My daughter-in-law doesn't want to go back to my home, and I'm not allowed to go back to see my parents every year. What should I do?

There must be a reason why your daughter-in-law doesn't want to go back to her husband's house with you. You think you haven't taken her back to her mother-in-law for years? In fact, this matter is very easy to handle. Two people sit down and have a good communication, discuss how often they will go back to their in-laws and parents' homes in the future, set rules and then implement them.

Your daughter-in-law, like you, will miss the home that has raised her for decades, especially some girls who have married far away. As a husband, you should be considerate of your daughter-in-law, speak well of your daughter-in-law in front of your parents, and let your parents love your daughter-in-law from the heart. Take your daughter-in-law back to her mother's house when you are free, so that she can feel your concern for her parents.

Your daughter-in-law left her parents, relatives, friends who have lived with her for many years and her familiar environment for you. It is inevitable that she sometimes loses her temper or becomes prone to lose her temper. Actually, it's because she doesn't know how to express it So you should pay more attention to yourself and be nice to your daughter-in-law.

Nowadays, young people are working in other places, and many parents are not around. Everyone wants to go home. I think we can discuss it. Go back to your home this year and her home next year, and rotate every year, so that both old people can take care of them. Or put the old people together in one place, but this is not practical.

Generally speaking, it is a traditional habit for a daughter-in-law to return to her husband's house. First of all, she worships her ancestors. Second, she said hello to her in-laws to express her gratitude to the old man. Third, she visited relatives and friends to see the changes in her hometown. You can also say that you are homesick. People who have lived in the city will feel different when they return to their hometown for a change.

If you want your daughter-in-law to go back to her husband's house with you willingly, you must tell her that you attach equal importance to your hometown. If you want her to communicate with your parents more, you should meet her parents more first. Only when you do it well first can your daughter-in-law feel care and love, the contradictions between you will be less and less, and the feelings will last for a long time.