot, all the dishes should be frozen in the refrigerator, otherwise they will only be wasted.

The refrigerator is full of native chickens and eggs that lin li's mother wants from the countryside, local pigs raised by farmers themselves, and bird's nest and flower gum that her husband wants from Hongkong.

Anyway, a refrigerator is full, full of food and nutrition for lin li's confinement.

02.

Mother-in-law can't stew bird's nest and flower glue. She chose the most easily stewed chicken soup. Basically, she cooks chicken soup for lin li. Her mother-in-law is quite diligent, cooking and washing clothes. When lin li is asleep, she also helps to take care of the baby.

It's just that her mother-in-law has a lot of demands on lin li and Confucius. She is not allowed to wash her hair and take a bath, brush her teeth or watch TV on her mobile phone.

Anyway, my mother-in-law said that watching TV and mobile phones is harmful to your eyes. It is easy to get sick when you wash your hair, bathe and brush your teeth.

Lin li didn't take a bath, wash her hair or brush her teeth for a week. She felt terrible. She felt sick when she smelled herself, and her scalp itched. After her mother-in-law fell asleep at night, lin li secretly went to the bathroom in the middle of the night, washed her head and took a bath, and quickly dried it before she felt alive again.

When I woke up the next morning, my mother-in-law knew that she had washed her hair, bathed and brushed her teeth, and recited it.

A few days after her mother-in-law came to take care of lin li, lin li had been drinking chicken soup for several days, and her stomach was tired. The chicken soup cooked by my mother-in-law is not salty and tastes tasteless.

03.

Lin li begged her mother-in-law to cook something else for her, but her mother-in-law said, "It's good to drink chicken soup. Chicken soup produces milk. If the baby has enough milk to drink, it will grow white and fat. "

Then I seriously said to lin li, "Just bear it again. After confinement, you can eat whatever you want. This month will soon pass. "

Another bowl of chicken soup in the evening. Lin li took a sip, but she didn't think it tasted right. She felt sour.

"Mom, come and see if this chicken soup is broken." Lin li shouted to her mother-in-law who was busy in the kitchen.

Mother-in-law threw down the rag and came in before her hands were dry. She put it next to her nose and smelled it and said, "Nothing, it's normal. That's the smell."

Lin li thought that in the second month, she ate too lightly and hallucinated. Finally, she endured and finished the bowl of chicken soup.

At noon the next day, it was still a big bowl of chicken soup and several stacks of chewy meat Before drinking, lin li smelled it again, feeling heavier than yesterday.

04.

My husband came back from outside at this time and forgot to bring an important document to the company in the morning, so he had to drive home and get it at lunch time.

He teased the baby first, and then asked lin li: What's the situation today?

Lin li said no problem. She smelled the chicken soup that her mother-in-law had just brought in to her husband. Li Lin always thinks chicken soup tastes strange, but her mother-in-law insists that it can be drunk. She wants to hear what her husband says, or she can think for herself.

The husband took a sip and quickly spit it out: "This is rotten. How can I drink? " ? Lin li, have you been drinking? "

"When I drank it yesterday, it tasted the same. I think it's strange. I asked my mother, and she said no problem. " Lin li said.

"That your stomach uncomfortable now? If you don't feel well, you must tell me. Mom, come here. " The husband shouted in the kitchen.

The husband gave the rotten chicken soup to his mother-in-law. The husband asked his mother-in-law, "How can you give this chicken soup to Lily?"

"No problem, just a little. People of our time have eaten it. No problem. It's okay to drink a little, and you can't waste it. " My mother-in-law explained this.

05.

"I haven't finished drinking chicken soup. Mom, just put the chicken soup in the refrigerator. It won't break in the refrigerator. " The son said.

"There are so many things in the refrigerator that there is no place to put them. They are all crowded. I just drank a little rotten chicken soup, nothing happened. " Mother-in-law chewed the chicken soup and touched her tears.

Mother-in-law is very uncomfortable, and lin li is even more uncomfortable. At the thought of yesterday, she drank rotten chicken soup, just like eating flies.

During the confinement period, my mother-in-law has been very strict with lin li, and everyone is confined in the old way. Lin li knows that her mother-in-law is not bad, because she cares about herself and is afraid of getting sick. So she won't mind her mother-in-law saying something ugly occasionally.

But my mother-in-law gave herself rotten chicken soup on the grounds that in their time, she would also eat rotten rice and vegetables, and it would be okay to eat them, so she could eat them without wasting them.

Lin li doesn't know what her mother-in-law thinks, but her mother-in-law's behavior really makes her quite speechless and depressed.

My husband was comforted when he saw his wronged daughter-in-law, and lin li was not so sad. Seeing the sad mother, my husband is going to talk to her.

Finally, I found my mother in the bedroom, hiding in the corner and secretly wiping her tears. My husband told her about the rotten chicken soup in detail.

I used to eat rice, because there was no food at that time, and I would be hungry if I didn't eat it. Therefore, satiety is the first and health is the second.

My husband means that my mother has been taking care of Li Lin for some time, which is quite hard. He wants to find a reliable new moon tomorrow to take care of his wife and children and let her go back to her hometown.

My mother-in-law probably thought it was wrong, so she agreed. After her mother-in-law returned to her hometown, her husband was really efficient and found a reliable and professional new moon. At the end of the month, lin li sat comfortably.

Perhaps in this era, we can't imagine the feelings of the previous generation in the most difficult days.

However, because they have suffered, in our generation, they can't deliberately eat.

In fact, if my mother-in-law really just thinks that chicken soup should be drunk just to avoid waste, then I can understand, but I don't agree with this behavior.

If the mother-in-law did this on purpose, it would be really too much. At least up to now, I haven't seen what kind of motivation my mother-in-law is. Trees prefer to believe in the former.

As Zhang Ailing said, because I know, I am merciful. Because I used to be a mother-in-law, I experienced the hardships of confinement and hunger, so I can be tolerant, considerate and take good care of my daughter-in-law when she is confined.

In fact, on the topic of confinement, Qiao Mu wrote many articles expressing the same view: if conditions permit, let his mother take care of him; Secondly, please take care of it professionally.

Fan Deng once said: At the moment when a woman gives birth, the hormones in her body fall off the cliff, and the hormones in her body drop sharply, which is unbearable for normal men.

This is also the reason for the high incidence of postpartum depression in women. Women need intimate care during confinement, and husbands need to go to work. There is no way. If your own mother takes care of you, all the contradictions can be solved well.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, who have never lived together or experienced the running-in of life, are bound to be full of contradictions, and these ordinary contradictions will be infinitely amplified by low-hormone pregnant women in the second month, and even lead to the intensification of contradictions.

This is why women often say that "the enemy of the moon is not * * * to penetrate the sky".

Caring for women, starting from caring for postpartum women's psychology, men give women more tenderness and love, because only you can give her the feelings she needs most; Only you can soothe her mental stress, you are the decisive factor of her postpartum depression.

When giving birth, women are miserable 10, and men can only watch and do nothing. Believe me, when a woman gives birth to a child, her husband is her most important support. I hope men can support a carefree sky for the woman who gave birth to your child at the risk of her life, so that she can have a happy time in this special month.