What if you meet someone who is rude to you?

Fingers are long and short, so are people's qualities. Respect is mutual. If someone doesn't respect you, you treat him like air. If you feel angry, deal with a man as he deals with you, and you will become like him.

Such a thing is inevitable, and it is inevitable to meet some people with no quality in life. Just pretend you didn't see anything, avoid it, out of sight, out of mind. You tell them with your own actions that you don't take them seriously at all. He just directed and performed there like a clown.

Second, do the opposite.

He didn't respect you just to make you angry and deliberately give you trouble. Just pretend you don't know anything, smile at him, be polite to him and show great respect to him. The ruder he speaks, the more polite you answer. This will naturally make the other person feel ashamed.

Third, try to communicate.

Some people may have poor quality due to family education. Sometimes it may be because you have some misunderstanding with others, so others will deliberately target you, deliberately disrespect you and deliberately embarrass you. You can find a chance for two people to have a good talk. If communication fails, such people will try to stay away from it in the future.

However, don't blindly tolerate it, otherwise it will only make the other party push your luck. You can confront him fair and square. But we must grasp the degree and show our self-cultivation.

Fourth, strengthen yourself.

This is the most important method. Only if you are competent enough, others will not despise you, let alone disrespect you. If you are a leader, who among your employees dares to yell at you? People who don't respect you are watching you being bullied. So you have to make yourself stronger, you have to tell yourself that you are not afraid of him, and you have to overwhelm him in ability.

Thirdly, respect is mutual. If you encounter such a situation in your life, you must handle it skillfully. In addition, we should also understand that if we want to be respected by others, we must first respect others.