After marriage, the man spoke ill of me (selected 60 sentences)

The man spoke ill of me after marriage (I) 1. The biggest and most important change after marriage is that husband and wife no longer appreciate each other after marriage. Specifically, ignore each other's advantages, not praise, not praise, more sarcasm, more irony; Ignore what the other person has done for himself, take everything for granted, and have no heartfelt gratitude.

2. The grievances that can be said are not grievances; A lover who can be taken away is not a lover.

Don't wait until he is someone else's in the end, but your love becomes love.

4. What you see is free and easy, and it is all helplessness after heartbreak.

5. A sentence that disappoints her husband

6. Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed.

7. People who have never lost anything will never know what it feels like to lose.

8. Talk about a person's disappointment. It is chilling to talk about a person's complete disappointment.

9. Although I can't give you the whole world, do you believe my whole world can give it to you?

10. Facing the unfortunate marriage, the first thing we should do is to give up the war. Of course, we don't expect to be sweet right away, but we should calm down and think about it. Without thinking, there is no action, and it is impossible to find the key to solving specific problems, because what you want, the details of your marriage are always the clearest, and the key to solving problems is ultimately in your own hands.

1 1. When you are obsessed with one thing, you can only have this one thing.

12. I want to know why my Jinse has fifty strings, and each string has a youthful interval. Zhuangzi daydreaming, a saint, was bewitched by butterflies, and cuckoo crowed in the imperial spring. Mermaids shed pearl-like tears on the moon-green sea, and the blue fields breathed their jade to the sun. It's worth remembering that it had come and gone before I knew it.

13. People who are too sentimental and sensitive often live very tired.

14. From the beginning, I didn't ask too much. I don't want to be rich and expensive. As long as the two of them have a job that can keep them hungry and lead their own lives, even this has become a luxury. A man who didn't earn a few dollars had a big family accident. Damn it, who did I owe in my last life? Now I regret marrying the wrong person. Really annoying!

15. Overeating will make you fat, and long-term degradation will lead to decadence; Take the initiative for a long time will be very tired, care for a long time will collapse; If you wait for a long time, you will retreat. If you are disappointed, you will have no tears.

16. The irresistible thing is the beginning, and the irresistible thing is the end.

17. What impresses you most in your memory must be yourself.

18. I told myself not to cry, but I couldn't help it.

19. As a romantic bachelor, one can envy others.

20. I sent my mother to the west of the city today. Every time I send my mother, I feel reluctant and sad. It's really hard to watch her go home alone. How should a wrong marriage move forward?

The man spoke ill of me after marriage (2)1. In the eyes of the people I love, I am just a passer-by in the vast sea of people.

22. 17 years old, how can you be sad at the age of 70? 18 years old, how can you wait at the age of 80?

23. No matter how beautiful it is, it can't stand forgetting, and sadness can't stand time.

24. Don't blame others for letting you down, but blame yourself for expecting too much.

25. In the eyes of the person I love, I am just a passer-by in the vast sea of people.

26. Myopia is also good. My left eye is melancholy and my right eye is hazy. At least I don't have to see people too thoroughly.

27. The original marriage certificate cannot guarantee the quality of marriage.

28. Every section of the road is an understanding. Please don't think how unforgettable you are!

29. You can never wake a person who pretends to sleep, and it's no use keeping someone who wants to leave.

30. I will remember the unexpected warmth in my life, and I will also remember the days when it rained heavily without an umbrella.

3 1. The air soaked by rain is tired and sad, and the fairy tales in memory have slowly melted.

Love is helpless. The heart of love is broken.

33. The most shameless man is to say to a woman, "It's up to you.

34. As if nothing had happened, tableland is the most malicious revenge.

It is true that you are driven crazy occasionally, but I don't love you anymore.

36. I would rather be silent than hide my face and cry in every heavy rain and lonely journey and tell you this feeling.

37. Those prosperous sorrows will eventually become the past. Please don't be disappointed. Ordinary is for the most beautiful.

38. I want to stay and live with you, share some hardships and enjoy some happiness occasionally. If you don't want to, I will accompany you through the most difficult days, no matter what.

39. A man cries because he really loves him. The woman cried because she really gave up.

40. After drinking a few bottles of cold beer, I'm still not drunk. The person who wants to win, sitting opposite me, still wants to go.

