If two people talk about their own affairs and ignore what the other person says, the conversation is completely off the same channel. Is this kind of conversation awkward?

Not only is it embarrassing, but there is also a feeling that I am your vent bucket. In fact, at this time, you can calm down and listen to the other person's talk, help her sort out her own problems and talk about your own problems. It's okay! Don't say that no matter what you say or what she says, she feels that the other person doesn't value herself, which will hurt the friendship. In the future, it will be agreed that one person will speak first, and then it will be another person's turn. This will not happen.