Never indulge yourself

1. When problems occur, don’t blame objectively, but look for reasons subjectively. People who complain that others don’t understand themselves first don’t understand others.

2. People who are afraid of being hurt will never be able to find true happiness; people who are afraid of hurting others will always be hurt intentionally or unintentionally by others.

3. Remember, connections are about how many people know you, not how many people you know.

4. Jealousy appears to be dissatisfaction with others, but actually reflects dissatisfaction with oneself. Wherever we are aware of our shortcomings, we will show jealousy towards others.

5. Perfect love is to accept the imperfection of your own love.

6. Don’t mix arrogance with your wisdom. Do not let your humility lack wisdom.

7. Never indulge yourself and make excuses for yourself. In order to win, you may have to do things you don't want to do.

8. If a woman’s signature dish is not beauty but kindness, then her charm can last until the end of her life.

9. Sometimes, the degree of care you take towards yourself reflects your attitude towards life.

Phrase: You can give up on anyone, but never give up on yourself

You can give up on anyone, but never give up on yourself

The mind is made of grievances; Troubles are created by oneself; pain is compared with others; diseases are created by bad habits; mentality is cultivated through experience; happiness is cultivated by contentment; health is cultivated by activities. Compassion has no enemies, wisdom does not have troubles, only liberation makes you more comfortable, letting go comes naturally and easily. So do what you should do. If you have tried your best, the rest will be left to chance.

In the journey of life, we will gain a lot, but at the same time we will lose a lot. Life is for management, not for calculation; money is for enjoyment, not for worship; feelings are for maintaining, not for testing; lies are for breaking, not for whitewashing ; trust is used to accumulate, not to challenge.

People are most comfortable when they have a clear conscience, are peaceful and carefree. . Try your best to cultivate optimism and act calmly without getting discouraged. The accumulation of experience gained and lost through setbacks will help you climb the ladder. Be broad-minded and know how to advance and retreat, and learn to be low-key and humble!

No matter how glorious and glorious yesterday was, or how bitter and disdainful it was, it has passed, cannot be changed, and cannot come again. Our only choice today is to regain our mood and hit the road again. Sometimes, crying is not giving in; retreating is not admitting defeat; some things are not that I don't care, but what can I do if I care. Let the past pass, and the unforgettable things will also pass.

Life should be both light and interesting. Only slowly did I realize: Persistence may not mean victory, and giving up may not mean admitting defeat. Keep your emotions simple and your life will be richer. Make the environment simpler and the space will be richer. Make love simpler and happiness will be richer.

Don’t regret losing that relationship if you have given it to yourself. No one only falls in love and does nothing else in their life. Maybe she left you just when you turned around. Such a thing is impossible Avoidance happens every day. Don't believe those romance novels, because we live in reality, not fairy tales, and no one will wait for someone else forever.

Life is short, don’t live too tiredly, life is just a kind of confusion, a vagueness, you can’t explain it clearly, you can’t explain it clearly, you are confused and vague. There are too many things in life that we cannot understand. To see them clearly and understand them is to ask for sorrow. Taking everything too seriously will make you tired and tired.

The most beautiful scenery in life is inner calmness and calmness. Friends should be as long-lasting and mellow as tea, not sweet cola, which ends after the hustle and bustle. Cherish the people you like. Don’t force yourself to smile deliberately if you don’t like someone. You can make some changes for your friends, just don't change them beyond recognition.

Silent as water, the leaves fall and listen to the sound of the wind. At this moment, the wind is soft, the clouds are rippled, and a few strands of green hair are swaying, or they are elegant and slightly elegant.

It's the season when the flowers are blooming, and they fall leisurely, embellishing the plain skirt, but attract the butterfly, lingering beside you, lingering and circling. Looking up, the green leaves seem to be unable to bear the thoughts of dew, dripping and shaking. A pool of thoughts arises, reflecting the hazy you.

Life is just like this, do it and cherish it. Life is like a road, with ups and downs and smooth roads; life is like a river, sometimes with twists and turns, sometimes with a sudden plunge. No matter how difficult the road ahead is, no matter how helpless life is, as long as you are always happy in your heart, there is no need to be depressed. Don't be too persistent and burden yourself with a heavy burden

1. What you are most afraid of in life is that you care about everything but can't grasp anything. The lost scenery, the separated people, the longing that cannot wait, all live at the end of fate. Why be too persistent? What should come will come naturally, and what will go will not be retained. Letting go of your obsessions and letting things happen is the best life. The world didn't choose you, you chose the world. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate; since one does not get what one wishes, it is better to be relieved.

2. Ordinary life, spent in silence. What should happen will happen sooner or later, and there is no point in forcing it too much. What should be lost will be lost sooner or later, just like a hundred years of life, one will eventually die. It is better to cherish the ordinary life in front of you and enjoy the joys and sorrows that life brings. Life is inherently a mixture of bitterness and happiness, with gains and losses. Instead of engaging in intrigues and intrigues all day long, it is better to enjoy it in peace and quiet. If people really calm down, they will always want to understand a lot of things.

