Why don't modern people want to get married?

So why do more and more people don't want to get married now? I think it is mainly caused by these reasons.

1, no money, too much economic pressure.

No money, it is estimated that many male compatriots have the same answer Because marriage requires more and more men. Usually dating, eating, watching movies, buying bags, giving gifts, etc. It's nothing that men pay for it. The key is to buy a house and a car now, which is the root of everyone's anxiety. For a person who has worked for several years, the house price is so high that the pressure of buying a house is enormous. Without the help of family, it is very difficult to buy a house by yourself. It used to be shameful to gnaw at the old, but now we must gnaw at the old.

2. I am still a child.

Many of them are only children now, and they have been spoiled since childhood. They may be old, but they may be underage psychologically. In addition, many of them are at school and seldom contact with society. They are simply children who have not grown up.

I have seen people in their thirties who can't even wash their own clothes. How can a person who has not grown up think about marriage and have the courage to take on the responsibility of a family? Many people say she is young, but she is really young.

Compared with our parents who began to earn money and bear the burden of a family in their teens, children nowadays have lost the space for self-growth since childhood. As parents, it is useless to scold children, but at the same time, everything is arranged, and there is no room for children to learn and grow. The result of doting is to cultivate the child into a life imbecile who is not diligent and haggle over every ounce.

Tell a true joke around me. On the application form for the first-class scholarship, the senior once wrote a roommate's comment that "life can't take care of itself". For many parents, academic performance is everything, but children's growth is not just academic performance.

3. Personality problems

Many people are introverted and seldom take the initiative to communicate with others. Moreover, the school will not teach you how to communicate with others, and it will only depend on your academic performance. As long as you get good grades, both teachers and parents are happy. As for the cultivation of emotional intelligence and financial quotient, it is not as important as the ranking of academic performance.

Now universities are also becoming popular. If you study for a doctorate, you will be 30 years old after graduation, and you will be old before you have a job. Moreover, if you read too many books, you will easily become a bookworm. 985,211There are many single older youths. However, for most of their lives, apart from reading books, they rarely get in touch with the opposite sex, and they don't even know how to get along with people and how to chat with them. For them, finding a partner is really much more difficult than the exam.

There are many such classmates around me. Now that they are older, you should introduce him to someone. You should also teach him how to fall in love, how to actively chase girls, how to date, what to give during the Chinese New Year, and perhaps how to get married. Otherwise, they don't even know if they should fall in love.

4, busy work, small circle

Now the pressure of work and life is great, and it is normal to work overtime. There are also many people who are busy at night 1 1. Go home, take a shower and watch your mobile phone for a while. Basically, one day will pass. Even on weekends, they either sleep or take delivery part-time. I repeat the same work and life every day, so I have no time and energy to fall in love. The trajectory of life is basically home and company, and every day is the repetition of life on the same day.

Of course, with the busy work, the circle becomes smaller and smaller, and there are basically only three types of people left in your address book: old friends who haven't contacted for a long time, parents who nag every day, and colleagues at work. It is the wave of people who can see and chat every day. Not to mention meeting someone you like, even meeting a new friend is extremely difficult.

5. Accustomed to single life

I don't know if you have noticed that those single people will always be single, because they are used to single life, and even if you introduce them to someone, it is difficult to help them get rid of the bill. Because after getting used to single life, it's hard to get used to others coming into your life.

If it weren't for their age and the psychological fear of people around them, they wouldn't consider dating and getting married, because a person's single life is too comfortable, and they can do whatever they want, and no one quarrels, and they don't have to ask anyone for advice on what to eat. Accustomed to a person's life, it is difficult to change this state of life. So you find a lot of single people. They were all single before.

In fact, whether you choose to be married or single, it is not the final state of life. What kind of life do you live? There are joys and sorrows. Married people envy the freedom of being single, and single people envy the warmth of their married families. No matter what kind of life you choose, you won't regret it. As for what others think, in my aunt's words, "that's my life, not yours."