Outgoing lonely patient

There is a kind of person who is very sociable and popular in daily life. He looks outgoing, but in fact he is lonely. Friends can always comfort each other when they encounter unhappy things, but when they encounter worries, it seems that no one talks to them. This kind of people belong to extroverted lonely patients.

Loneliness is not the same as loneliness. Loneliness can make people feel bored. Even in a bustling city, they will still feel empty around them, because they can't find the right person to accompany their hearts, so they will feel lonely. In contrast, loneliness is a more detached feeling. You can party alone, travel alone and think alone. Lonely people are not lonely, they have their own unique thoughts and beliefs, which can make their hearts settle down, find themselves and taste themselves.

I am outgoing, but I also enjoy loneliness. Psychologist Adler believes that people's lack of personality is related to their childhood experiences. Indeed, I began to be surrounded by loneliness when I was very young. At first, I was afraid of this strange feeling because I was still young. When you grow up, you know the value of loneliness. Long-term work pressure, if there is no time to enjoy life, it is easy to resist the pressure. These pressures can be the project indicators given by superiors, or you can expect too much from yourself. In this ever-changing era, pressure seems to be the label of life enrichment, because there is no time to stop and feel life, work is life, and life is pressure. In such a long time of fighting pressure, you either choose to give up and escape, or choose to face it stubbornly. At this time, if you choose to face it stubbornly, it will be lonely for a long time, because you have no time to spend with your family, get together with friends, and cultivate your hobbies; There is only one person in the world. You need to constantly precipitate yourself, think about everything that needs to improve your skills, think about the meaning of your existence, and how to make your life more meaningful, instead of living yourself as a slave to money. This requires us to have strong beliefs and beliefs to support all this.

I am not born lonely, I just enjoy loneliness. In fact, I am talkative and love to laugh. I also tell some boring jokes to entertain the public, which is a happy fruit in the crowd. When there are many people, I can quickly integrate into the group. When I am alone, I can quickly turn my thoughts into my own small world. In that small world, I am the only protagonist. I can enjoy silence, make my body lazy, make my mind empty and enrich my mind.

There will always be a time in a year when extroverted lonely patients want to vent themselves and isolate themselves from the world without misfortune. They just don't want to talk, but want to lie quietly in the corner, sit quietly and let their brains communicate with their hearts.

Extroverted lonely patients are always indifferent to the people and things outside and keep their hearts in a small box, but they need the warmth of the crowd, so they make themselves as cute and gregarious as possible in the crowd. They care about the people they want to care about, but they are also eager for each other to have a deeper understanding of themselves, but they are afraid of being seen through at a glance. Just like reading a book, they need to read it quietly and carefully, instead of looking directly at the preface and the finale and ignoring all the details in the middle.

Outgoing lonely patients seem to have many friends. When friends are in trouble, they can always make suggestions and analyze problems like wise men. When they encounter unhappy things, they find that they have nowhere to talk, not because they are unwilling to talk, but because they are used to listening and want to talk to others, but they seem unable to express themselves. Because their hearts are too strong, they all understand the truth, they can completely heal themselves, just to deceive themselves for a while.

I am not born lonely, but an extroverted lonely patient who enjoys loneliness. I am a person who is destined to be alone for a long time, but I never tire of it, and no one can break in!