What kind of experience is it to have a strong mother?

? Strong mothers are generally hardworking and want to do everything by themselves, which is commendable!

? They have done a lot for their families, especially their children. They simply want to give him everything. This is naturally a good thing when children are young. In other words, a child with a mother is like a treasure, and a child with a good mother is even more precious. If you hold it in your hand, you will be afraid of breaking it, but if you put it in your mouth, you will be afraid of melting it. Such a child will properly accept the selfless and excessive love of his mother.

However, when the child is older, if the mother is still like this, it may be harmful. This has a great influence on the development of children's personality and behavior habits. It seems that the children educated by powerful mothers are timid, lazy and incompatible with society.

I have a friend whose mother is very strong!

? Since he was born, his father has no time to take care of him because of his busy work. So, my mother took the responsibility of taking care of him alone. At home, his mouth is full of food and clothes, and his mother takes care of him. In high school, the university needs to live on campus, and his mother will help him with everything in advance.

? Especially in high school, because his home is not far from school, his mother often goes to school to send him clothes and snacks and take away his dirty clothes by the way. At that time, many students were particularly envious of him and felt that having such a mother was a blessing. But his mother's behavior made him form the bad habit of relying on others for everything.

? ? Now I'm in my thirties, and I haven't achieved much. He keeps a low-paying job for a living.

He nagged in our ears all day, saying that because his mother managed him so well, he is like a child now and always wants to lose his temper. Although he is not satisfied with his present job, he doesn't know what else he can do. If he really loses this job, he feels that he has nothing.

? After getting married and having children, he still lives with his mother.

? ? If the mother is too strong, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be less. His wife wants to move out and live alone, but his mother always disagrees for one reason or another. To others, he and his wife are happy. His mother does a lot of housework and some small things at home, so he just needs to work with peace of mind.

? ? However, in the eyes of him and his wife, there are still many inconveniences. For example, speaking from the heart, having a small quarrel, being romantic at any time, cooking by yourself and so on are all extravagant hopes for them.

Once there is anything sensitive for mom to hear, that would be great. Mom will think of many things, and then, make trouble without reason. As a result, the family always quarrels and gets angry because of some imaginary things.

His mother thinks his wife is lazy, doesn't work, can't cook and so on. In fact, speaking of which, he said he couldn't blame his wife. Because my mother always finishes a lot of things ahead of time, and when my wife comes back from work, the meal is ready. Does she have to do it again?

? My wife can't complain if she is wronged. She is an elder, which makes no sense. You can't quarrel with her. So my wife keeps saying that she wants to move out, but her mother refuses. She also said that they would move out and not look after the children. Both his wife and he have to go to work, so they can't go to work without children. I really can't help it.

? In this way, the family lives together in contradictions and entanglements.

He is sad every day and often complains. It seems that having such a strong mother is sometimes a headache!