My husband is not good to me after marriage (Part III) 4 1. During the holiday, I traveled all over the country with my friends.

42. You and I have no chance. We didn't break up because of the baby.

43. You always have to experience some betrayal and sadness to understand people's hearts.

44. People who marry only for money are extremely evil; People who marry only for love are stupid.

45. Marriage is the grave of love. Those who look outside the tomb are free, and those who look outside the tomb are happy, so someone will jump in.

46. The most regrettable thing in life is to give up what you shouldn't give up easily and stick to what you shouldn't insist on.

47. Please don't blame me for living alone sometimes. It takes courage to be alone.

48. All extreme emotions are short-lived, such as extreme joy or complete sadness.

49. Don't blame others for letting you down. Blame yourself for expecting too much.

The reason why I left him was not a sudden decision. The heart is getting cold, the leaves are turning yellow, and the story is always written slowly to the end.

5 1. Don't give up the pursuit of love after lovelorn. It is unrealistic to want to be single all your life after falling out of love. Life without love is not perfect, so keep knocking on the door of love.

52. Lying in bed is the most common place. One is that I love you, and the other is to sleep for another five minutes.

53. Close your eyes, the world has nothing to do with me.

54. My heart is tired to a certain extent, and I don't even have the strength to be angry and care.

55. You are my freeze frame, and I am your passer-by.

56. I have been awake, watching myself sink.

57. Don't leave your self-esteem on the ground and let anyone trample on it, and don't let yourself live too pitifully.

58. The promise that was once vowed has now turned into a sadness that is not worth mentioning.

59. The world is cold only because people are unpredictable!

60. We are like needles on the surface, turning and turning, while watching the time pass by in a hurry, but there is nothing we can do.

Disappointed sentences about marriage and husband (60 selected sentences)

I am disappointed in my marriage and my husband. Sentence (1) 1. Save enough and leave disappointed. Do you still want to save despair?

My sister slapped you on the wall and couldn't tear it off.

My husband's indifference disheartened me.

4. See through all disappointments.

Looking at this hysterical man in front of me, I can't remember how he loves me.

He said that he would love me all his life, and later I learned that his life is only two months.

7. A soft spot is mostly the fantasy of the author of the novel. People are unpredictable. For so many years, only one pair of Liang Zhu has become a butterfly in the world.

8. Without tears, the heart is a dry lake.

9. White-collar workers are nothing, and raising pigs is foreign.

10. Sometimes, for the sake of love, I quietly avoid the figure, but I can't avoid the silent feelings.

1 1. Betrayal sometimes becomes an inertial action.

12. The first time I cried because you weren't there, the first time I laughed because I met you, and the first time I laughed because I couldn't have you!

13. People who have never lost anything will never know the feeling of losing.

14. Men play with feelings and money, while women play with feelings and youth.

15. Sadness and disappointment, sad and desperate sentences

16. You think the worst thing in life is to lose the person you love the most, but in fact the worst thing is to lose yourself because you love someone too much.

17. Only when you are unloved will you cherish those who love you in the future.

18. Before I was with you, I was just an inexperienced girl, but after I was with you, what did you become of me?

19. I had a dream when I was a child, but it was difficult to realize my childhood dream when I grew up; When we were young, we lay in our mother's arms, but when we grow up, we seldom let our mother lie in our arms. In order not to disappoint ourselves, let's recall our childhood and experience everything when we were young.

As a romantic bachelor, one can envy others.

I used to be a person who looked up at the sky, and the blue sky always gave me the courage to live, but now I like the deep night sky, all-inclusive darkness and forbearance, leaving no one to see my tears.

Faced with an unhappy marriage, the first thing we should do is to give up the war. Of course, we don't expect to return to sweetness immediately, but we should calm down and think about each other. Without thinking, there is no action, and it is impossible to find the key to solving specific problems, because what you want, the details of your marriage are always the clearest, and the key to solving problems is ultimately in your own hands.

23. Some people are really nice to you, but some people have reasons behind them. Hum, people are unpredictable.

I am desperate for my helplessness in this family. What is even more desperate is that one day I may ruin it myself.

