Why does the sentence "I am too difficult" feel really hard to say? What experience do you have?

Difficulties and ease are two sides of the same coin. The same thing is easy for some people, but relatively too difficult for others. This is normal. As for "I am too difficult", why do you think it is really difficult to say it? This may be because you have encountered a very difficult and extremely difficult thing. Others are strong and difficult for you, stimulating your brain and leaving an indelible impression. Speaking of "I'm too hard",

For example, if we travel by air, there is an accident in the air. It is easy for a pilot to fly a plane. At this time, if someone forces you to sit in the cab instead of the pilot, you will not only face the lives of hundreds of people, but also be timid and don't want to go, but you will have to continue under the threat of others. With the help of others, I managed to land. How many lives you care about, you will be afraid and remember for a lifetime. It's not easy to say "I'm too difficult" right away.

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I'm so stressed. Although it is a popular network language, it is also a true portrayal of social life. People have difficulties from time to time in their lives. Looking at all the people around them is a constant topic. Everyone has difficulties, and it is difficult for people to accompany them all their lives. It is difficult to study, earn money to support the family, survive, and get sick when you are old. On the other hand, people grow and develop in overcoming numerous difficulties, feel powerful in overcoming and facing difficulties, and enjoy success and pride in overcoming difficulties and crises. Life is hard, so we should face it calmly, work hard, make progress and do our duty, and make life a bright person. The cause is difficult, we should live up to our mission, contribute to the society, serve the people, and be a famous person wholeheartedly. We should be brave enough to bear the difficulties of dreams, open the way for reform, go through fire and water for national rejuvenation, and be a person forever and ever. As the saying goes, difficulties are like a spring. Weak is strong. Difficulties and difficulties are not absolute, but relative. It depends on your specific performance. It's too difficult. It's better to say less.

In fact, this sentence is also called spiritual suggestion. There are many difficulties ahead. Crush one's head and move forward, and naturally there will be a strong inner guarantee. That's what the ancients said, that is, they don't give in and leave no room. Throughout the historical development, there are countless heroes who have died and died. What is the upper limit of human potential? It is unknown at present, so it is unknown how hard it will be to stop moving forward, so don't make excuses for your difficulties. It will pass after a while, and it doesn't matter if you reflect on the difficulties that happened today tomorrow. It was just too difficult at that time. There is a good saying, stand up again in the most difficult time, the sunny day is just around the corner, and the bitter side of eating is the master.

Maybe it's just the current situation, the state it's in, it's really difficult, just use one word to describe the hardship of life to summarize the situation.

I think it is too difficult to become a buzzword, which is in line with the situation of many people at present. Life is so hard. No one's life is easy and difficult. It is a test and washing in life.

Sometimes the more difficult it is, the more difficult it is. In fact, because it is too close, I always feel that it suits me and applies to all problems. Even if it is not a problem, what happened in the small corner can still be said to be full of difficulties. The word "difficult" is a generalization of large and small, so life is difficult and we are all difficult.

Want to open a little, so what if it's difficult? Life is different, not only for you, but also for everyone.

The antonym of hard is easy! Difficult and easy actually need to be compared to reflect! For example, if you carry 50 kilograms of rice upstairs and compare it with a kindergarten child, then the hard and easy effect will come out immediately! Therefore, when there is no reference and comparison, those things are too difficult for me, whether it is the real reality that makes me feel difficult or what I imagined. This is really impossible to judge!

If you only treat this sentence as a kind of humor to entertain yourself, then it is just a description! I'm too cruel! This sentence itself does not contain any other metaphorical meaning!

What's the difficulty? It's hard not to fulfill your wishes! It is difficult to solve the current problem by yourself! It's hard when you can't change the status quo! But we mean those excellent, hardworking and persistent people, and the final result is achieved! We haven't mentioned the present situation of people who are more difficult than themselves and are also struggling in the sea of suffering! So most people's judgment is that their difficulties are bigger than the sky!

To say it's hard, there are several easy things in the adult world! Decades ago, when no one cried, someone would comfort you and say, don't think too much, go home and sleep! In the war years, the most common scene is that this time there may be no return! I believe that no matter how noble the faith is, he will also be attached to this world! It's just the overwhelming power of faith that makes them fight to the death! Aren't they difficult? Compared with people who live in the present, it is really difficult for them to take the lead and die in the battlefield! No one rewarded the house, no one rewarded the car, no one rewarded the RMB, and even in the most difficult time, the stomach was not full! Has anyone compared the present life with the state decades ago?

