How to start living in a strange city?

When you arrive in a strange city, the geography is unfamiliar, the language is unreasonable, the work is not smooth, the prices are uneven, the life is uneasy, the taste is uncomfortable, there are not many friends, and you are psychologically lonely, you will start reading "Come back". Your heart is a city. You don't live in a strange city, you live in your mind. The city is just a reflection of your heart: if you are soft, the city will be soft; If you are hard, the city will be hard; Open, the city will be rich; If you are lonely, the city will be closed; You are enthusiastic and friendly to the city; If you are indifferent, the city will become inhuman. How to stay in a strange city and put your heart down, just like at home? How to quickly find and build your own home in a strange city and enjoy the friendship and happiness of the city, from "I can adapt to this city" to "this city needs me"? Money is not a problem-here is a guide to life and communication in a foreign land for your reference-buy a city map and go around it. Drive, take a taxi, take a bus, ride a bike or walk. If you want to get familiar with the landmarks of this city quickly, sign up for a one-day tour of this city. Change your mobile phone number to a local number, such as GSM, Shenzhouxing, M-Zone and Unicom, and print it on your business card to inform all acquaintances. Open a real-name registration system passbook in a local bank, and your wealth accumulation in this city will begin. If all the floating population living in this city must apply for a temporary residence permit, then apply for one. Get a job, at least you have a mailing address from now on. If you can't find a job for a while, or want to have a rest, go to the nearby post office and rent a mailbox that belongs to you, so that you can also have a fixed mailing address. Send postcards of our city to all places, and then receive replies from postcards from the ends of the earth. The signature is your city address. When traveling abroad, send postcards of tourist attractions to friends in this city, and remember to send one to your city address. Install a landline so that your family and friends can find you when your mobile phone is turned off. Call your family and close friends in your hometown regularly and tell them about your recent situation and progress in this city. Go shopping, find suitable fashion shops, restaurants, sports venues and leisure places, and visit them from time to time. They may become your spiritual "third space". Street shooting cities can be put online even if they can't be published in newspapers. Make friends or best friends. Usually, you just need to listen. Then, go shopping with your girlfriends and drink with them. Attend a party of peers. Not job-hopping, but keeping you from falling behind in your career. Attend local family gatherings. There you can meet some selfless people and lovers of philosophy of life. When sharing, turn your roommate's friend into your friend. Have a party at the residence, even a slumber party. Don't be afraid to clean the room afterwards, for fun. Cultivate hobbies and make friends with people who have hobbies, such as taking classes in New Oriental, playing badminton or golf, singing or singing local operas. Practice Friends of Cang Tianshuo and Friends of Emil Wakin Chau, and you can join the choir by ordering songs at KTV. You can sing "Go Home Often" when you are homesick. Stick a photo with people on different occasions on the wall. A year later, that wall was covered with your smiling faces in this city. Go to the library, go to the English corner, go to blind date parties, go to star concerts, find strangers with the same interests and moods as you, and play with them. Go to antique market, second-hand bookstall, civic square, street garden, do morning exercises and get to know the old people in the city. They are people with wisdom and patience who can chat, just like the embodiment of this city, and can tell you the history of this city. Join the volunteer organization in our city to serve the disabled, children and people in need. Visit the city history museum of the city, which shows the city's past; Go to the urban planning museum of this city, and the future of this city is here. You can see the pattern and face of the city as clearly as the owner of the city. Sign up for the owners' committee of the residential area where you live, actively participate in property management and safeguard the rights and interests of yourself and your neighbors. Every time I come back from a business trip, I will bring greetings to my colleagues and bring back special food that I can share in the office. When you have new colleagues, don't forget your old colleagues. Learn the local dialect. Say hello to neighbors, security guards, taxi drivers, landlords, shop assistants, company front desk and all those who serve you. Remember to thank and praise. Establish several circles: colleague circle, local circle of friends, opposite sex circle, hobby circle, professional circle, circle of friends, neighborhood circle, consumer circle ... start a blog about life in this city, write down the experience of living in this city, and then you will get unexpected links. Post in the city forum, participate in the city topic debate, defend the city, or write a comparison post between the two cities. Go to the "Douban" urban agglomeration to find programs, or launch programs to attract people to participate. Don't stay in the internet cafe if you have nothing to do-it's really not worth saving your beautiful city life for twenty or thirty dollars. Help a friend move and do some manual work. Don't put these on the moving company. Show a stranger the way, and give him the warmth of a casual acquaintance. Invite friends from other places to dinner and be their tour guide. If possible, take your parents, even if it's only for a while. They can feel your maturity, responsibility and "friendship with the landlord"