Talk about the dispute between two ships.

If you want to play and enjoy this state, cover it up with lies. It's best not to know personal information, and it's hard to get away from it in the future (it's not recommended to tread two boats).

If you really fell in love, it would have been like this long ago. Ask yourself which one you like, cut off the unnecessary ones, politely refuse, and say busy every time you don't contact. (I guess you won't choose this)

It was my idea anyway. It's up to you.