How to write your thoughts after reading the story about the little bear being chased by bees?

I have read "The Reason the Bee Chases the Bear" and was deeply moved.

Summary of the story:

A little girl drew a picture titled "Bees Chasing Little Bears". She asked her father, mother, grandfather and grandmother to guess the little bees. Why chase the bear. The whole family guessed: "The little bear stole the honey; the little bear trampled on the flowers; the little bear bullied the bees; the little bear broke the beehive." The little girl pouted and said: "You are all wrong! Don't think too much of the little bear. Is it so bad? That’s because the bear’s skirt looks like flowers!”

When I read the beginning of the story, I guessed several answers, but when I saw the end, I was deeply shocked. . It turns out that there is such a big difference in thinking between adults and children. In the eyes of children, they view everything as simple and beautiful. However, in our adult world, we think of the little bear so badly. It seems that only bees who do bad things can chase the little bear out of revenge. Is it that adults only think of bears and bees as animals and insects too concretely, or are we unwilling to truly enter the innocent and pure hearts of children with a childlike innocence?

Of course, one has Adults with rich experience think this way, and adults will not think there is anything special or wrong. But it is this kind of sophisticated judgment that widens the distance between you and your child. Children need the guidance and care of adults, and at the same time, we need to be able to communicate with her without any obstacles and with a heart full of love. Warm our children.

This little story also reminds me of an interesting incident between my daughter and I. One day my husband and I packed up items that we had not used before. My daughter suddenly picked up a full-moon photo of her and asked: Is this a photo of me when I was a child? I smiled and said: Yes! Then she picked up a very small baby clothes on the ground: Mom, is this the clothes I wore in your belly when I was a child? My husband and I were both stunned when asked, and then we both laughed and bent over. Later, I told her that there was no need to wear clothes when she was in her mother’s belly. Her belly was very warm and the baby was very comfortable in it! Clothes are worn after the baby is born. My daughter looked at me with a vague understanding. I found this question very funny. I also felt my daughter’s newly developed childish language and budding concrete image thinking, as well as her childish little questions.

In fact, in the eyes of children, such problems are normal. If a very small child wears very small clothes, the baby must have been very small when he was in the mother's belly, so the very small baby clothes will naturally It became the clothes worn in mother’s belly. Children's cognitive abilities are limited. Children do not know that much common sense and can only explain the phenomena they see within the scope of their existing cognition. However, just because children are naive, there are so many cute little jokes. It has brought us a gift more precious than anything else, that is happiness! So we have to treat the child as a child, a child in the true sense. When communicating with her, we need to change our way of thinking and treat her as a peer of her age, so that we can have more content to communicate with and help adults and children become good friends who talk about everything. Suddenly I thought of what Teacher Yu Dan said on a talk show a few days ago: Accompany your children as they grow. In fact, I think this companionship is of far-reaching significance. First of all, you must respect the child and treat the child as your partner; secondly, you must give the child a certain space and allow the child to make mistakes. If the child makes a mistake, do not blame the child blindly, but comfort the child when he is hurt. After the mind. In addition, children should be allowed to create their own happiness instead of enjoying ready-made happiness. Happiness is a process. I think that in the process of creating happiness, children will enjoy a deeper happiness than the happiness itself.

School has started, and as a teacher, I will return to the children. Writing this article is to reorganize my educational philosophy. Colorful duckweed