I like Zhu Suosuo in "Golden Years". What did I see from her straightforwardness and magnanimity?

Recently, there have been more and more topics about women. "Golden Years", which has just concluded its finale, is a drama with two female protagonists, so naturally it is inevitable to discuss it. Zhu Suosuo and Jiang Nansun in the play, one is like summer, the other is like autumn, one has lacked the care of his family since he was a child, and the other has lived like a princess since he was a child.

The two characters are extremely contrasting in terms of their living environment and personality characteristics, which captured the audience's attention. But today, let’s not talk about the girl Jiang Nansun, but only the more controversial Zhu Suosuo.

To be honest, in Yi Shu's writing, although Zhu Suosuo in the original work is very beautiful, highly educated, and has personality, I still prefer Zhu Suosuo played by Ni Ni in the TV series compared to the drama version.

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In the play, the first impression given by Zhu Suosuo is that she is beautiful, good at observing people's emotions and even a little thick-skinned. Especially when confirming the relationship with Mr. Ma, there is still some meaning of "grabbing women". When Mr. Ma gave Zhu Suosuo various brand-name gifts, she said bluntly to her best friend Jiang Nansun, "He wants me to be beautiful, and I want him to be rich. He is happy when he gives it, and I am happy when I receive it. Why don't I accept it?"

As soon as such remarks came out, the image of "fishing for women" was immediately nailed into the hearts of the audience.

But as the plot developed, we discovered that we had all wrongly blamed this girl. She just lives a more open and honest life than anyone else. For example, to Yang Ke. For Zhu Suosuo, Yang Ke was not only a friend, but also a master who introduced her to the industry and taught her money-making skills. He was also a brother who took good care of her and helped her without hesitation.

Yang Ke was both a teacher and a friend to Zhu Suosuo. Therefore, when the big boss Ye Jinyan asked her to monitor Yang Ke's intention to leave, she refused at the risk of being fired. . She showed friendship to Yang Ke, and she also showed sincerity and magnanimity to her boss. Ye Jinyan did not choose to accept the task because he was the leader, nor did he choose to deceive him with lies.

Some people may think that Zhu Suosuo's straightforwardness may have offended his boss in real life, and it is indeed a sign of low emotional intelligence. But I just feel that this is a manifestation of high emotional intelligence. No matter at any time, a person's sincerity is valued by others. Zhu Suosuo's ability to speak frankly about the reasons for his refusal is indeed a valuable advantage in Ye Jinyan's opinion. If Ye Jinyan blames her for her frankness, it can only be said that this person is not good enough.

Later, Ye Jinyan said that Zhu Suosuo was very honest and suitable to be her assistant, which confirmed this.

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In terms of friendship, Zhu Suosuo is a model of good besties across the country. Probably the ladies who have watched the show are praying that God will give them such a best friend! When treating Jiang Nansun, she lived up to the term "best friend". She not only regarded Jiang Nansun as a biological sister, but also regarded her family as her own family.

When Nansun couldn't stand the depressive atmosphere at home and rented a house alone, Suosuo immediately helped buy home appliances and solemnly told his best friend's boyfriend Zhang Anren that his best friend must not make do with it. Can't be bullied. And when she was getting along with Nansun, she also kept her words and deeds consistent, always standing in the position of her best friend and not allowing anyone to bully her.

Zhang Anren’s ex-girlfriend Yuan Yuan came to Shanghai to look for a job. She noticed Yuan Yuan’s little thoughts and helped her best friend keep an eye on her while buying coffee. She warned Yuan Yuan not to cross the line and always protect her best friend’s love.

The most touching thing is that after the accident happened in Jiang Nansun's family, she immediately rented a three-bedroom house and took Jiang Nansun's family over without saying a word. It is for the Jiang family to deal with debt collectors, deal with the mortgaged houses, and then work hard to make money, all in the hope of solving the urgent needs of the Jiang family. In times of crisis, she, like Nansun, wholeheartedly uses her abilities to protect her "family".

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Zhu Suosuo not only values ??love and justice, is open and sincere, she also breaks society's definition of beauty. Although she always said that she had not read many books, the real Zhu Suosuo was definitely not a vase. After successfully entering the Jingyan Group under Yang Ke's appreciation, she has been working hard.

In the workplace, there is a saying that "When you love your job, you will definitely succeed." I saw the shadow of this sentence in Zhu Suosuo, and I also saw the enthusiasm of struggling women. .

Once, when Zhu Suosuo was ill and went to the hospital for intravenous drip, she heard the patient next to her saying that stocks were unreliable. She immediately took the opportunity to recommend houses to people around her. Also, when she discussed the project with Xie Hongzu for the first time, she observed carefully, made sufficient back-up and preparations, successfully grasped the customer's needs, and launched the introduction at the right time. This also laid the foundation for her subsequent sales of three houses.

As for Zhu Suosuo's cheating in the workplace, many viewers think it is the protagonist's aura that protects him, although the degree of reality in the play cannot be compared with reality. But the secret of success in the workplace highlighted by her is worth learning. In the workplace, there are many capable people and many opportunities, but there are not many people who are both capable and know how to seize opportunities.

That’s why there are many people who seem to have unappreciated talents. If everyone can be like Zhu Suosuo, who is full of enthusiasm for work and good at seizing every detail and opportunity, I think work will be much happier. !

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I like the drama version of Zhu Suosuo, her magnanimity, her emphasis on friendship, her enthusiasm, and even more her attitude of knowing the world but not being worldly.

For many women, their value coordinates are often limited by the judgment standards of others. Some are centered around men, some are centered around family... But Zhu Suosuo, she is never limited by objective circumstances.

Between the value portrait created by the outside world and the value compliance in her own inner world, Zhu Suosuo will prefer the latter, because in her eyes, her own choice is the master of life. She is "stubborn". She is so stubborn that she can refuse the coercion and inducement of the rich second-generation mother, and she can also stick to her husband when he is in decline, although she still cannot forgive the harm caused to her by her mother-in-law.

In Zhu Suosuo, I saw the initiative and crispness of women. This attitude of simplifying complexity may be the standard for women in the new era.