25. Start with liking and end with understanding.

26. Disappointment is like a coin. There is always enough money to buy a ticket and leave.

27. People are unpredictable, and the world is like frost.

28. We can be disappointed in love, but we can't stop loving because of disappointment. People should believe that good things in the world will always exist, and sincere love will never die. Give yourself courage and add color to your life.

29. I have been awake, watching myself sink.

30. Where did you fall? Where did you get up? The same place fell again. I suspect there is a pit ...

3 1. Men always feel that there are fewer women who are suitable for them before marriage, and more women who are suitable for them after marriage.

32. There is a kind of heartache called "suit yourself" and a kind of disappointment called "forget it".

It doesn't matter if you have a hard time for a man, but it's not worth sacrificing all your happiness. Why do you men live more happily than we women? Isn't it because you are quick to cut the gordian knot, decisive and ruthless, and ruthless in dealing with problems? I want to learn from men, be more rational and less emotional!

34. People who miss you will naturally come to you. What you have to do is to continue to be your best self and not let him down.

35. There is a bottom line between people. Cross the bottom line and you will see the truth that you don't want to face directly.

36. Disappointment is sometimes a kind of happiness. I will be disappointed because I have expectations. Regret is also a kind of happiness Because there are things you regret. Pursuing love, and then finding love, has always been a thousand times.

37. You are the brightest scar in my heart.

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If you would rather let me endure sadness than set me free, I will let you go.

40. Two of the three people will have a good relationship, and the other will be pushed back in the end.

Disappointed with marriage and husband (Chapter 3) 4 1. Anyway, I am a disappointing person.

42. Petals have agreed that they will bloom and wither together. It's no use for angels to dissuade you. They have agreed to be beautiful together and grow old together in this life.

43. I forgot how I used to laugh. I lost my carefree self. Maybe this is the price of growing up.

44. Those prosperous sorrows will eventually become the past. Please don't be disappointed. Ordinary is for the most beautiful.

45. When you look at this last time, all you have in mind is calm and hysterical farewell.

46. When people are most vulnerable, a picture, a song and a word can make them cry completely.

47. Because I love you wholeheartedly, I can only give you up mercilessly.

48. Giving up is to sacrifice your own things, and letting go is to abandon things that did not belong to you.

49. What is the concept of mental fatigue? I don't know. I don't know. I believe that mental fatigue is much more tiring than physical exertion. When you are overworked, you can have a good sleep and wake up fine. But what if people are tired? Is it okay to really have a good sleep? I don't think so.

50. You will always be the protagonist of your life. Don't always play a supporting role in other people's plays.

5 1. When you are sad, all the melodramatic sentences are tailored for yourself, and all the stories can be empathetic.

52. I brought this on myself. Who can I blame?

53. This scene ended in prosperity. Didn't win the whole country, but gave me everything.

54. Love and marriage are based on loyalty, trust and compromise. If a person loves you very much but has an affair, it is not love; It is not a good marriage for a person to value you but never trust you. And two people seem to love each other, but they are unwilling to give up a part of their lives for each other. This is not a long-term love. Loyal to love, trusting lovers and sacrificing each other, this is a happy marriage.

55. If a woman misses another man's arms when she is sad, does it mean that she married the wrong man?

56. The biggest fear is to let others down.

57. A judgment of disappointment to her husband

58. Who do you want to smile at? A city has been blurred for centuries.

59. No matter how beautiful love is, there are times of betrayal, just like the feeling of being wet by the rain.

60. Youth is gone, but there are still memories.

Give up her husband's sentence completely (60 selected sentences)

Give up my husband completely (I) 1. The night city is prosperous and the heart is cold. People can stay, but they can't.

2. I am afraid of losing, so I dare not have it; Afraid of cheating, so I can't believe it; I am afraid of being seen through, so I have been pretending; I want to be strong, so I have been trying to be brave; I don't want to give up, so I have been insisting; I don't want to cry, so I always pretend to laugh: I don't want to be left behind, so I'd rather be alone; Don't want to be bound by the past, so choose to forget the past; I don't want to say goodbye, so I'd rather not meet.

3. Open-minded: Don't worry and be pessimistic about unpleasant trifles. Franklin

What I miss is the impulse to love you after the quarrel.

Your good night is just good night, and my good night is I love you.

6. When you are kind to someone without asking for anything in return, that person will take your kindness for granted one day.

