What's the experience of having a neighbor who likes to drop in?

If we have a neighbor who likes to drop in, it may be a happy thing for us, or it may be a very headache. How can I put it? Although it is a good thing to have such an enthusiastic neighbor, many times this neighbor will also bring inconvenience to yourself and your family. Therefore, in my opinion, having such a neighbor who likes to drop by is more often an uncomfortable and helpless experience. After all, in the face of others' kindness, we can't refuse directly, but we can only smile and say hello, while our neighbors can't feel the real psychology of the host.

In my hometown, there are many such neighbors; Maybe it's because we are so familiar with each other that our neighbors often come home to play. Especially for a neighbor in the village, although the family doesn't like it very much, there is no way to see them off directly; Only the whole family can chat and drink tea with him. Many times, out of courtesy, he will stay at home for dinner. In the face of such a neighbor who loves to visit, his family is also very helpless.

When he first came to my house, he remembered that his family was still very warm and welcome. But as the number of visits increased, his family gradually became unhappy. Because he is not good at winking at people, he sometimes stays at home late. The family can only chat with him for a while and have nothing to say. Although he has yawned, he is embarrassed to say that he will take him home. Sometimes, if he captures useful information about our family conversation, he will go back and tell others, which makes my family very unhappy. So later, many people in the family didn't like his arrival, and they were just being polite every time.

I think if everyone is facing a neighbor like me, they may feel very annoyed! Not only can he not help our family, but he will also choose your busiest time to play. Such neighbors are more common in rural areas, but much less in cities; I don't know what you think when you have such enthusiastic neighbors around you.