Tell people who don't trust you.

Transparent people like it, sincere people love it. Things are clean and people like them, while people are pure and people love them. Only sincerity can make many friends. Look at loyalty first when employing people, and look at virtue first when making friends. The slippery road is hard to walk, and the skater is hard to trust. No one wants to live in a dangerous house, and no one wants to make cunning friends. Quality is important in shopping, and morality is important in making friends. Husband and wife are loyal, but friends are loyal. The unfaithful fox looks at the chicken, and the dishonest wolf looks at the sheep. It is the greatest regret in life to give the most sincere heart to the unintentional person and the most affectionate feeling to the heartless person. Making a friend with bad morals is like planting a time bomb beside you. Therefore, when we make friends, remember to put morality first. This is the basic principle of making friends. Only when you know the meaning of words can you use it flexibly, and only when you know the virtue can you make friends. I would rather have no friends than make friends without virtue.

Principle of neither superior nor inferior

Being neither humble nor supercilious is the principle of being a man, and it is also the principle of making friends. We need friendship, but we can't bow our heads to beg for it, nor can we bow our heads to maintain it. Of course, you can't pretend to be a big brother and be condescending. A true friend is a like-minded brother, neither respectful nor humble, neither expensive nor cheap. Hard work is not sweet, but strong friends are dangerous. Strong business is easy to lose money, and strong friends are easy to be deceived.

Look at people with heart

Only by looking with your heart can you see people's hearts. The human heart is the essence of human beings. The essence of ordinary things is hard to find, let alone the essence of people (morality)? The understanding of essence is a rational understanding. The acquisition of perceptual knowledge requires the senses, and the acquisition of rational knowledge requires a clever mind.

Making friends is heart-to-heart

Only when the heart is close can the body be close. The heart is close at hand, and the heart is far away. Making friends is making friends. True friends are mainly the intersection of hearts. If the hearts can't intersect, there will be no strong adhesion in other aspects, and the so-called friendship will not last long.