7. You are the brightest scar in my heart.

8. Flowers bloom on the other side, flowers bloom on the other side, flowers bloom without leaves, leaves grow without flowers, and flowers and leaves cherish each other forever.

9. Tell me about the classic widowed marriage.

10. No matter how happy a marriage is in this world, there will be thoughts of strangling each other a hundred times and divorcing 10,000 times.

1 1. Realistic society, realistic people, it is difficult to find sincerity and prevent people's hearts …

12. After getting drunk, he vomited and cried, and began to play crazily. The person who has been taking care of you asks you to be kind to him all your life.

13. Talk about overcoming the increasingly tired marriage. Tell me about my husband's chilling and desperate short sentence.

14. I always thought that the people who accompanied me would not leave, and those hands that had been holding hands would not let go. Who ever thought that goodbye was just a blurted sentence, and farewell was just a simple and casual turn. Many people, slowly dispersed, many things, gradually faded. On some sections, you can only walk quietly alone; It's a little bitter. I'm the only one who can't help but taste it. Life is short, I hope someone will give me a lifetime of indulgence.

15. As long as a woman marries the right person, every day is Valentine's Day! Marry the wrong person, life is really meaningless! Therefore, women must carefully consider at the right age, preferring to be single rather than settle down! Meeting the right person is the meaning of marriage!

16. People who are most afraid of waiting are always waiting, but what they can save is disappointment and helplessness.

17. People are unpredictable and hard to prevent. The scum on the side of the road are rubbing their hands. Three times five divided by two, I capsized in the gutter.

18. Cry if you want, and laugh happily. Don't be hypocritical because of the hypocrisy of the world.

19. I once loved someone and was inseparable; Love someone now and keep it in your heart.

20. There will be times when you are in a bad mood, when you are lost, when you don't understand, when you are sad, and when you don't understand.

Give up on your husband completely (Part II) 2 1. In the most difficult time, even though I only have 100 yuan on me, I never want to leave you.

22. I am afraid of seeing bright yellow and burning my tearful eyes.

23. Get married and blind yourself! Nobody can count on it.

24. I tried my best to miss someone, but that person never stayed for me.

25. Always pursuing perfection, but not knowing that it is an eternal flaw.

26. I have missed many people, been betrayed and embarrassed in my life. However, it really doesn't matter, as long as I can't die, I can still stand.

27. the flower heart is because there is no temptation.

28. I can't say anything nice and warm in my mouth. Don't frown

29. It's not that they don't love you and don't care about you, but that you will find cool and thin very popular, but you are too demanding.

30. I understand that people in this world love cool thin, but I stubbornly want to seek warmth.

3 1. Only a fool will think that he will like you when he becomes excellent. He doesn't like it, he just doesn't like it. Even though he is excellent, he doesn't like it.

32.◎ I just found out that it is a very happy thing not to have to work overtime.

33. The air soaked by rain is tired and sad, and the fairy tales in memory have slowly melted.

34. Thoughts overflow the ocean of memories, smoke romanticizes disasters, and life-long feelings wander in the years of dreams. Some love, destined to be a flashy dream, turned into dust, once persistent love, scattered all over the world, but my heart is unwilling to leave.

35. If your relationship is just a kind of spiritual love, it may not be so painful when you leave, but if you entangle your body, you will be very tired when you leave.

36. Nothing in this world can't be let go. If it hurts, it will naturally go away.

37. I love you wholeheartedly, but you hurt me so thoroughly.

38. The sun is so lazy and dazzling that it can dry the tears under the eyes.

39. Even if a lie is packaged in a hundred forms, it is still a lie.

40. Don't be disappointed in human nature, be considerate. Don't be stubborn in personality, but be able to change. Don't beautify nature, restore it. It is better to think than to do, and it is better to say than to do. People who are good at themselves will also be good at others. Words should be to the point, not good; Time always blooms in the past. Years are often scattered in the future. People are always looking for understanding and tolerance. Every freedom and deepening can make them understand, feel and trust each other. They are not projecting their own needs, nor are they bound and obligated. On the premise of spiritual independence and freedom, they are inseparable. Any form of exchange, attachment or dependence on form is not love, but an illusory love dream.

Give up my husband completely (Chapter 3) 4 1. Before I cried, you were distressed. Now even if I die, you don't care.

