Ode to Joy

0 1 Take stupidity seriously and play it.

Ode to Joy 1 has been broadcast for several episodes, and many viewers can't help complaining about Qiu Yingying. She finally won back the recognition of the audience in the back, and in Ode to Joy 2, she easily became a nuisance to the audience.

It's better that Qiu Yingying doesn't fall in love, or that she is a lovely child in the eyes of the neighbors on the 22nd floor. Falling in love not only hurt her, but also made the neighbors on the 22nd floor fidgety and speechless. Undeniably, Qiu Yingying is really the most typical negative textbook in marriage and love.

First of all, she always stays in stupidity rather than purity in love. Simple as Guan Yu 'er, right and wrong are clear, ignorant of the world. Stupidity, like Qiu Yingying, is black and white.

On one occasion, Qiu Yingying and Guan Juer talked about how to be a man. Qiu Yingying said to the effect that she felt that being the truest self in front of others did not need to be hidden, so that she could live a relaxed and happy life. But Guan Juer obviously doesn't approve. She didn't refute Qiu Yingying's values, but she felt that sometimes she disguised herself to protect herself, and she was also very concerned about other people's feelings.

Qiu Yingying's words seem to be free and easy, and there is nothing wrong. But the execution in the action made her suffer, and the audience confirmed her stupidity at a glance.

For example, in the incident of Director Bai, the trace of the other party's derailment was obvious, but he only said two words to persuade her to leave. It was because he knew that the cost of settling Qiu Yingying was very low that he dared to cheat her into bed easily.

After listening to the first half of Bai's sentence, I believed it. It's not naive, but it doesn't distinguish between black and white, which reduces her IQ and weight in the other person's heart, and also connives at love rat's wantonness and arrogance. Finally, it proved that her "true nature" not only did not help, but held her back.

Neighbors kindly reminded each other that it was not reliable, so she ran to Bai's supervisor without thinking, resenting them for finding a handsome boyfriend. Black or white, don't argue to this point, simply don't take responsibility.

Another example is the Qin Ying incident. The other party simply said I miss you, and she was overjoyed. Whenever Qin Ying wanted to say something sweet to Qiu Yingying, he was brewing to speak, but Qiu Yingying obviously showed surprise. Before he finished his first sentence, her surprise broke out uncontrollably.

Qin Ying's expression is a capital circle, and he is even more surprised that Qiu Yingying is so easy to satisfy. Contentment is a virtue, but Qiu Yingying obviously misunderstood contentment. Therefore, after the incident of director Bai, she was still won by a few words and meals. Even later, when he was beaten and humiliated, she was still thinking about posting.

Why is Qiu Yingying's "true nature" repeatedly rejected? Because in love rat's eyes, this is stupid. In the eyes of my predecessor, this is cheap. Look at her releasing her "true nature" in front of her neighbors on the 22nd floor. Really ugly.

One of Qiu Yingying's negative teaching materials is that he is stupid by nature and never thinks twice before acting.

Smart and unsophisticated is simple.

Guan Juer's inner persistence seems sophisticated, but in fact it is a kind of humility and wisdom. For example, she didn't agree with Qiu Yingying's words, but instead of mocking and refuting them, she sought common ground while reserving differences.

For another example, in the face of the pursuit of blind date, she humbly asked Andy and Xiaoqu for advice. When the other party vigorously demonstrated his Excellence and infatuation, Guan Juer was good at analyzing and guessing, and gave up flatly after discovering the true face of the blind date.

For example, in the process of contact with Xie Tong, she was also faced with a secret investigation by Qu Xiaoyu. Xiao Guan made it clear that he respected his friend's privacy and didn't want to know what the other party didn't want to tell her. Even if she knew, she wouldn't ask or question.

Even people like Fan were amazed and lamented that Xiao Guan was really clever. If she could do the same, she wouldn't be led by the nose step by step.

On the day when Guan Juer and Xie Tong played in Disney, she confided to Xie Tong and agreed to his pursuit. This is Xiao Guan's decision after confirming that he has no feelings for Dr. Zhao and no sincerity and love for Xie Tong.

A girl like Guan Juer has good love and marriage, and is also a textbook worth learning and learning from.

So if you don't want to be like Qiu Yingying, you should first distinguish between what is stupid and what is simple. Don't turn infatuation, innocence and simplicity into stupid excuses.

Forcing others to clean up her mess.

Secondly, Qiu Yingying always wants others to pay for her setbacks in marriage and love. Who hasn't talked about an unforgettable failed love? Who hasn't experienced a broken marriage?

Is it just because of my setbacks and failures that I can confidently ask my friends around me to tolerate her all the time? Put down life and work and always be her trash can?

Qiu Yingying's first love not only failed to thank herself for breaking away from the distorted relationship, but also resented Qu Xiaoyu blindly. Although Xiaoqu's approach was somewhat unkind, it did help her. Forget it. She blocked the door like a shrew and accused Andy of kindly proposing to her.

Fan and Guan Juer, who live with her, are even worse. They have become her bosom friends. For everyone's suggestions to her, Qiu Yingying completely fell into a vicious circle, saying that she didn't listen, listened, didn't understand, knew and didn't do it.

Qiu Yingying lost her bottom line again when she was lovelorn for the second time. Most people lose their minds when they are lovelorn, and she goes straight to the bottom line.

First of all, I pestered Fan and Guan Juer and kept crying. I can't do it. I can't let it go. How can I do it? What else can I do? Animals know how to hide in the corner and lick wounds silently. What can they do except desperately?

Just when everyone was exhausted by her noise, she went straight to Guan Juer's room, accused Xiao Guan of being ruthless, and took it out on Dr. Zhao, who was kind to her, as if everyone was her parents and owed her.

