When you are in the workplace, you must learn to treat these people well.

When you are in the workplace, no matter how many troubles and unfair treatment you encounter, you will always have a place to settle down.

When you calm down and look at your company from a rational and objective perspective, you will find that what your company gives you is far more than just a salary.

Therefore, you must learn to be kind, especially to these people.

01

Be kind to people who are strict with you.

"A strict teacher will make a good disciple." Those who are willing to be strict with you in the workplace are rare noble people.

Maybe he will be extremely picky about your work, always pointing out your shortcomings and areas for improvement, and rarely affirming and praising you, but this kind of rigorous, meticulous, realistic and serious The attitude and 100% execution ability in the face of rules and systems are actually the foundation for a person to gain a foothold in the workplace.

Let’s watch the interview about Dong Mingzhu. When she speaks and acts, she gives people the feeling of being ruthless, investigating thoroughly, and leaving no blind spots. This approach of perfecting the work and maximizing product quality has, from the very beginning, surpassed a group of people who want to perfunctory and cut corners.

In order for a person to go far in the workplace, he must have his own "core competitiveness". If you are not good at interpersonal communication and work tirelessly to maintain various relationships, then it is better to be a "technical control" in a down-to-earth manner.

When your professional expertise far exceeds that of your peers, your reputation will spread like wildfire and you will no longer need to please others. Higher platforms in the industry will actively offer you an olive branch. .

Therefore, meeting a leader or colleague who strictly demands you is a good mentor you meet on the road of life. As long as you

02

be kind and willing to ask for help, Point your people.

"A fence has three stakes, a hero has three gangs." When you are at work, if someone is willing to give you some advice, it is like finding a "living dictionary", which can save you a lot of detours.

If you want to get advice from "experts", you must be diligent and studious, and just ask if you don't understand.

For example, as a new teacher, how to manage classes and how to communicate with parents is a very profound knowledge. The theoretical knowledge learned in school is not enough. .

At this time, those colleagues with many years of teaching experience are the best guides. When encountering certain specific scenarios, there are lessons learned from experience on how to seize educational opportunities and demonstrate educational wisdom. If one of them always gives you kind reminders, or comes to you to tell you how they dealt with it, this is an unqualified reminder.

You must not take this as a joke or deliberately looking for trouble. You have to listen with an open mind and learn from others. Maybe one day, you will be better than others. Until then, you must never forget the help they gave you.

03

Be kind to the person who criticizes you.

There is a saying: 90% of your achievements are caused by the enemy.

When you are in the workplace, there will always be some people with different views who will become your "dead enemies". Whatever you do, they will slander you; no matter how well you do and are recognized by your leaders, they will become more jealous and make trouble behind your back. If you slack off even a little bit, they will have the ability to see through everything and leave you nowhere to hide.

The person who criticizes you is most likely your immediate boss. He cannot see that you are better than him and cannot bear to see that you stand out in every situation. Therefore, he is full of jealousy and hatred and tries his best to suppress you. You, belittle you, hoping that you will never get ahead.

With colleagues like this, I feel extremely depressed, and I always feel constrained while doing my work.

But when you are still young, you must not break up with them. You must hold back your bad emotions and work hard to make yourself impeccable.

In fact, you should regard such a person as your best supervisor, urging you to improve your skills and manage your connections well. Because only when you have enough strength to achieve a gorgeous turn, is the best counterattack against those who criticize you.

04

Be kind to those who are weaker than yourself.

Only a person who has reached the bottom of his life can see the truest human nature: when a person is weak, there are the most bad people around him. Even if he had nothing to do with them, he would not forget to cast contemptuous glances and even spit harshly.

In the workplace, those who are not welcome, those who are honest and cowardly, will be bullied by their bosses and other colleagues, both covertly and covertly. They often have to do more work, especially dirty work and tiring work. They will also suffer more grievances, and anyone can point fingers at them, deliberately make things difficult for them, ridicule them, or, of course, openly throw dirty water on them.

So there is a common phenomenon that "the first level of officialdom suppresses people to death, and the higher level suppresses the next level."

Many people are both victims and perpetrators, and very few people can escape and stop "fixing" others.

A truly promising person, a person with lofty ambitions, will never follow such an "old path". They know how to protect themselves and how to maintain the self-esteem of those who are weaker than themselves.

It is this rare warmth that allows those who are "little words" to become friends. After going through many hardships and becoming successful, they can gain the most true friendship.

Conclusion: In the workplace, there are always some people and things that move people.

As a newcomer in the workplace, no matter how good the company is, you must work hard and strive upward. No matter how bad the company is, you must develop the ability to think beyond the present.

Therefore, instead of complaining and complaining, we should be kind to those who also express kindness to us with a grateful heart.

Because, one day, hard work will be rewarded, hard work will be rewarded, and life will usher in a new turning point.

Author: As light as the wind and as light as the clouds.

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