How to chat with girls without embarrassment? 3 Keep you away from the idea of chatting.

① When many boys are chasing girls, they chat whenever they have time in order to quickly improve their feelings with girls. As everyone knows, this is one of the reasons why you are caught in an embarrassing chat.

You know, if you chat with girls too often, the consumption of topics will increase. When the topic is finished, girls will be impatient, which is doomed to an embarrassing ending.

After all, what we can talk about can never be separated from our own experience, news gossip, hobbies, knowledge and ability, which are all non-renewable resources to some extent.

If at this time, girls' interest in chatting is aroused by you, and the topic suddenly dries up and there is nothing to say, then the hard-won connection between you and girls will disappear, and the sense of trust and intimacy will enter an extremely fragile state. In short, don't talk to girls when you have nothing to do.

Second, say less inappropriate words.

① Some embarrassing chats are because boys don't have insight into the atmosphere and environment, including the state of girls, and say something they shouldn't say, which causes girls' discomfort. The boy didn't realize his mistake, and continued to develop on inappropriate topics, desperately seeking his own way, leaving the girl in a bad mood and unwilling to talk to him again. This kind of behavior is precisely the embodiment of straightforward thinking that girls don't like very much.

The thinking of so-called straight male cancer mostly has the following ideas: I think so, so I said, what's the matter? This mode of thinking can be said to be simple and excessive. Quite a few boys have this idea when chatting with girls.

It doesn't really matter how unique and smart you are. The girl's mood has been suppressed by you, and now you are a demon who likes to sting her. Not all the time, you can attract a girl by showing her your value. As a boy, we should know how to observe and think about the girl's psychology and take care of her feelings and emotions. Don't support yourself by belittling others, especially those who have a place in her heart.

Third, seize the interest window of girls.

For example, telling an interesting story to a girl, satisfying her curiosity and showing the value before her heart solidified, then the relationship between the two people will definitely take a big step forward. But unfortunately, I often see many brothers say the same thing when answering girls-"not as powerful as you think, I can't talk well for the time being."

This can be said to be the most common embarrassing chat scene. At least one of our brothers did this when chatting with girls online. If you are just a stranger on social software, more than 80% of girls will not reply to your message.

Only girls who have talked for a while can chat with you again, but the new enthusiasm of girls has been poured cold water, and they are not interested in continuing to chat. Basically, they just say some saliva and end the conversation.