A man who swears to you (a man who swears to his wife)

Some time ago, I heard something. When a friend quarreled with her husband, he scolded him badly, and it was in public, so recently my friend clamored for a divorce. In reality, some men like to call names when quarreling. Today, I will tell you about the psychology of men swearing at their wives.

inferiority complex

Many times, the more seemingly powerful people are, in fact, they are very inferior inside, which is what they want to show when they are lacking. His swearing, beating and punishing others is actually a process of suppressing inferiority and building self-confidence.

There was once a netizen who was such a person. He also expressed his true state of mind: "She is a good woman, and everyone around her says so, but I just can't get used to her indifference to everything, and she is excellent, calm and focused everywhere."

vindictive psychology

This kind of psychology is dark, but it can still be seen in life, and the general reasons are more complicated. Many men behave like Nuo Nuo before marriage, obedient to you, but become completely different after marriage, and the possibility of revenge is not ruled out.

Before marriage, women usually have the upper hand, which may offend men's self-esteem. At this time, men put up with it. But after marriage, men feel that their status has become higher, so these things, big or small, will accumulate together because of their narrow-mindedness, and finally form endless revenge.

Despise psychology

Men curse their wives with dirty words. In the final analysis, I still look down on my wife and think that my wife is not as good as myself, so I will abuse it wantonly. Such a man looks down on his wife from beginning to end. He doesn't like her anyway, so he either scolds his wife at home or takes pleasure in humiliating his wife.

Venting psychology

I don't know if you have found the problem. In life, those who abuse their wives or like to scold them are honest in front of outsiders, and even passive Nuo Nuo. When you are angry outside, you take your wife as an outlet.

This kind of psychology is actually a kind of venting psychology. The more incompetent men are, the worse their attitude towards their wives is, because they like to vent their negative emotions with close people.