Uncle accused Lori, dare you accuse Uncle?

Ms Venus summed up the recent appearance of love rat with this sentence, and attached a picture that can't be said to be blustery or calm, which is very meaningful.

This wave of love rat, in fact, to put it bluntly, is a story in which all girls are severely put together by Uncle Zha.

What kind of creature is uncle?

Probably a species with many years of accumulation, calm as a mountain, calm as water, still not so old after success, unique temperament, understand women's hearts. Compared with all kinds of giant baby boys, mambo boys, straight men with cancer, or boys who just don't have so many resources and are slightly immature, uncle really has natural attraction.

So in recent years, more and more little girls have labeled themselves as "big uncle control".

But is your uncle really controllable?

Stop saying "age is not a problem". Most uncle relationships that end in failure are due to the age gap.

Age is definitely a problem! !

What is hidden behind the string of numbers of age is actually a very unequal connotation for little girls.

1. Differences in psychological maturity.

Since you can be called "uncle", almost the average age is ten years apart.

What is the concept of ten years? Intuitively speaking, it is the gap between the first grade of primary school and the second grade of high school.

While primary school students are growing up, high school students are also maturing. With the maturity of human cognition and logical thinking, senior high school students mature much faster than primary school students.

In other words, it is a common phenomenon that there is always a mature distance between Lori and her uncle.

As a high school student, can you communicate with primary school students normally? I think it's cute at first, but soon my patience will wear off. After that, there will be all kinds of boredom, even boredom.

So are Lori and her uncle.

Of course, you can say, what should a clever little girl do when she meets an uncle who is a little stupid?

Come on, Lori herself is so smart and witty, why should she love an uncle who is a little silly?

Only handsome, mature and steady people can call uncle, okay?

Can't do this can only be called "master"?

At least someone in Weibo once said that ~

2. Differences in experience

You like uncle's maturity and stability because he experienced a frivolous, reckless and ignorant adolescence;

You like uncle's success and inner strength because he has worked hard in society for many years and created today's achievements from scratch. Where there is achievement, there is social status. With money and fame, you have a strong heart.

You like uncle's tenderness and affection, and he understands women's hearts, because he has rich emotional experiences. When men leave women, they will more or less add some skills, such as lip service, coaxing women, kitchen service, or bed service. In case he happens to be handsome, there is no need to study these skills deliberately. Naturally, there are various female resources to be his experimental field and his emotional school.

Besides, uncle, usually the image is radiant.

Of course, you can also say: I like my uncle to make unremitting efforts to build his own quality life with his own hands.

Very good, this is very inspirational, congratulations on seeing the obvious advantages of the uncle group!

I have struggled from a poor boy to a respected successful person, and I have indeed grown from a potential stock to a veritable blue chip. However, such an uncle always has hard memories of his poor boy days in his heart. They attach great importance to their achievements, so their interest becomes particularly important.

Benefits have become particularly important! ! !

For Qian Fan's tired mind, interests are much more reliable than feelings. Don't say uncles are too realistic. This is the way uncles do things. Without Wu Xiubo, there would be useful uncles, such as Zhang Xiubo and Li Xiubo. Even the milk tea sister who claimed to have true love and seemed to be making a positive result accepted the agreement of uncle and husband to advance their income before marriage.

Moreover, people who value interests will naturally try their best to safeguard interests.

As many mature and wise uncles as you can see, there are as many dark schemers as you can't see. Professor Wu Xiubo and Lang are just the tip of the iceberg.

Lori, playing is for profit. You can't play with uncle.

3. Class differences

If the first two can't shock the girl who is curious about uncle, this should be the most insurmountable one.

It is true that the economic base determines the superstructure.

If you don't have that economic foundation, you don't have your uncle's social privileges, contacts and resources.

Wu Xiubo can use the police to deal with a woman; Professor Lang seems to have a high IQ. If you think about it, it's not hard to guess how many relationships you have to sneak through, with private think tanks around you. This is enough to see uncle's financial resources and connections.

Lori, if you want a piece of the action, Uncle will give you some, but you will never get in touch with Uncle's core resources.

Because you are not in the same class!

Lori, I'm sorry to break some of your illusions about your uncle.

Then if you think your uncle is really gentle and kind and loves you very much, can't he go to the end?

