Should I tell my parents about my troubles?

I didn't know what "home is a sheltered harbor" until I went to school outside. In the third year, I left home for the first time and went to a strange place, surrounded by strangers. Facing this stranger, I am at a loss, at a loss. At that time, I always waited for class to call home at the pay phone in the cafeteria. As soon as I heard my parents' voices, I began to cry and wanted to go home. This situation lasted for nearly half a month, and I was very painful.

Later, my brother told me that now that he is away from home, he should be sensible when he grows up, and he should know how to "report good news instead of bad news". That was the first time I heard such a truth from relatives other than my parents. I wrote this sentence down deeply, and I decided not to tell them my troubles or worry them when I returned to school. But without exception, I said that no matter what I encountered was happy or unhappy, I would think of it for the first time and talk to them. At that time, they can give me some advice.

Gradually, the farther I go, the bigger the world I see. Walking to the tired county commercial street, I suddenly finished shopping in a few steps. Parents who think they know everything become prevaricated and prevaricated when facing my questions. So I began to feel great, and being able to surpass my parents became my pride, so I had the meaning of being a girlfriend. I walk around the playground with them every day, and then talk about the happiness and troubles of the day, and gradually forget to call my parents.

Later, when I worked, I experienced two stages: I often went home and I didn't often go home. Suddenly I found that my parents were really old, including those young people the same age as my parents. I remember them all. The block is very old ... at this time, I seem to feel the power of time, and they have reached a wise age.

Whether to tell them my troubles has become something I hesitate to do. Most people still tell me "report good news but not bad news", but the fact is that they are more worried about you and more helpless when they are old. I saw Chen Guo write her mother's heart in How Lonely: "As the closest person to you, what I want to know most is your real situation, including your pain and troubles. I will follow the pain and trouble, but I still hope you can tell me the truth and don't lie to me. I don't want to know from others, or I don't know at all. Maybe I can't help, but I want to share it with you. " At that moment, I realized that what I should do is to share with them something they can bear but don't care much about, and don't tell them anything that I feel breathless.

I hope my parents can know more about me so that they are not alone.