3. The heart is just a bag. When it contains nothing, it is called the heart. When it contains a little, it is called the mind. When it contains too much, it is called the scheming. When it contains more, it is called the scheming. When it contains too much, it is called the worry. We are often obsessed with the utilitarian things that are close at hand, obsessed with the gorgeous life, and obsessed with the fruitless love, and it is easy to fall into a state of being overwhelmed. In fact, if you let go a little, you will get more; those who can let go are the ones who truly understand life and will live more free and easy!

4. Life needs to be reset to zero. Every time a period of time passes, you have to clear the past and allow yourself to start over. Don't let the past become a burden to the present. Only by traveling lightly can you go further. The human soul is like a container. Over time, there will inevitably be sediment in it. You must always empty the sediment in your soul, let go when it is time to let go, and forget what should be forgotten. Delete the garbage in your mind and refresh yourself every day, so that you can regain your life.

5. If someone offends you, there is no need to retaliate. Because difference in IQ is the furthest distance in the world. If someone else does something extremely bad and you follow it, it will bring you down to the same level. When someone has trouble with you, stay away from the villain and keep a calm mind. Don't be angry, but don't remember. The most cruel way to deal with a person is not to teach him a lesson, but to delete him from your memory.

6. There are many things in life that can be let go. Only when you can let it go can you afford it. Try to simplify your life as much as possible, and you will find that those blocked scenery are the most suitable life. Don't be too persistent and put a heavy burden on yourself.

7. Some things are destined to have no fate with you. No matter how hard you force them, they will eventually leave you. Some people can only be passers-by in your life. No matter how much you miss them, all your expectations will eventually come true. null. If it doesn't belong to you, then give up. The world is vast and vast. What we can have is limited after all. Don't let endless desires bury the original joy and happiness. If you try to catch everything, you will end up catching nothing.

8. In life, there is as much pain as there is care; there is as much joy as there is tolerance. Pain and joy are reflections of the soul, just like what's inside a mirror, determined by what's in front of it. If you can't let it go, it will naturally become a burden. The more burdens you have, the less happy your life will be. A careless heart is like a bag, a tolerant heart is like a funnel. A complicated heart is careless, but a simple heart is easy to be happy.

9. Nothing in the world belongs to you forever, including the people you love most, the children you raise, your wealth, and your body, they will eventually return to dust. We only have the right to use everything in the world but not permanent ownership. Everything in the world is lent to us, so everything has its origin and its end, so we can’t force it. Life is like a passer-by, who comes happily and leaves happily. Most importantly, stay in the moment. Healing words that are deeply rooted in people's hearts: Never indulge yourself and make excuses for yourself

1. Don't always moan for no reason, and don't always describe yourself as so pitiful.

Everyone has been hurt and shed tears. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you are in more pain than others, it’s just that you express it more brilliantly.

2. Don’t be a bad person, because there will always be people who will trample on your tolerance and accommodation as weakness and incompetence.

3. The first thing that ages a person is not his appearance, but his heart that no longer has the ambition.

4. Never indulge yourself and make excuses for yourself. Be strict with yourself. Over time, self-discipline will become a habit and a way of life, and your personality and wisdom will become more perfect as a result.

5. This life of a person is nothing more than a process. The glory is dew among the flowers, and the wealth is covered with frost. If you don’t bring it in life, you won’t take it with you in death. What will you be proud of? What will you be frustrated about? Let nature take its course. Being at peace with the situation, as comfortable as moving clouds, as free and easy as flowing water, is the attitude that life should have.

6. If you learn more skills now, you will be able to say less to ask for help in the future.

7. When you believe in a person without any doubt, you may eventually get two results, either get a person worth entrusting to your life, or get a lesson worth remembering for a lifetime.

8. Every heart has an irreplaceable emotion that is forever associated with a certain scenery. Life is a process of cultivation. Why treat people and things with such an unfair heart? You will fail yourself and let down the years.

9. Half of the happiness in life must be fought for, and the other half must be followed. Fight, not with others, but with hardship. There is no happiness that is easy to come by. Only by working hard and actively striving for happiness can you get closer to happiness step by step. Following doesn’t mean going with the flow, but knowing where to stop and then settle down. Due to limitations of abilities and conditions, many people can only take things as they come. If you fight, you will have fewer regrets in life; if you follow suit, those who are content will always be happy. What I'm most afraid of is not fighting when it's time to fight, not stopping when it's time to fight, and always suffering from the entanglement.

10. In life, there are many things that cannot be said. Some happiness may not be understood by others; some sadness may not be felt by others. Some are tired, tired on the body, tired on the heart; some tears, hanging on the face, hurt on the heart; some pain, no injury or trace, pain on the heart. What people are most afraid of: the strangeness after deep friendship; the pain after seriousness; the use after trust; the indifference after tenderness; if love has God's will, will it care for you; why do people always feel speechless when they have a clear understanding of the heart. If there is sound, it is also tiring; if it is tangible, it is also painful; if there is injury, it still hurts. It turns out that invisible scars hurt the most, and tears that cannot be shed are the coldest.