How to tell the difference between a woman’s truth and a joke

I think

It is not appropriate to say truthful words in joking words. If the tone is joking, the truthful words may become more like a joke.

Whether it is on TV or in movies, we see some similar scenes, because you can look at the whole story from a macro perspective, so you know that the joke is true. For example, Sometimes a person casually says, I love you. If you have seen the previous plot, you know that he really loves this girl secretly, but when he jokes about loving her, they don't take it seriously. Even when it is a joke, we know that he is just telling the truth.

But in fact, in life, often no one can grasp your plot in advance. They don’t know how much you love yourself privately, so when you jokingly say that you love her, she will really I think you are joking, or better yet, I think you are just testing.

In this case, if you are pursuing other girls, you will lose more than you gain. It's easy to miss the opportunity to pursue someone because they can't see through it. So I feel that if there is a true truth that needs to be said jokingly, it would be the I hate you kind of thing, because the person you love knows that you really hate yourself.

My friend used to be such a person. His husband would record videos with him and play short videos, like "How long has it been since you said you loved me?" My husband said not to say such hurtful things. What do you think? It's a joke, but I mean it. Really! When an old couple says this, it really hurts their feelings. They have been together for many years, and they have to talk about their love. I think it is really unnecessary. It is the behavior of childish people.

If people don’t love you, they have ignored you for a long time. They have already lived with you, and you still want them to say they love you. What else is this?

I used to have a friend like this, which made her husband very annoyed.

Her husband worked in the company, and she required that any phone calls must be answered immediately. However, when she called during a meeting, her husband picked up the phone and whispered to her that there would be another meeting later. Hit again.

When she knew about it, she unconsciously asked her husband to have sex and then hang up. Her husband was petrified at the time and didn’t know what to do, but she didn’t react and even asked on the phone why not Bo, are you in a meeting again? The colleagues next to you looked away, and her husband was embarrassed and hung up. As a result, he kept calling and calling me, which made him quite unhappy.

In fact, I think young people nowadays really need to grasp the scale when it comes to romance. Sometimes it’s good for your husband to flirt with you on the phone. It has to be like a TV show. Only if your husband is the boss of a company can you do this. Play, if he is a wage earner or a middle-level cadre, doing this in meetings will make others very disgusted and even become a joke. Why bother doing this? What do you think?