Can children attend the funeral?

Funeral is a solemn and serious occasion, usually to express condolences and respect for the dead. For children, they may not fully understand the meaning and purpose of the funeral, so attending the funeral may bring them unnecessary trouble and psychological pressure.

First of all, the atmosphere of funeral is usually sad and heavy, which may be unbearable for children. They may feel scared and uneasy because they see their relatives and friends crying, and may even mistakenly think that the deceased has left them forever. This kind of emotion may have a negative impact on their psychology, leading them to have bad emotions such as fear and anxiety for a period of time.

Secondly, some ceremonies and activities at the funeral may not be suitable for children to attend. For example, in many cultures, people burn paper money, incense sticks and other objects at funerals, which may make children feel confused and uneasy. In addition, some eulogy and speeches at the funeral may involve some personal information of the deceased before his death, which may not be suitable for children to hear.

However, this does not mean that children can't attend the funeral at all. In some cases, parents can decide whether to let their children attend the funeral according to their age and psychological endurance. If parents think that their children are mature enough to understand and accept the meaning of funeral, then they can choose to let their children attend the funeral and let them learn to respect and miss their deceased relatives. However, parents should ensure that they give their children enough care and support during the funeral to help them through this difficult period.