I always spend money lavishly, how can I restrain my desire to shop?

There are many ways, such as not carrying a wallet when you go out, not putting too much money on your mobile phone, making financial plans during the paycheck period, writing shopping lists and doing rational analysis, etc., all of which can help you restrain your desire to shop. . But if a person wants to fundamentally change the problem of lavish spending, he must understand the hard work of making money, the difficulty of life, and become responsible.

Tell me my story, a girl who ran out of money at the beginning of a month and maxed out her credit cards many times. At that time, I felt that life should be about enjoying yourself in time. The purpose of making money is to spend it. In order to improve the quality of your life, save money. Money is of no use at all, so tacky. But for adults, the world is full of variables. I was having fun at the bar that day when I received a call from my mother. My father had a heart attack and was hospitalized. When we got home in a hurry, the doctor told us to get a stent, which cost 80,000 yuan for a good one or 20,000 yuan for a cheap one. Let us choose by ourselves. Looking at the three digits in the bank card, can you all feel my feelings? A strong sense of powerlessness, and for the first time I feel the importance of saving money. The expensive cosmetics, bags, and jewelry I bought were of no help at all when I was facing the huge cost of surgery!

Since then, my thinking has undergone earth-shaking changes. I have learned to shop rationally without restraint, save when I can, and save when I can. Now I can shop around for goods, buy food and cook by myself. Throughout the year, although I don’t save much, I still have some savings. This is growth. When you experience ups and downs, you will know the importance of money. We cannot say that money is everything, but as long as it can be solved with money, it is not a big deal.

This epidemic has left people unemployed at home. How many people who spend money lavishly are panicking and cannot afford to pay rent, pay off car loans, or even put food on the table. I can only borrow money in a humble manner and eat my old age. As long as you have some savings in hand, you will not be in such a situation. Therefore, I hope you understand the cruelty of reality and the importance of money to adults, and your desire for shopping will naturally be eliminated.