Ipartment Zhang Yida: Hard life needs no explanation.

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Someone said, "If the whole world can understand you, how ordinary you should be."

I thought the same thing.

It's harder to meet people who understand you at a certain age.

Everyone is different.

Will eventually understand:? "Never explain yourself to others."

People who understand don't need to explain.

A few days ago, there was a hot spot in Weibo:

Jackson Yee was pointed at after posting a message on "Grandma and Mom".

He was accused of poor expressive ability, greasy, lacking social skills and unworthy of being an actor.

Jackson Yi replied, "I am your father!" "

Many netizens said:? Too strong. He is the bravest man in the apartment.

Simple four words,? It makes people happy.

As Haruki Murakami said, "Not all fish will live in the same sea."

You stand at the top of the mountain and tell him that there is a Wang Yang in front of you. He is halfway up the mountain and can only see the desolation everywhere.

We come from different places, different circles have different lives.

People who know you don't need to explain, and people who don't know you don't need to explain.

Everyone has a different situation and a different position.

If you don't understand my sadness, how can you understand me?

Believe that in life, we often hear such a voice:

"Why are you so tinkering with? Are you tired? "

"Learning skills should be single-minded and not half-hearted?"

"What's the use of reading so many books? In the end, it is still different from me. "

"I spent so much money in so many countries, but I didn't have to come back."

No matter how you explain these people, your communication with me is not at the same level.

I don't understand what you did. No matter how much you explain to them, you are casting pearls before swine.

So the unified answer to them is: "I am your father."

People who don't understand, it's useless to explain.

Where there are people, there are right and wrong. When there are hundreds of people, it is difficult to unify. .

We come from different places, different circles have different lives. What people who don't understand you say to them is nonsense.

Haruki Murakami said in the book The End of the World and the Cold Wonderland:

"There is sadness in the world that can't shed tears, and this sadness can't be explained to people.

Even if you explain, people won't understand. "

The older you get, the more you can understand this sentence.

Everyone's personality and preferences are unique, and they all have their own set of thoughts and beliefs.

So that everyone can no longer stay,

You'll never get where you are.

It's no use explaining to people who haven't experienced it personally.

Even people who have experienced it feel different.

"People who know you don't need to explain; People who don't understand you are not worth explaining. "

If the other person doesn't understand you, it's no use explaining more.

If the other person is biased against you, the more you explain, the more you will arouse the other person's disgust.

Yes, people who know you will naturally understand.

As a man, you don't need to explain too much, you will find that it is yourself who is thankless and tired.

If it is right, why explain it? Time will tell.

If it is wrong, there is no need to explain, time will correct everything.

Be yourself and have a clear conscience.

There is a debate in "Seven Pa Shuo": "Misunderstood, do you want to clarify?"

In the past, I think everyone's answer was mostly the same:

Be misunderstood, of course, have to come out to explain.

Until I saw this passage on the Internet:

At this age, it is too difficult to find someone who understands you. When you are misunderstood and hurt, you prefer to remain silent and choose not to explain.

Because I know in my heart that if you don't explain it to someone who knows you, he will know it in his heart, but no matter how you explain it to someone who doesn't know you, you are casting pearls before swine.

A word pokes people's hearts.

Not everything can be distinguished clearly.

You don't have to convince one person every time you speak.

Just like any book you read must be useful, any sum of money you invest must be doubled, and everything you do must be rewarded.

You can't decide what angle others will think,

Living in the world, no matter how pure you are, in some people's narrow worldview, you are stingy.

No matter how good a person is, in the eyes of ungrateful people, you are willing.

So many times, we just need to be ourselves and have a clear conscience.

You don't have to force everyone's understanding, go your own way, and life will be suddenly enlightened.

Essential knowledge points:

The rest of your life is expensive, and some people are not worth your time and energy to explain.

Those who know me make me worry, and those who don't know me make me want.

The most important thing is to spend time on love and career, be yourself and be happy every day.