Besides, boys pay the bill.

Before marriage, I don't think it is necessary for boys to buy everything for girls, because we are born equal, and both boys and girls have equal rights and freedoms. We usually have the idea that girls are soft-hearted and cautious and should be protected by boys. In any case, they always think that boys are better than girls. They are more mature. Boys are not only male chauvinist, but also very safe. In our parents' view, boys should protect girls and treat girls as children. In my opinion, girls need the protection of boys, but when it comes to paying the bill, boys don't always have to pay the bill. Before we got married, most of our financial resources came from our parents, and it was their parents' hard-earned money that paid for our boyfriend (girlfriend). I agree that boys spend a lot of money, and sometimes they can spend more for so-called self-esteem, just to prevent their girlfriends from looking down on them. For a long time, it is natural for boys to pay for girls, which is absolutely wrong. Although I have been in love several times since I was so big, I really didn't want to get married in the future. Take the boyfriend I talked about in college as an example. His personality is not suitable for me, but he has a big opinion on spending money. He is the only child in their family, and his behavior habits are not very good since he was a child. He spends a lot of money and doesn't want to eat at all. He could have gone to a place on foot or by bus, but he insisted on dripping water. I have another one at home. I spend my money carefully. I know how to share and save. When I go out to play with my boyfriend, I always make plans for both of us. I will spend as little as possible and buy the most happiness with the least money. Every time I go out to play, although I am a girl, I won't let my boyfriend buy everything for me. Instead, I will pay for him and try my best to make us both spend. Anyway, I won't get used to boys paying for me. It takes years to get married. I hope everyone who falls in love before marriage has a rational consumption attitude. Boys are not omnipotent, they need to manage their own lives hard. Some girls may think that their boyfriends don't like me if they don't pay for me. Of course, this may be because they don't like you very much, so they won't invest in you, and they won't let you induce him to invest. Of course, just because boys pay for girls doesn't mean that boys especially like girls. It's a good face for boys. No matter what happens, girls must not rely too much on boys. True love is based on equality. I hope everyone in love can grasp the discretion and enjoy the sweetness brought by love in this relationship run by two people! No one has the obligation to be kind to anyone, only two people can understand each other to go farthest!