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Why do women have to get married

Who told you that women must get married? Doesn't this proposition mean that men must also get married?

Marriage is a basic contract that binds human society, but it is not necessary.

Let's talk about the benefits of marriage first.

First, marriage can form a family and share the necessary expenses, such as refrigerators, lights and gas. , thus saving money.

Second, spiritual sustenance, after work, when spending, there is one person to consider. Although there will be more expenses, it can often satisfy their spiritual world.

Third, raising offspring is also the life goal of people with strong traditional upbringing, and it also represents perfection. My aunt used to say that she didn't want to have children and suffer. Later, when she was 30, she gave birth to my cousin. Later, I asked her why. She said that she suddenly felt that as a woman, she had no children and felt incomplete ... Anyway, I was speechless. Maybe people of one age have different views.

Fourth, the lives of unmarried people and dink have not yet formed a scale, so single women will be more or less discriminated against by society when looking for a job. I won't go into details. Everyone knows about maternity leave and so on.

However, the above, even if it is not, does not mean that it is not human, it is incomplete and has never been said.

Say something bad.

First, family bondage. After starting a family, people will often be bound by their hands and feet. For example, they are not satisfied with their work and want to resign. However, if they think about the bottomless mortgage, living expenses and children's expenses, they will not be able to modify their life plans freely.

Second, I always believe that love is the union of two people and marriage is the union of two families. After a long time, there will be all kinds of worldly wisdom, which will gradually increase the pressure of life and work.

Third, the current society has gradually realized the existence of "mental diseases", such as depression, social phobia, anxiety, insomnia and so on. Excessive stress and changes in life will increase the material and spiritual burden of individuals. At the same time, chronic diseases are gradually becoming younger, and high uric acid, hyperglycemia, hyperlipidemia and hypertension will all become unstable factors in the great changes of life.

Fourth, the ancients talked about marriage and paid attention to the right family. This sentence is also very meaningful at the moment, and its significance is getting bigger and bigger. I have an example around me. My junior high school classmate went to learn auto repair, and finally worked as an auto repair worker in the local area for seven or eight years, which was a success. Then a female engineering master of mechanical engineering in Jida went to repair the car, which may really have taken a fancy to the oil stains mixed in the parts of my classmate. The girl also has money at home, but the result is very bad. Girls' living habits are very petty, and clothes and decoration are expensive. I've only been to the wedding once, and I've seen them several times since. One winter, everyone got together. I clearly remember the girl wearing a Gucci scarf and a very beautiful leather coat, dressed appropriately. My classmates are down jackets, jeans and ordinary long sleeves. It really doesn't look good. My girlfriend also talked to me. Girls like to drink some red wine after work. There is a beautiful wine cabinet in the living room, and then she reads books (not mobile phones) and listens to light music in the study. Later, they really divorced because of music (I think so), because my classmates especially like listening to mc calling Mike, turning on the stereo loudly (for this reason, I bought a whole set of stereos, not speakers, but stereos) and other things, as well as eating habits. The two of them can quarrel over eating fried water in the mall or Shen Laotou. The original words were "What's the point of eating that thing? Death costs a lot. There's not much left. I really want to eat steamed stuffed bun. Opposite is Shen Laotou ... "Later, I also persuaded him. With the strength of wine, he said, "I will listen to the symphony, but I won't listen to mc……", so he gave up. But then again, if you want to find a lover, you have to be suitable. There is a kind family with similar temperament and mutual tolerance ... it is more difficult than scraping 5000 yuan.

The road of life is your own choice, and it is not sold in a small ravine. The civil affairs bureau won't help a tied couple to apply for a certificate, will it? If you think about it, just be firm. Be firm!