The most exasperating thing is that when the neighbors on the 22nd floor tried to pull her up by gentle, sharp and reasonable methods, she was still beaten back to her original shape by Qin Yingsan's poor pleading twice. This proves once again that Qiu Yingying has the characteristics of attracting love rat, and Mimi exudes this characteristic to attract love rat, not her bad luck.

It's like Guan Juer asking her, "You finally got back to normal. Why do you want to make the same mistake?"? He broke up with you and has a fiancee. Is he a friend or a fellow villager? What does it have to do with you? "

Qiu Yingying also naively said that she just loves Qin Ying and can't let him go. Even if she can chat with him, she is happy. Qin Ying is love rat, and Qiu Yingying is undoubtedly a mistress in the name of fellow villagers. No wonder Qin Ying's fiancee, framed by an unlikable person, will be regarded as an adulterer and an adulterer.

Qiu Yingying lost the bottom line because when Qin Ying's mother and son were placed under house arrest by her in-laws, she would be imprisoned. She blindly forced her kind neighbors to clean up the mess for her, but she still wanted to go back to her home.

Fan comforted her that people who don't respect her are not worth lingering. However, I didn't see her respect for these friends who contributed money to make plans for her. Instead, she occupied their self-restraint and blindly asked them to pay for her mess.

In reality, if a friend is so kind, it is really a friend's self-cultivation. That's the real human nature. People like that have been kicked out for a long time.

In order to protect her, friends tried their best to transfer her to another hospital. She is ungrateful. As soon as she got out of bed, she ran to the original hospital without changing her hospital gown, and rushed to the other ward without thinking. If Que hadn't informed Dr. Zhao to stop it in time, he would have been beaten again.

Finally, these neighbors had to be forced by Qiu Yingying to clean up her mess. After learning the true face of Yingmu, Guan Juer and Qu Xiaoyu took the initiative to negotiate with her. Xiao Qu devotes herself to clearing the name of the gauze on her head, but Qiu Yingying, as a stirring stick, makes her neighbors thankless, and she is increasingly looked down upon by her mother.

Even if Guan Juer and Qu Xiaoyu are tough and clear, they can't resist Qiu Yingying's own mindlessness and cowardice. Ying's mother was severely humiliated, and her brave neighbors were killed, because from the beginning, they made it clear that they were Xiaoqiu's good friends to deal with this matter.

It's respect not to disturb friends too much.

Look at Andy's lovelorn state. She shut herself in the room and let the pain release silently. Worst of all, she's out on holiday.

Her love for singularity is not as diligent and shallow as Qiu Yingying's, but she never adds a little burden to her friends. Even Tan didn't think she was a friend, so she confidently cheated him. But you should understand that you can't always share weal and woe as a good friend. This is the embodiment of respecting friends.

Look at Fan again. Her poor family background makes every relationship full of ups and downs. When she fell out with Wang Baichuan, did she talk to anyone? Even though she was branded with despair by her family background, she never complained to anyone and caught a rich friend to pay for her misfortune.

There is also qu Xiaoyu. Her love for Dr. Zhao is unforgettable. Apart from pestering Andy, I talked to Guan Yuer occasionally and didn't bother everyone. Even when she was frustrated, she was still not decadent in her career and did several good things for her friends.

Only by comparison can we know why some people say that the gap between people is sometimes greater than that between people and pigs.

When Qiu Yingying was lovelorn, why didn't he get the sympathy of the audience, or even be called silly and hopeless? It is because she doesn't know how to save herself and appreciate her friends' help that she just forces her friends to pay for her setbacks and failures, instead of summing up lessons and experiences and being a self-respecting and self-reliant person.

Marriage will be defeated by giant babies.

Finally, whether Qiu Yingying is in love or married, her state and thoughts are always a huge baby. There are many people who spit out the giant baby and want to stay away from him every minute. Similarly, if you want to fall in love or get married, no one wants to choose a giant baby girl to fall in love and get married.

When she was lovelorn, the fans couldn't bear to break her luck, so they comforted her and said that they might come back and get back together with her. So, Qiu Yingying believed it and tried to cheer up. A few days later, seeing that Qin Ying had a new girlfriend instead of getting back together with her, her spirit collapsed again.

Andy wrote an email to Qin Ying, trying to create an opportunity for them to communicate, but clearly told Qiu Yingying that Qin Ying's personality made it impossible for her to get back together. Qiu Yingying suddenly lost her love. On the way to the airport, she looked as if she were dead.

Andy couldn't bear to see her like this after all. In order to let her live a normal May Day, he told her a white lie and told her that Qin Ying was worth looking forward to. As a result, Qiu Yingying was alive and kicking again at once, as if Andy's words would come true soon.

Qin Ying doesn't like that Qiu Yingying is not a virgin, so she doubts her own value and thinks that she doesn't deserve a happy life. Later, Qin Ying felt cheated by his fiancee, so she came back to find her and said she was a good girl. So Qiu Yingying was secretly happy and began to feel good about himself, so he liked it again.

From beginning to end, Qiu Yingying didn't have his own ideas, but was influenced by others' ideas again and again. Even if she does marry Qin Ying, she will definitely become her mother's puppet. What mother should say, she will follow! If she is not Ying's puppet, then she must be her parents' puppet.

If her parents are too bourgeois, they will probably "teach" her a set of methods to subdue her husband's family. And Qiu Yingying, the giant baby, will be displayed one by one without thinking. In real life, there are too many girls like Qiu Yingying who have no opinions. She just did what her parents said, and in the end, her small family was restless and fell apart.