42. Who is forcing a smile to show a city that has been blurred for centuries?

43. The most regrettable thing in life is to give up what you shouldn't give up easily and stick to what you shouldn't insist on.

44. Forgetting someone is not really forgetting, but becoming less and less important.

45. Autumn leaves, one leaf and one autumn yellow, winter snow, one snow and one winter cold, make people feel cold every day.

46. Disappointment is like a coin. There is always enough money to buy a ticket and leave.

47. lingering is only a moment of beauty, and lost love cannot be recovered.

48. I thought it was long enough for me to forget you, but I still can't ignore you.

49. Hershey's honey is hard to separate, but time-sharing poison is hard to solve. After things have changed, who is who is who, but eight words: "cool thin, know yourself and know yourself".

50. All I know is crying. I can only cry. What can you do except cry?

5 1. I can't imagine what the explosion of the earth looks like, just as I can't describe what it looks like to lead other girls across the red carpet.

52. Many singers who sing love songs have never loved each other, which is ridiculous and reasonable. If I loved you, I wouldn't be so intoxicated.

53. When you speak ill of me, can you feel like cooking without embellishing it?

54. If I can, I want to get to know you again, starting with my name, and then in the following story, I will never fall in love with you again.

Because I love you wholeheartedly, I can only give you up mercilessly.

I think it's time to meet my husband and marry him. It is also difficult to force husband and parents. It can only be said that they can reduce the adverse effects on themselves. As for chilling, forget it. Don't think too much. As a man, you can respect and love your loved ones. Let it develop naturally.

57. Should we continue that unfinished love?

58. Never lie to someone you trust; Never trust those who lie to you.

59. I broke up. I said I was leaving. I deleted my best friend. I bought wine every day and cried every night because you forced me to let go.

60. I won't check the comments on your space and peek at who you are chatting with. I won't argue with you immediately about who is jealous, and I don't care what you write for me. I may be really tired. You can go with whoever you want.

Talk about her husband's disappointment in a circle of friends (selected 60 sentences)

Talking about her husband's disappointment in a circle of friends (I) 1. Despair for her husband. Probably a stranger from the beginning.

2. I just fell in love with you, so I am humbler than you, smaller than you, despised by you, despised by you, and not cherished by you.

Anyway, I am a disappointing person.

I am happy with my husband, but this happiness hurts me a little.

Being strong is not to shed a tear in the face of sadness, but to face the future life with a smile after drying the tears. Everything is over, everything will begin!

6. When you want to cry, it's like walking in a dark room and finding no one to rely on.

7. Sorry, I can't forgive those who hurt me with a smile.

8. Stop torturing me. My heart was cut open. It's not blood that comes out, it's the fault of loving you.

9. Why do you pretend to be hard, but you still call me cruel and kind?

10. Marry the wrong person and want to commit suicide. The older you grow up, the more things you find, and the more unhappy you are. I don't know why.

1 1. There are too many tears in my chest and I don't know how to tell them. In the end, I can only choose silence.

12. Destiny offers us not the cup of despair, but the cup of opportunity. (Richard Nixon, American President) Our destiny offers not the cup of despair, but the chalice of opportunity.

13. Not only tears represent sadness, but also you represent feelings.

14. The bitterness spoken is weakness, and the bitterness buried in the heart is called strength.

15. Violate the principles set by yourself, even once, and more principles will be violated in the future.

16. When you are kind to someone without asking for anything in return, that person will take your kindness for granted one day.

17. I would rather be silent than hide my face and cry in every heavy rain and lonely journey and tell you this feeling.

18. Cry if you want, and laugh happily. Don't be hypocritical because of the hypocrisy of the world. Be decisive when you meet an unsuitable man.

19. Before, I was a person who loved looking up at the sky. The blue sky always gives me the courage to survive. Now I like the deep night sky, full of darkness and forbearance, leaving tears that no one can see.

Faced with an unhappy marriage, the first thing we should do is to give up the war. Of course, we don't expect to return to sweetness immediately, but we should calm down and think about each other. Without thinking, there is no action, and it is impossible to find the key to solving specific problems, because what you want, the details of your marriage are always the clearest, and the key to solving problems is ultimately in your own hands.

