What happened to those who didn't work, do housework or cook since childhood?

If you know more than others, you will gain points in others' eyes, but if you don't know anything, you will definitely lose points!

When I was a child, my father said, "Children from poor families should take care of themselves as soon as possible." Every time I hear this sentence, I know I must start working. What should I do? Who likes work? Who doesn't like lying down watching TV and playing games? Who is not angry and who is not wronged when watching the children in the neighborhood playing but working? With what?

I have listened to this sentence for 20 years, and now I have a new experience at the age of 20. In college, I saw people who couldn't take care of themselves. I see people who only know how to eat but don't know how to cook. I have seen that people who have suffered since childhood are happier than those who know nothing. Facts have proved that the phrase "children from poor families take care of themselves early" is really reasonable.

I have a cousin, because my uncle's family was very rich when I was a child, and my sister was the kind of spoiled girl. She is five years older than me, but she doesn't work much and doesn't stay overnight, so she has no chance to cultivate her self-care ability. They didn't get married until she went out to work and made a boyfriend. I thought her life was going well, but I didn't expect her to get divorced a year later. The reason for the divorce is that my cousin can't do housework. At first, my cousin's mother-in-law said with a smile, what is it that you can't do housework? Learn slowly. I began to dislike my cousin after only one year. She is allowed to do everything, and when things get out, others will laugh at her. My cousin is also very sad. Maybe she was fed up with her mother-in-law's nagging and divorced decisively, but it's a pity that the relationship is so divorced.

There is such a great god in my family. She is my own aunt, and she is 49 years old. She doesn't work, she doesn't do housework, she doesn't cook, and everything else is fine, which can be said to be impeccable.

My aunt is seven years younger than my uncle. She belongs to my aunt's village. When she/kloc-was 0/9 years old, my aunt and my father tricked her into marrying my 26-year-old uncle. When they got married, I wore new clothes and picked her up with a red rooster in my arms. The best preserved eggs and bean jelly in my memory are my uncle and aunt's wedding banquet.

In the first few years of marriage, my family and my uncle's family were not separated, and my grandfather was in charge. My grandfather asked my mother to teach my aunt how to cook, steam steamed buns, make buns, make jiaozi, roll noodles and stir fry. After studying for a period of time, she thought it was good to cook for her family. The cooking is boiled and salty. After the noodles are cooked, they can stand in a bowl. My grandfather looked at them and frowned. I took a bite, poured it into my dad's bowl, and ran across the hall to eat at grandpa's house.

Since then, my mother has not allowed her to cook. Let her make a fire and sweep the floor. My mother giggled at her. My grandfather said my aunt, sweeping the floor is like drawing a beard for your grandfather, with a broom in the east and a broom in the west.

Later, Uncle menstruation went to the city to work hard, got pregnant and gave birth to a sister. My mother went to look after the baby and then went home. After a while, I went again, and my sister fell asleep at the back of her head. My mother is angry and anxious, and a good daughter will have a crooked head in the future. I took her mother home, and grandpa shook his head and sighed when he saw his granddaughter's head was flat.

My aunt was at home until my sister was weaned, and she didn't go out until she was 2 years old. When I gave birth to my younger brother, I took him home directly for labor. I was born in a mine hospital, and menstruation didn't go out until he was 2 years old. My parents raised my brother and sister. Sister and brother always say that they grew up on their brother's back.

My uncle wants to build a house in his hometown, and the old house has a narrow homestead, so my dad asked the village Committee to give him a homestead in the back row of my house. When they came back, they put down a piece of paper, looked at the children and left. My father looked after the house and built it. My uncle didn't settle accounts with my father until he came home for the Spring Festival. Every time they go home to eat and drink, it's at my house.

My uncle is doing business outside, but he said he would stop doing it in two years. He will go home to support the elderly and accompany my uncle, aunt, parents and others. Affected by the epidemic this year, my uncle took care of the company and went home. I still eat and drink at my house every day, but now I don't burn wood and cook. Aunt is responsible for choosing, washing and cutting vegetables at home every day, and mother is responsible for cooking.

