We thought that children can't live without their parents, but parents can't live without their children.

Yesterday morning, I went to my sister's house for breakfast. After eating Niu Bao and Brother Niu, I played at my sister's house. Niu Ge suddenly said that he was unwell and had a fever. I don't know what happened during this time. This is the third time in half a month. As far as I can remember, I haven't been sick for at least five years, so I have to go home and wash his taekwondo clothes.

I told Niu Bao to let her play at my aunt's house, and I'm going back to wash my brother's Taekwondo clothes. Besides, it is raining outside, so it is not convenient to take her. Niu Bao agreed.

I spent almost an hour washing my Taekwondo suit and doing some cleaning. I was afraid that Niu Bao would miss me crying at my sister's house, so I went to her house at once. As soon as I opened the door, I saw Niu Bao having fun with Brother Mouse. How could I miss me?

I suddenly feel very funny. I can't seem to live without my children! I usually hate that they are too attached to me, but every time I leave, I miss them too much. I remember that once Niu Ge went back to my grandmother's house for two days, and my colleagues laughed at me for being emotional.

1. Niu Ge is at grandma's house.

Niu Ge was sent to her grandmother's house when she was 1 1 month old, and asked her for help. It was not until Niu Ge was two years old that she was brought back to us. I was only 23 years old then. I'm too young. When I first brought it back, I suddenly felt so relaxed that I finally had a chance to be alone. As a result, I began to miss Niu Ge in less than a month.

Fortunately, New Year's Day holiday will be held in less than a month. I was so excited that I ran to the door and saw Niu Ge coming out to meet us. I was so excited that I picked up Niu Ge. As a result, Niu Ge cried. He didn't know us, and my heart suddenly cooled. After all, "blood is thicker than water", and after a while, we began to make out with us.

I stayed at home for two days, and my feelings with Brother Niu quickly warmed up. On the way back to Shenzhen, my father took us to the intersection, but Niu Ge and my mother drove a little slower. When I saw it coming, I told Liu to drive away quickly, for fear that the children would not let us go.

When we drove around the corner, I remembered the scene of Niu Ge crying and clamoring for her mother. I quickly called my mother and asked how Niu Ge was doing. I am very disappointed with this answer. My mother said, "Look at you leaving, he went to play by himself!" " "

I really overestimated our position in Niu Ge's mind. In an instant, Liu laughed, but I was in distress situation. How can a son do this? The plot on TV is not like this. In fact, when Niu Ge lived at her grandmother's house, we went back at least once a month, sometimes even once every half a month. Niu Ge is used to it. When he left, we took the initiative to say goodbye. On the contrary, sometimes I cry for no reason as soon as I turn the corner.

Second, I play in Japan.

Due to the excellent performance of 20 17, I got a place to hold an annual meeting in Shanghai headquarters and travel to Japan for a week. At first, I was very excited. This is the first time I've been married for 9 years to go out to play alone. When Niu Ge and Niu Bao heard this, they said they wanted to go, too. I told them it was impossible. This is a company event, they can't bring their families, and Niu Ge has to go to school.

To tell the truth, I am very happy when I play during the day, and I have no consideration for my children at all. Only in the video at night, Niu Bao said in her gentle and lovely voice, "Mom, I miss you. When will you come back? " Then my heart melted in her voice and my thoughts began to spread. I miss them so much that I can't wait to go back to them at once.

Chatting suddenly felt something was wrong, so only Liu Dada's voice was left. Yes, that's what you think. "Your son and daughter are eating grapefruit and watching TV, so they won't pay attention to you." Liu Dada told me. The weather in Japan in March is already very cold, and I feel even colder in an instant. Fortunately, the hot springs in Japan are still very good, warming me with hot springs.

In the next few days, whenever I see a place selling toys and gadgets, I must search for something suitable for them, thinking that I can attract their attention with gifts at night and talk to me more. I was so frightened by my own ideas that I was reduced to bribing the two children with gifts.

There's nothing I can do. I thought of that scene before I called. When these two children received my phone call, they told me that they missed me very much and cried and clamored for me to come back soon, especially Niu Bao. One is that Niu Bao is still young, and the other is that Niu Bao left me for the first time since she was born. She left for a week. Who knows that I overestimated my position in their hearts again.

Is this a woman's emotional side? Everything will be imagined in my head first, but reality slaps us in the face? Fortunately, this is his own. If you change to Liu Da, the treatment is definitely not like this. Isn't Liu Da very wronged?

Third, Niu Ge Summer Camp.

Last summer, I gave Niu Ge a 14-day summer camp, thinking that Niu Ge could learn to live independently in the summer camp. I didn't check the relevant information of summer camp in advance myself, but I signed up for the night care institution in Niu Ge, mainly because I trusted the night care institution, and the result was not satisfactory. Later, I learned that it was a night care institution.

This summer camp is the first time that Niu Ge left us since he stayed with us for so long. He began to worry that he could not adapt to the life in the summer camp because he was all unknown friends and teachers. There is a fixed telephone conversation time every day, which is just five minutes. Liu Da and I are looking forward to sharing these five minutes with Niu Ge.

The plot is reversed again. Liu and I remind each other of each other's phone time. Every time I get to the point, I either can't get in, or the signal is not good, or no one even answers. We are in a hurry. As a result, after each call, Niu Ge "cherishes words like gold", and three good words sent us away.

I work hard, too. In order to know more about the summer camp in Niu Ge, I began to pay attention to daytime activities, so that I could talk more with Brother Niu on the phone. As a result, he "did a good job". Sent us away.

Until the day of camping, I was frightened by Niu Ge's deep and big dark circles. As soon as Niu Ge got on the bus, he began to sleep until the next night, got up to eat something and went back to sleep. There are scratches on the neck. What happened to him at the summer camp made him sleep for 42 hours.

Suddenly found that the child grew up, even if he was wronged outside, he didn't say a word to us on the phone. Before this comparison, I always overestimated myself, but Liu changed a lot. He can remember the time of this call, and every time he calls, no matter what he does, he will definitely stop and talk to Brother Niu.

Perhaps this is "a curse in happiness, a curse in misfortune". From then on, I began to live as a full-time mother, and Niu Ge didn't go to the night nursery. Without post-tutoring, under my own occasional guidance, Niu Ge's grades rose steadily and her personality became cheerful. Maybe this is the power of companionship.

Are these situations familiar? Do you feel deja vu? These feelings can only be understood by parents. Every time we think that children can't live without us, we will imagine many pictures of them missing us, and imagine that we all think it is true. So, we are deeply immersed in our own thoughts about children.

We all think that children are too young to live without their parents. In fact, we have to admit that children are stronger than us and cannot do without our parents.

This is actually worth our reflection. We treat our children like this. What about our parents? Is it the same as what the children did to us? Please give children more space and parents more company.

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