Love is hard to open in your heart? What seven teenagers can't say.

"Actually, I don't even know myself" and "Actually, I think you know my friends" ... Are there any cool boys and girls at home? They actually want to say something from the heart, but they can't say it. ......

Adolescent children seem to be full of loneliness, and there are many secrets hidden in their hearts at any time. If they touch it a little, they will immediately appear rude and resistant. In fact, children are not ignorant of their parents' advice.

Reader's Digest pointed out that in the face of adolescent embarrassment, parents should first achieve the following three levels in front of their children: let their children be independent, understand their needs and provide companionship. If parents intend to have a further dialogue with their children, please listen carefully to these 7 heartfelt words from their hearts!

1. Actually, I attach great importance to your opinion.

Although most teenagers don't understand it, they actually attach great importance to their parents' opinions and behaviors. Therefore, parents must be cautious, think about their roles and become the best role models for their children. After all, even the speed used to drive a vehicle is a child's learning field.

Actually, your concern is very important to me.

Even if the children are indifferent and have no specific response, they still clearly know that their parents care about them, and parents don't have to rush to find their children to break the ice. As long as parents can properly express their concern every day, they can soften their children's freezing attitude. When picking up children from school or at the dinner table, parents can take the opportunity to open their children's chatterboxes. For example, my colleague did a stupid thing at the meeting today, and we all laughed to death in your class. Share your daily details and let your child know that you care about him.

Actually, I think you know my friend.

Parents may wish to recall that they often talked about friendship when they were young. In fact, this is a necessary process in life. Children at this stage are more likely to regard their friends as the center of their lives, so teenagers will want their parents to be curious about their friends to some extent; By understanding the children's circle of friends, parents can also master the ideas that children rely on.

Actually, I don't even understand it myself.

Science has proved that our brain continues to develop until the age of 26, and the last mature area is the prefrontal part that deals with planning, logic and understanding, which is why teenagers often make impulsive decisions. In fact, even they themselves often wonder why they always deal with things in an irrational way. In fact, it's just that their brains don't have enough ability to construct meticulous logical thinking.