Although my aunt can't cook, her housework is terrible. My uncle said that she is a good businessman and my aunt has helped him a lot in recent years. Besides, she is very filial. My grandfather was very kind to my grandfather when he was alive. She is also very kind to my uncle, aunt, uncle, aunt and uncle. For 30 years, she and my mother have never been red-faced, and they don't even talk. At home, my sister-in-law is always short of her sister-in-law My mother said that her ears were covered with cocoons, and she giggled, saying that you don't call me sister-in-law, and I'm not afraid of cocoons, and then she giggled.

She belongs to the kind of person who seems heartless. In fact, her emotional intelligence and IQ are quite high. She knows how to maintain all aspects of the relationship and control the balance. She clearly distinguishes the intimacy of the relationship and never gives offence. Among our elders, her peers and our younger generation all like her. For our younger generation, she is often like a bosom elder sister. But we made a mistake. She is a strict elder.

Her children are all fine. My daughter graduated from graduate school, and my son joined the army from the university this year and became a PLA soldier. Her children are also very filial.

Last year, when I needed some money, I called her. She only asked me what I needed money for, whether it was enough, and told me that as long as I did it right, she would support me. I wanted to give her an iou and mail it to her, but she gave me a good scolding, saying that what was owed by others and what was owed by others? If she accepts my iou, my uncle, brother and sister will scold her. I was embarrassed to borrow money from her for the first time. Many of her advantages have influenced me to some extent.

I have such friends around me. I feel that they are very reasonable, never haggle over every ounce, and very filial. People like them are basically happy.

My grandmother died early, and I haven't seen her. )

My sister-in-law, who has six or seven sisters and brothers, has been spoiled and idle since childhood. Later, my aunts got married one after another, and my grandmother died. She lives alone with my grandfather and daughter. Although sometimes I cook for two people, most of the time my grandfather cooks for them. She does almost nothing but take care of her shoes and wash clothes at home.

Later, someone introduced an object to my sister-in-law, a soldier in our village. Before getting married, the soldier liked to go to grandpa's house to chat with his sister-in-law during family leave. He likes my sister-in-law very much. They got married soon after they changed jobs.

My sister-in-law is really a soldier of the people. She can do anything and won't let her do anything. My brother-in-law contracted everything from going out to earn money and doing farm work in the fields to cleaning and cooking at home. Sister-in-law is still at home with Nana Sol, and then gossips with the woman next door at the entrance of the hutong. Day after day, I spend my time doing nothing.

After such a day, it will be twenty years. One year, my brother-in-law's strong body became unwell. Going to the hospital is cirrhosis, which developed from hepatitis B in the early years. After my uncle learned of his illness, he didn't listen to the doctor and took more rest. Instead, he stepped up his efforts to make money and work. Don't want to have a rest. But obviously, my uncle's health is getting worse every day.

/kloc-in the winter of 0/998, my uncle went out to do business early. On his way back, he was hit by a truck driver in a neighboring village. Passers-by and drivers took him to the county hospital, and the doctor suggested an operation at once. But after cutting open the stomach, the doctor found the problem. My uncle has suffered from severe hepatic ascites. Even if nothing happens, people will not live long. The doctor didn't do anything but sew it again. The driver of this family is unlucky. I don't know which life I owed my sister-in-law and uncle, but I paid my debts in this life.

After the brother-in-law left, my sister-in-law cried so hard that she didn't recover for a long time. Without the pillar of the family, this family really seems to be falling apart. My sister-in-law was 48 years old that year, an embarrassing age. Many relatives advised her to find another one, but her sister-in-law always remembered that her uncle was kind to her and insisted on not finding another object until now.

But life has to live! She immediately realized how hard it was to live without her uncle. At the most difficult time, two of the three children dropped out of school, and eldest sister-in-law took her eldest daughter to work in the south for two years. My sister-in-law learned all the housework and farm work that she had never done before. Not only that, my sister-in-law also learned to go out to make money for her second daughter to go to school without help from others.

Now my sister-in-law is 60 years old. The eldest daughter works in a bank and the son works in the electric power department. On the contrary, the most promising second daughter, who doesn't study well, works at home. But my sister-in-law is doing well. No son, daughter-in-law or daughter-in-law does not respect her. My sister-in-law has nothing to do, so she shows it to the children.

So I think that just because I didn't know anything and did nothing when I was a child doesn't necessarily mean that my life is good. People always talk to the mountains about what to do and what songs to sing. No one knows where things will go in the future.