I have an unworthy brother at home. What should I do? Brother and sister are also at odds.

How can brothers and sisters get along well?

The biggest principle of quarreling is "don't do it"

Since my brothers and sisters can understand people's words, I often remind them that when playing together, they will inevitably quarrel and grab toys, but in any case, the person who starts first is wrong. If you encounter an unsolvable situation, you should communicate verbally or ask an adult for help first, instead of hitting people. So in our family, whoever starts first will be punished. It is very important for children to know where their parents' bottom line is.

How can we get along well with brother and sister? How should a good brother-sister relationship get along?

All toys belong to parents.

Snatching toys should be a drama that every brother and sister should perform at home, right? Obviously, this toy (sometimes even just a part) has been left in the cupboard for a long time, and no one plays with it at ordinary times, but as long as one of them turns it out on a whim, the other person will inexplicably "just" want to play with it.

I will say to my brothers and sisters, "all the toys are bought by my father with more money than my mother, so they are ours, not yours." If I want to rob them, I will put them away and never lend them to you again! This trick is quite effective so far, but the premise is that parents really have to "do what they say" and can't just talk without practicing. When two brothers and sisters have the same goal (to prevent toys from being confiscated) and the same enemy (parents who confiscated toys), cohesion will suddenly arise, and the original attention of grabbing toys will be distracted to solve the original dispute.

How can we get along well with brother and sister? How should a good brother-sister relationship get along?

Instill the concept of "what to do at what age"

I believe that every parent will want to treat their children fairly, but it is inevitable that both brothers and sisters will still have a comparative mentality. Like pudding, he sometimes says angrily, "Why can Xiao Bu hold it? Do I have to walk? On the contrary, Xiao Bu will look at the works or prizes that his sister brought back from school and say angrily, "Why didn't I?" Usually when this happens, I will have the opportunity to educate my sister and say, "What you should do at every age is different. When you were young, your mother was with you every day! Say to your brother, "When you reach your sister's age, you can do these things, and then wait, ok?" "Help them to establish these concepts from an early age and use the language of adults. In fact, children will become good communicators when they grow up and can understand.