Sour grapes and sweet grapes

In Aesop's fable, a fox wants to eat grapes, but he can't reach them. So I comforted myself and said, "Grapes are sour, so what's delicious?" So I calmly walked away. Although I didn't eat grapes, I was greatly comforted and relieved my disappointment and pain.

Whenever the poor see celebrities, great wealth, family conflicts or physical problems, it is a great comfort.

Reading biographies of celebrities, in which the hardships of celebrities are also a good medicine to relieve anxiety.

You don't have to pretend to be lofty. It is common for people to laugh when they are angry.

People can tolerate poverty, but neighbors, classmates, relatives and people around them, especially those who used to be as good as you or even worse than you, get rich and live better than you. This is the most intolerable thing.

So the media has provided us with a lot of news that "the enemy is getting worse every day".

Drinking coke makes people old. A 7-year-old child will grow up to be like a 70-year-old man. A typhoon hit the United States, causing many deaths, and the president of the United States was opposed and questioned.

I have seen more, I am really happy, and my happiness has greatly increased.

Contrary to sour grape psychology, but not so widely spread, there is sweet grape psychology.

Sweet grape psychology, it is said that a group of monkeys came to the Woods and suddenly found the grape trellis. An agile monkey jumped forward, picked a bunch and put it in his mouth.

It was so terrible that he almost didn't cry. However, under the eyes of the public, the monkey choked back tears and squeezed out a smiling face and said, "The grapes are so sweet!" " "

It's called losing your teeth and swallowing. It's not that I can't feel pain, but that watching my own jokes can't make people around me happy.

Last year, the popular online ridicule was: "If you are unhappy, just say it to make everyone happy."

Therefore, in addition to "the enemy is getting worse every day", the media also has the news that "we are getting better every day".

Every year, every month and every day, there are exciting news, such as the shortage of orders after the start of the trade war, the bumper harvest of agriculture, the sharp increase in residents' income compared with last year, and the decline in house prices. .............

It is said that drinking Wang Laoji can make people live longer.

What happens in the world has no influence on people, but what affects people is the view of what happens.

Some experts have concluded (I don't believe it anyway) that happiness and happiness are not the same thing. In ancient China, there were many anecdotes that celebrities ate vegetable roots better than chicken, duck and fish.

I hope I can reach that level, and my humble abode is also very happy, but I am really sorry for this era.