My mother-in-law dislikes my family marrying a suite, which is too stingy. Is it generous for mother-in-law to give 30 thousand bride price?

On the weekend holiday, I followed my boyfriend to his house for dinner and discussed marriage. My boyfriend's parents are always kind to me and cook my favorite dishes. Boyfriend's family is very ordinary, but every time he goes to his house, he is very happy. Everyone chatted after dinner, and the family atmosphere was particularly harmonious. Our family is in good condition. I don't pay much attention to family conditions when looking for a partner, as long as it is really good for me.

At dinner, we talked about the bride price. My boyfriend and mother took my hand and said earnestly that their family conditions were not very good and there might not be many bride price. Let me not mind. At first glance, I still felt very warm, and quickly smiled and said, "Aunt, it doesn't matter. I like my boyfriend and don't care about it. " My boyfriend's mother smiled and praised me, "What a sensible child. My son is lucky to marry you. "

I told my parents about the bride price before. My parents are very open-minded people and don't value this. They said, it doesn't matter if you give more if conditions permit and less if conditions are poor. That's what I mean. Don't stick to these things. Finally, my boyfriend and his family discussed giving a bride price of 30 thousand, and I agreed. Friends and girlfriends around me feel that there are too few, and the local bride price is at least 50,000 to 60,000, and it is more than 100,000. I think, after all, the conditions of my boyfriend's family are there, which is almost enough.

My parents both approve of my boyfriend's character. He has been to my house several times. My parents think my boyfriend is honest, which can just tolerate my small temper and willfulness. As for his family, we have no requirements. At least my boyfriend works hard, much better than those playboys and rich second-generation young masters around me. We are still young, and we will struggle together in the future.

My parents didn't agree with my boyfriend at first, and there was a big gap between the two families. I grew up in an environment with excellent material conditions. My father has his own trading company and my mother is a famous orthopedic expert in the hospital. My brother is three years older than me. I was raised by my whole family in the palm of my hand, but my parents couldn't bear to let me suffer a little injustice. A few days ago, they said that they had chosen a house for me and bought it in full as our wedding room. I am very grateful to my parents, who are so considerate to me.

Since I met my boyfriend in the university campus, I have been moved by his efforts and persistent spirit. Boyfriend has been doing well in college. In addition to participating in school club activities, he also uses his spare time to work part-time to earn living expenses. To my delight, he and I are from the same town. Two years of campus romance strengthened my determination to marry him. Now that I have graduated from college and my job is stable, it's time to talk about marriage.

When I expressed my parents' meaning to my boyfriend, I thought their family should be grateful. Unexpectedly, my boyfriend actually dismissed it. He curled his lips and said, "Marrying a house is nothing. Your family has money anyway. " His careless words chilled my heart. What does this mean? Is the dowry too small? I am very unhappy.

I fought back my anger and told him, "If you don't think it's necessary, forget it. We will rent a house in the future. " Boyfriend and mother are not calm when they hear this. She almost jumped up. "How is that possible? What kind of experience is it to rent a house and get married? It will take you two a long time to buy a house. " My boyfriend and mother looked pale and came to comfort me. What she said next made me even angrier. Now I suspect that my boyfriend's motivation for staying with me is not because he loves me, but because he is attracted by my family's money.

The old lady poked her son's arm and motioned him not to talk. Then she turned to look at me with a smile. She said: "It is not enough to have a house to live in. It is better to have a car, isn't it? " It's more convenient to go to work this way, don't you think? "Before I could speak, my boyfriend nodded hastily." Ask your parents to buy us a better one. I like SUV, I can take you out to play with your face! "

I am speechless. If I hadn't heard it with my own ears, I wouldn't believe it was from my boyfriend. A * * * wants to pay a bride price of 30 thousand. It is not enough to marry a house. You must take a bus. I became your ATM before I got married. I smiled and asked her, "Aunt, you gave me 30,000 yuan as a bride price. I want to marry the house and the car. Is your family rich when you marry me? "

Boyfriend mother is not happy, "what did you say? Your family has money and bought a house. What's wrong with buying another car? " My boyfriend put his arm around me. "This is all for our future life. Just talk to your parents. " Hehe, this girl is really unique. The mutual echo shows that he wants a car from me, and his greedy face is exposed.

I feel very sad in my heart. My boyfriend has been very kind to me for so long. So good that I thought our love was not mixed with any other ingredients. It seems that I am naive. I stood up and shook off his arm without hesitation. I told him clearly, "No car, no house, no marriage, break up, break up now." After that, I left without looking back. Before I left, I heard them say I was crazy in the back. Hehe, I'm just a psycho. Why else would I have a crush on your home?

When I got home, the more I thought about it, the more sad I became. It turns out that my boyfriend was not sincere about my kindness before. I told my parents what happened. They were angry and supported me to break up. I am very sad, and I am glad that I saw the true face of this family before I got married. The man kept calling me, but I didn't answer, and then he sent a few short messages, arguing that it was for our future.

You have no future with you. I should break up for my future. I was drunk when I met such a beautiful family. Who wants such a man? I don't want him.