How to make yourself have excellent fortune?

Uncle Mao wrote in "Top Ten in a Year" that if you want to meet noble people often, you should go out often. Because if you go out, you will have the opportunity to meet the distinguished people in your circles.

When you meet a noble person, you may also become a noble person of others. This is called being a noble person for each other. Go out and get along with others with a sincere and kind heart, so as to link to people who are better than themselves.

Therefore, if you want to get more help from the nobles, you must be diligent in your mouth, brain and legs.

Besides, mouth to mouth. Mouth to mouth is not talking all the time, but being a sweet and humorous person, asking open questions and getting everyone involved. In an instant, a person becomes a lot of fun. There are such people around me, and they can bring joy wherever they go.

Diligent: Diligent people are diligent in thinking in life, and they will be good at analyzing problems, not delving into them. People who are diligent in thinking are also the people who can distinguish right from wrong and understand things best. Usually, their lives are more meaningful.

Leg attendance: If you are a salesman, you should be diligent in walking around. After all, you were close when you met. If you want to meet people, you should join quality classes or study circles. If you want to grow rapidly in the industry, you must know more about people in the industry. In short, you must be diligent.

Second: pay.

Being willing to spend money is the most direct and simple way to link. For example, if you get together with a group of friends, you will always be the one who is willing to pay the bill. This will make others think that you are a generous person, so they are willing to get along and associate with you.

In particular, people like us who have no family background should break through their own circles by paying more, thus creating more possibilities.

If a person is always reluctant to spend money, then the efficiency of external links is very low, not to mention the quality of the circle.

Let me give you an example: the child of a friend of mine graduated from college four years ago. In the year of graduation, his father helped him find a job as an investment bank in a securities company in Shenzhen. According to industry practice, his bachelor's degree cannot enter a certain position in this industry. But his father did it with his spending power.

Before he came to Shenzhen, his father gave him 400,000 yuan and put it in his account, so that he could spend it on the company's work and affairs in the shortest time without telling him how to spend it. It seems that he learned this innate ability in family of origin. Without guidance, he handles interpersonal relationships very appropriately and is deeply loved by his boss.

He is not only sweet-tongued, but also generous, so he took the Lian Jin Grade II exam once a year, which many fresh graduates never dreamed of. A person with an irregular education can get a promotion and a raise so quickly.

Third: pay.

Whether at work or in daily life, be a willing person. On the other hand, it's just asking for it, and it will be resented or shunned by others.

Being a persistent giver, the more you give, the more you bear, and more people will be willing to help you. As Teacher Zhao Yuping said, this is what it means to "beg" others by helping them.

Fourth: Thanksgiving Day.

If you want to meet noble people often, you need to be a grateful person. When you are in trouble or pain, others will help you. You need to remember that you should always be grateful and repay them when necessary.

In the early and middle stage of my business, I got the help and support from many outstanding people. Therefore, on weekdays, I am also a noble person who gives back every opportunity to me. I will also practice many small things around me that can benefit the disadvantaged groups. Help others and please yourself.

It's very important to try to be a helpful person before meeting a noble person, so I have to move bricks quickly.