Some people may say, alas, different ages can't be compared at all! Yes, times have changed! At that time, it was the stage of defending the country, and now it is the stage of rapid development! Then every different stage will bear the influence of different times and backgrounds! During the war, there must be people who don't want to go to the battlefield, but if they don't fight for their country, they will die! Because intruders will kill you, too! The facts have also been proved! This is the influence of that era!

In this era, there are fewer and fewer bitter feelings! So many people have never experienced it at all, and it is not easy to be a ghost! So when they encounter setbacks and difficulties, they feel too difficult! Everything has obstacles, nothing goes well, and everything is too difficult! If you want me to see it, this is the origin of the difficult experience! The ability is not enough and the requirements are too high!

The ideal is far away, but it must be realistic! I can't read, but I set an ideal to win Nobel Prize in Literature. Is this a reality? But if you can fight for this goal for 50 years, you may still get this award at the age of 70! It can be realized again! But it takes time, effort and cold treatment! But are people like this now? Seeing someone become a manager at the age of 30 and a clerk at the age of 29, I thought to myself, I work eight hours a day without even a team leader. It's too difficult for me! I don't earn as much money as others. It's too difficult for me! The house and car bought by my parents are not as good as others'. It's too difficult for me! My wife and father-in-law can't count on it either. It's too difficult for me! If someone always looks at things like this, it will always be too difficult for him!

Everyone is constantly paying, running and working hard to realize their ideals! It's just that the degree of this effort varies from person to person, more or less! When I say this, it is too difficult for me to ask myself first, have you 100% made up your mind? Have you tried 100%? Have you started 100% operation? I'm imagining everything. What else can I say? It's too difficult.

I have never said this sentence, including similar words. Although I have reached middle age, I still maintain an optimistic attitude. I think it's better not to say it often, because if you keep saying it, it's tantamount to brainwashing yourself, and it's easy to remember and recall all kinds of unpleasant things. This will only increase the pressure and worry, so I can't face life rationally and solve the problem. In the long run, I may leave a mental illness. If I tease myself to vent my emotions and occasionally say it as seasoning, that's another matter. In fact, honest and responsible people are under great pressure and it is not easy to live. However, all the difficulties will not be reduced because I am too difficult, so I should decompress correctly and face life positively!

In this world, people struggle for life, and if they live, they will die. It is not difficult to live, but it is difficult to live. This is the most difficult of the three realms. If you want to live, you are not afraid of hardships. Poor people are not afraid of difficulties. It will be sweet when you are young and sweet when you are old. I hope you don't be afraid of difficulties. Hard is sweet. Don't be afraid of difficulties, learn from foolish men and move mountains. It is not difficult to overcome the difficulties in my heart. There are no difficulties in life.

To tell the truth, solving a thing or a problem is not difficult at first, but if you keep thinking about it in your mind or talking about it, "I am too difficult, I am too difficult", it will become more and more difficult to solve that thing and that problem after a long time.

Psychologically speaking, this phenomenon is influenced by preconceptions, which is consistent with the first cause effect. This is a congenital defect of human cognition, just like an illusion. The first cause effect refers to the influence of the impression formed by the initial contact information on our future behavior and evaluation, in fact, it refers to the influence of the "first impression"

In fact, difficulty and ease are relative. One thing is difficult for me now, but it will become easy after a while. So what you think is difficult is not necessarily really difficult. Only by seriously overcoming the first cause effect and dependence psychology can we get rid of confusion and face a happy life with a smile!

First of all, when I say this, I will feel impatient and lose confidence in some things, and I will be on the verge of collapse. The more you think like this, the less you can face the reality, the less confident you are, and the less you can handle things. We all encounter such troubles in our lives. Some people seem "indifferent", indicating that they have the ability to solve difficulties and obstacles, or have a certain psychological quality. They don't talk about difficulties, but are quietly looking for opportunities to minimize major issues and minimize minor issues. Of course, for others, they can't stand suffering, and they can't stand suffering. In the past, their parents supported them. If they live independently, they can't stand the wind and waves. They often throw "I am too difficult" to others, and their thoughts have long been scattered. If they don't establish a firm belief, even if they pass this level, they will be knocked down by the next level. Will someone protect you all your life? Such an attitude towards life is unacceptable. You know, all difficulties are "paper tigers". If you go up, there will be no difficulty. If you are timid, the difficulties will get bigger and bigger. Look at life correctly, and life will return everything to you!