Why do people say, "When you talk a lot, you are the stupidest"?

Silence is golden, eloquence is silver, and talkative is a donkey. This is my first thought when I saw this topic.

There is a limit to everything, and few words are useful. If you always talk about one thing endlessly, which will cause disgust, then you are not telling the truth, but making noise.

A wise man knows enough is enough, and a stupid man can talk.

If you talk too much, you will lose your vigilance, you will be sure to have a stomachache, come up with various reasons to prove your words, unconsciously expose your true feelings, and unconsciously throw your true feelings to others. Such people are the most stupid, and giving your true feelings without purpose will not have any results.

As the saying goes, if you talk too much, you will lose.

When you are talking, what you should say and what you shouldn't say comes out, sometimes it will be boring and sometimes it will be troublesome. Smart people don't put themselves in this situation.

The most taboo thing is that when others are frustrated and helpless, when others encounter difficulties, when others are depressed and silent, you still show yourself endlessly, and it is the stupidest not to understand the enthusiasm of the times!

We should remember that Zhang Chi is a gentle and temperate person, and we should not be chatty fools.

Because, if you talk too much, you lose. If you are smart, listen more and talk less, speak slowly about urgent matters, and speak tactfully about important matters as much as possible.

Especially in front of elders, it is also a sign of respect to listen more and talk less and nod more.

No matter where you are, you talk a lot, you talk a lot,

Disgusting people always feel that what they say is the most reasonable, they don't care about other people's feelings, and they can't understand what they say. This kind of person is the most stupid. . .

People are social animals, and sometimes they want to prove themselves and express themselves through their endless eloquence and so-called cultural literacy. However, it took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us a lifetime to learn to shut up. There are countless examples where the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional. So the creator, let us have two ears, one pair of eyes and one mouth, that is, let us listen more, see more and talk less.

There is an old saying: "If you get sick from your mouth, you will lose if you talk too much." Many people enjoy expressing their opinions and feel that others are listening, so they can't help feeling high. This is to dig a big hole for yourself, and I don't know if I fall into it. In fact, if you think about it, you are not a big boss or a big leader. Do people really want to hear you brag?

First, you don't know which sentence offended people.

First of all, with so many people here, it is very likely that your unintentional comments were heard and then relayed to the parties. The parties are furious, saying people like you and speaking ill of others behind their backs. Secondly, just because others don't object doesn't mean they don't have opinions. Maybe he didn't say anything at that time, but he was very sad afterwards. Finally, people who disagree with you can't say anything about you, but they hold a grudge and don't retaliate today. You should be careful in the future.

Second, inadvertently exposed their own information.

Every time you talk big. It is very likely that some people think that this person is not good, too talkative, or even unreliable, and cross you out from their hearts. Some people silently observe, what do you do, what does your wife do, where do you live, and your basic information will be known in one meal. Unintentional people are fine. If you meet someone who cares about you, you will be in trouble.

In a word, silence is golden. In our daily life, we must talk less to avoid stepping on the pit.

I agree with this sentence. In fact, there are some things that don't need to be said, and they are all purposeful. One is to show yourself. Needless to say, there are achievements. Without grades, you can only make yourself uglier. Others think that you are hypocritical and are suspected of gilding the lily.

Another is to use language to change something and get others' approval. That's not necessary. Sometimes what you say and what others hear are not necessarily the same thing. You can't change anything. It may make others more annoyed. You can't achieve your goal, but you lose everything in front of you.

Another way is to achieve a certain goal through endless conversation. Nowadays, people are very smart. They don't want to see what you say, but rather what you do. Your words can only make people more wary of you. At that time, you were just a clown who tried to perform.

Sometimes words and attitudes are the same. When others talk to you too much and are very attentive, you must remember that you may be the object of his use. Therefore, a person is the most stupid when he talks endlessly, and exposing himself is also annoying. Sometimes you don't have to say too much.

This statement is too narrow and extreme, limited to certain good people.

Misfortune comes from the mouth, really. So there is a saying that silence is golden. In order to preserve our sanity, we have to face right and wrong without arguing. Think about it, what is this kind of person's identity and position.

Think again, since ancient times, people who have made great achievements have been absolutely silent, but three poles have nothing to do with it? Of course not.

Successful people are either thinkers. As a thinker, you should not only think, but also say, if he doesn't say, it's impossible. Either a politician or a scholar must speak out, otherwise it is impossible.

No matter what kind of home, including wealthy businessmen and tycoons, can not be separated from the propaganda ability, but also from the organizational ability. They not only need foresight, but also need to know when and how much to say, but they can't do it without talking, let alone talking.

Therefore, anyone who does things can't talk, but can't talk indiscriminately.

Why do people say that when you talk a lot, you are the stupidest.

I personally agree with this statement. Why?

We should have a limit to what we do and pay attention to what we say. It is not enough to go too far. Moreover, what we say should be well thought out and well founded. Don't talk nonsense if you don't know, don't talk nonsense if you don't know, and don't talk nonsense without investigating yourself.

When you speak, you should also divide your position on this occasion, which you should say and which you shouldn't. What should be said, what should not be said.

Some people, regardless of their status and position, are "speakers" and "speakers" everywhere, showing their uniqueness everywhere. In fact, such people are extremely stupid.

Speaking depends on the overall environment. In an environment where lies are flying all over the sky, telling the truth may even hurt yourself.

In a word, speaking is also an art in life. The ancients said that "if you talk too much, you will lose" and "disaster comes from your mouth". We must remember that sometimes silence is a good choice, but in any case, you can't do anything against your conscience.

Speaking is a language art, including voice, intonation and expression. Concise words can express the themes, thoughts, viewpoints and opinions you want to express. This kind of free communication makes people feel happy, with endless aftertaste.

However, that kind of endless, chatty, gild the lily communication can only reflect a person's inner emptiness and low self-cultivation, and forget the truth that much is lost. Explain that you are a self-centered person who always wants to show how smart, intelligent and eloquent you are, regardless of other people's feelings, that is, you don't respect others or yourself.

I don't know how disgusted the other person is when you talk too much. Who still likes to communicate with you over time? Away from you, there are fewer and fewer friends. So being a listener from time to time is also the great wisdom of being a man!

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First, the more ignorant people are, the more they feel they know.

If the heart is not practical, it will cover up ignorance with eloquence.

There is another kind, naive and simple, saying everything and letting others know each other.

There is also a kind of concern about others' approval, which means asking others to nod.

However, it is neither pure nor black and white. Is it really good to keep silent all day?

Do you dare to associate with such people?

Have you seen another chatterbox?

I've seen it before. Others described him as not telling the truth, and one sentence was broken into three sentences.

I didn't know there was such a person until I was old.

I gave him a nickname:

A sincere liar.

Rather than listen, say it. Chattering, if you are boastful, empty and full of nonsense, you will certainly give people this level. You know you're stupid if you don't say it, and the more you say it, the more you feel stupid.

You don't have deep opinions and insufficient knowledge reserves, so you show your true colors. Wisdom is better than silence. Talking endlessly, unable to find others to talk to, and arrogant, no one is watching, naturally causing people's unhappiness. If you talk too much, there will naturally be loopholes and imprecision. It's stupid to say nothing useful for a long time.

Speaking and listening are smart!