Talking about her husband's disappointment in a circle of friends (2)1. After drinking a few bottles of cold beer, I am still not drunk. The person who wants to win, sitting opposite me, still wants to go.

22. Being with the urban management every day, I feel that all men in the world are like this and have no hope for marriage. Chatting with excellent men today aroused my passion for men. It's just that you haven't met the person you like.

23. Tencent's "input" has given many people hope and also disappointed many people.

24. From falling out to becoming good friends, it's like two people who just met laughing in moderation and talking politely.

25. How disappointed I am. I wish I had never met you.

26. As if nothing had happened, tableland is the most malicious revenge.

27. Years have accumulated heartache, too many stories are hidden in the bottom of my heart, and the sad string will only get out of control if someone touches it.

28. To whom do you smile? A city has been blurred for centuries.

29. Lying in bed is the most common place. One is that I love you, and the other is to sleep for another five minutes.

I am desperate for my helplessness in this family. What is even more desperate is that one day I may ruin it myself.

3 1. It's easy to forgive someone, but it's not so easy to trust again. It takes many years to warm a heart, but it only takes a moment to cool it.

32. I have been crying for no reason for many days. I woke up and cried before going to bed. I always cry when I see the words that touch the scene. I really want to leave Xi and never come back. This kind of married life is very tiring.

33. I have paid so much, but I still can't get a heart.

Marriage is a business. No luck to make money. Only by careful management can we never lose money! Only when you manage with your heart at any time can your marriage be in a state of sustainable development!

You don't know why they left, just as you don't know that this is the end.

36. Cry if you want, and laugh happily. Don't be hypocritical because of the hypocrisy of the world. Be decisive when you meet an unsuitable man. There are too many helpless choices in life. Society, like rivers and lakes, always makes people involuntarily and insincerely. I am very helpless to my husband.

37. Because the world is too lonely, it makes us sad. Your sorrow is my sorrow. The reality is cruel, so I am full of expectations for the future. Because I have fantasies, I am always disappointed.

38. 17 years old, how can you be sad at the age of 70? 18 years old, how can you wait at the age of 80?

39. Women know what men want in love again and again, and men also know what women want in love again and again.

40. No matter how beautiful it is, it can't stand forgetting, and sadness can't stand time.

Talk about my husband's disappointment in the circle of friends (3) 4 1. Is it because your heart hurt the lock and you lost the key?

42. People should stand up to lies, perfunctory, cheating, forgetting promises and letting go of everything.

43. People's hearts generally don't die of great events, but those small disappointments over and over again have become the most fatal injuries.

44. Unexpectedly, those once-vowed promises have become the deepest swords that hurt you and me in the days to come.

45. The petals have agreed that they will bloom and wither together. It's no use for angels to dissuade you. They have agreed to be beautiful together and grow old together in this life.

46. You will always be the protagonist of your life. Don't always play a supporting role in other people's plays.

47. I ran towards the place where the sea meets the sky until I was submerged in the depths of the sea.

48. Time has broken feelings and left scattered fragments, which is very sad. Someone around me has replaced me, and there is no love to squander.

The most painful thing is that you love someone so much that you don't have the courage to let her know how you feel.

You let me get married, and now you have broken my heart. Obviously, you provoked me first!

5 1. Even if we stumble all the way, I just want to finish this life with you.

52. Every relationship must experience expectation and disappointment, freedom and bondage of strangeness and familiarity; Hesitation and firmness; Sweetness and heartbreak, crying and pain are not important, as long as we all laughed afterwards and missed it. Then you still have feelings for this person, and then we can recall or continue to look for love that can be successful without repeated verification, and we don't have to be disappointed.

53. Don't dwell on an embarrassing thing for too long. If you struggle for a long time, you will be miserable, tired and heartbroken. In fact, in the days to come, you don't have opinions about things, but you have opinions about yourself.

54. I wonder if there really are women who don't care whether they get married or not. When I grow up, I slowly lose confidence in marriage and find no meaning.

55. If life is like the first time, it will be unusual to know the truth at that time.

56. No matter you are at the end of the world or at the cape, I will wait in the same place.

57. The sun is so lazy and dazzling that it can dry the tears under the eyes.

58. All I know is crying. I can only cry. What can you do except cry?

59. If you can't be a husband, you can't even be a father.

60. I'm not that generous. I tolerate you and her.