Ok, then I'll tell you how to subdue your uncle.

1. Correct three views! ! !

The first one is simple: if you marry an uncle, you can't get any love! ! !

2. Keep growing.

Lori and uncle are always separated by a somewhat desperate age.

With uncle's age and mentality, he is unlikely to adapt to you like a little boy.

If you love him enough, I'm afraid you have to run and grow up, enrich your life experience, speed up your maturity, shorten the psychological distance with your uncle as much as possible from the outside to the inside, from psychology to skills, so that you can communicate with your uncle as directly and smoothly as possible, understand his thoughts as much as possible, and make him think that you are the person who can understand him best.

In the past few years after marriage, Sister Milk Tea has studied management and financial management, broadened her social circle and honed her social skills. After giving birth to her daughter, she still feels full of girlhood. With the help of her husband's resources, she did not stop at these resources. Compared with Tsinghua Xueba, who was less car-scrapping a few years ago, everyone can see her growth over the years. Indeed, the peach affair of her greedy husband really put her under great mental and public pressure, but handling the whole thing well also showed a 25-year-old woman's emotional intelligence and strong heart.

For him, most people can only sigh, and I'm afraid they are not qualified for sympathy. Even her greedy uncle is still afraid to take action against her.

3. Economic independence and personality independence.

The scholar's anxiety can still be removed; You can't get rid of women's troubles.

This seems to be a truth that applies to most people in the world.

Even so, Lori, you should know that no matter how much you love uncle, he is only a part of your world, not the whole.

There is another truth: the economic base determines the first volume of the building.

You should have an independent income source! Uncle often can't help it. You just need to strengthen the more controllable part, which is yourself. You should have the financial ability to take care of yourself, you should have concerns other than your uncle, and you should have the IQ and self-confidence to live a wonderful life without your uncle.

This woman, amal alamuddin, you may not be familiar with.

But if I say she is George Clooney's wife, you should know what a powerful woman she is.

The woman who can make the prodigal George Clooney catch up with the burning old house when he is over 500 years old is like this. She has the appearance and figure of a Hollywood actress and is more confident and intellectual.

But Clooney is not interested in these things.

Amal alamuddin is a barrister at DoughtyStreetChambers, a famous British law firm. Her famous clients include Wikileaks founder julian assange and former Ukrainian beauty prime minister Tymoshenko.

This schoolmaster obviously can live by his face, but he became a winner in life by his IQ, and then attracted his husband George Clooney. When the latter first launched the pursuit offensive, it also refused. Clooney also talked about the idea that he was not worthy of the other party for the first time in the interview. Obviously Clooney is the icing on the cake of Aladdin's life. Even without him, Alamddine can have a wonderful life.

Lori and uncle like this will make people feel that it will last for a long time.

After all, it's even.

4. Put away princess disease and learn to take care of people.

Many loli like uncles, and their motives may be as simple as having Oedipus complex.

However, the man who will love you so wholeheartedly, there is only dad in the world, and there is no branch.

Therefore, uncle can't completely spoil you and tolerate you like his father, or it may only be temporary. After dopamine expires, uncle can no longer play the game of prince and princess with you. What they need are mature women who can really communicate with them, and they will not please the little girl all the time. If you can't hold the princess's illness willfully, uncle will definitely leave, not just uncle, but all men will definitely leave!

However, uncle will especially need someone who can take care of him.

The disadvantage of uncle is that he will age faster than you. For an elderly man, gentle and comprehensive care is what they instinctively need. You may need to know what kind of food is delicious and healthy, you may need to know how to make your home comfortable and orderly, you may need to tolerate the subtle jealousy and crisis of young people, you may need to adjust your living habits to the old-age mode prematurely, you may not be able to meet your friends often, you may not be able to accompany your parents often, and you may even have to endure mental and physical loneliness. ...

This little girl doesn't exist. Weng Fan is a good example.

But, for your uncle, can you do it?

The word "Lolita" comes from Bonakov's shocking masterpiece Lolita, which is the story of a pedophile man and a girl of 13 years old. However, even Lolita, who is a little ignorant and doesn't study hard, knows that she has escaped from her uncle's clutches as an adult ~

So, do you still dare to control uncle?